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RE: Advice on a first 24/7 visit... - 11/14/2007 4:01:35 PM

LadyLynx

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I feel very concerned by this. I understand that she has trouble due to illness, but not only do you not know her, she doesn't know you! lol. you could be an axe murderer! There are several pieces of excellant advice, I especially love the advice of waiting a year. My advice.....help her find another place to live, renting a small room/apt. help her find a job/ or maybe see if there is some kind of welfare, social security,etc services. How much does she really like cleaning? maybe she could be a maid for lifestyle households. I would suggest that you be a friend to her 1st, but I suspect it is already to late for that. Anyways, hopefully she would be understanding of these concerns. I hope ya keep us posted.

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RE: Advice on a first 24/7 visit... - 11/14/2007 4:29:05 PM

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Please... I'm not moving her in right away.

After a first meeting, I'm inviting her down for a visit for a few days. I want to check compatibility before I go any farther at the very least.

I'm asking advice on how to handle having someone visit for DAYS for the first time. I'm very leery of rushing into anything and wanting those with experience to share what I should look out for as indicators things are A> Not on the up and up or B> Really getting ready to go south.

As she is very compliant and submissive, should I assign her chores while she is here? Gad, I could use the help sorting out my boxes of stuff from moving in.

The only things I have planned for her visit really are a motorcycle ride and attending a local munch.

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RE: Advice on a first 24/7 visit... - 11/14/2007 4:47:06 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MercTech

Please... I'm not moving her in right away.

After a first meeting, I'm inviting her down for a visit for a few days. I want to check compatibility before I go any farther at the very least.

I'm asking advice on how to handle having someone visit for DAYS for the first time. I'm very leery of rushing into anything and wanting those with experience to share what I should look out for as indicators things are A> Not on the up and up or B> Really getting ready to go south.

As she is very compliant and submissive, should I assign her chores while she is here? Gad, I could use the help sorting out my boxes of stuff from moving in.

The only things I have planned for her visit really are a motorcycle ride and attending a local munch.

Stefan

It sounds to me like you are more concerned with and excited about having a hot long legged redhead to show off than you are in the D/s possibilities here. ::: shaking my head :::

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RE: Advice on a first 24/7 visit... - 11/14/2007 4:49:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MercTech

Please... I'm not moving her in right away.

After a first meeting, I'm inviting her down for a visit for a few days. I want to check compatibility before I go any farther at the very least.

I'm asking advice on how to handle having someone visit for DAYS for the first time. I'm very leery of rushing into anything and wanting those with experience to share what I should look out for as indicators things are A> Not on the up and up or B> Really getting ready to go south.

As she is very compliant and submissive, should I assign her chores while she is here? Gad, I could use the help sorting out my boxes of stuff from moving in.

The only things I have planned for her visit really are a motorcycle ride and attending a local munch.

Stefan

No offense, but at your age you really do not need to be asking anyone's advice here. You know how to handle yourself when having a guest. I would say that as far as plans go, why don't you make plans that are of the vanilla variety? It is easy to try to plan "play times" but future chemistry can be detected far better, IMO, by just hanging out first.

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RE: Advice on a first 24/7 visit... - 11/15/2007 8:02:09 AM

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Just as others have said go slow. Take the time to find out who she is use caution and follow your gut. Make sure before she comes over that she understands what you expect of her. If you click with her then just have fun with it for a while keep it simple and see how she responds. You know were she is living now? If she trashes your place or turns out to be a psycho hose beast you should have safeguards in place before hand. You wont know until you try. Remember the joy is in the journey not the destination.

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