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Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 2:45:24 PM   
bisub4play


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Status: offline 		I have always found that subtle domination always seemed to really affect me more then complicated D/s scenes. For instance, my previous Domme had several very interesting subtle ways to tease and torment me. If we were out at dinner, she would have me pay and go bring the car up for Her. Then as we drove away, She would tell me she forgot an envelope on our table. I would go in and ask the waitresse if she found it on our table and hopefully get it back. My Mistress would always have kinky pictures in the envelope such as me involved in forced bi situations or dressed in bra's and panties. It was so humiliating retrieving this item and wondering if the waitresse looked inside. Sometimes we would just drive away and my heart would be pounding wondering if I was going to have to go back and ask for my Domme's envelope but then it would turn out she did not leave one this night.

Other time's Mistress would have me in loose fitting pants with a vibrating cock ring on that had a cord attached to a remote control. My Mistress would have control of the remote while we were at dinner or having drinks. The different vibrating speeds under the table inside my pants would always cause me to be totally aroused the entire time. Mistress would send me walking to the bar for drinks and be very amused as I tried to hide my erection. If she left the vibrator on high speed for to long then there was no way I could avoid climaxing in my pants and that created a whole nother very embarrassing situation that Mistress loved.

I am wondering if the Dommes on the site enjoy more subtle forms of domination on a regular basis or if the complicated well pre-planned long scenes please You more and any subs on the site also feel free to respond. It just seems so much easier and fun for the Dommes to enjoy daily subtle scenes with Their subs in a variety of places and situations.  
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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 2:59:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		it depends on my mood and what I want to accomplish, I enjoy both ,neither is better ,they are different and both are part of my repertoire,you know what they say,variety is the spice of life  

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 3:12:59 PM   
bisub4play


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Status: offline 		That is a very good approach Ms. Rope. Do you find that you have certain subtle forms of domination that you particulary like to use regulary or just keep mixing it up and being spontaneous with a situation depending on the circumstances?

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 3:17:06 PM   
Dragynsfury


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Status: offline 		I agree with LadyRope.  Both are equally enjoyable.  I've done the remote thing.  LOVE IT!

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 3:23:12 PM   
bisub4play


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Status: offline 		Thankyou Ms Fury. The remote vibrating cock ring was subtle but very intense while we would be out socializing. I was never allowed to wear underwear and only loose fitting pants. Trying to hide my arousal while walking in a public situation with Mistress smiling the whole time was so humiliating but again so pleasing to Her.

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 3:31:00 PM   
Dragynsfury


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Status: offline 		He mainly wore fitted jeans.  Loose fitting...hmmmmmm

*wicked thought process cranking up*

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 3:33:38 PM   
bisub4play


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Status: offline 		LOL,,I have to admit the worst was wearing loose board shorts in the summer and serving Mistress in that way She enjoyed to be pleased...  (wink)

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 5:21:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		the one time I had a sub use a vibrating cock ring, it split. lol.  but ooooooh I like those ideas! *evil laugh*

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 6:23:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ah, wankerage!  Please continue!

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 7:47:29 PM   
MistressFaye1


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Status: offline 		I mix it up.  To Me that is so much more alluring.  The thrill of seeing the faces of some subs when they think something is up because I ask for seemingly simple tasks to be performed while in public.  Since I change up a lot, there is no way for them to know if this is the day "something" will happen or not.  The longer we're out the more intense and tight he becomes.  One would try to out guess me and was on alert and did well all the time. Once we went out on the town.  I had planned a scene and we had discussed stopping and getting a bottle of my favorite wine on the way home.  I met with the owner (a friend of mine that knows us both) earlier and gave her a box to give to him when he came in to pick up the wine.  She told him, "Your Mistress said to give this to you."  Got him!!!!!!  My friend knew of him but he didn't know she knew.  She also gave him a note and said, "she said to read this now and follow the instructions." 

He's a conservative dresser and in the box was a harness, collar with three rings, tight leather pants with the instructions to wear it as is as he walked through the store getting the wine.  There was a leash in the box and he was told to attach the collar and have our friend lead him to me from the store.  Imagine what that did to Mr. Know-It All.  I noticed the pants were fitting tight in a certain place.  We made another stop... the popular gay club in the neighborhood.  I consider that soft to hard, or maybe not since we had a ball! 

Keep em guessing ladies!  It adds to more fun for the both of you.

Ms. Faye

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 7:58:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		*gets a towel to dab the drool from reading MistressFaye's post*  That is awesome.  One of my boys is so shy tho...he might turn beet red and become frozen in place.

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 8:53:46 PM   
MistressFaye1


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Status: offline 		Glad you like that one Dragynsfury.  I have others but that one is the most recent.

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/18/2007 9:30:39 PM   
CollegeConundrum


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Status: offline 		Depends on her mood, what she wants, maybe what shes done lately.

Far be it from me to discount her wants as "stagnant" but if she wants to keep me on my toes then she'll mix it up and always keep me guessing.

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/19/2007 2:15:03 PM   
bisub4play


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Status: offline 		You have a great imagination Ms. Faye for coming up with "subtle" yet very intense scenes. My previous Domme also had  a group of friends that she would share our D/s play with but I did not know who knew about us and who did not. When I was present, she would only talk to them through IM messages and email, sending them pictures of me in various scenes. She would also often use a webcam during our D/s play and let her friends watch me do my best to please Her in any ways that she desired. She loved to have her friends watch me especially in scenes where I had to provide oral service to one of Her male friends. What made this situation so intense was that I did not ever know who knew my little kinky secrets and who did not know. If we were out in a group vanilla setting, I would be right next to my Mistress looking at all of her female friends and wondering if they knew everything about me or not. I was contantly trying to figure this out watching for a look in their eyes or a knowing smile. It would also just make my heart race when we were out having a group social gathering.

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/19/2007 9:11:46 PM   
MistressFaye1


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Status: offline 		bisub4play,

Now that is a good one!  It gives Me ideas!

Thanks...

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/20/2007 1:01:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Just wanted to say I enjoyed reading the posts here.  There's nothing I can say that hasn't already been said.


Something I said to an ex boyfriend, when I was a minor:  I adore the way you can touch me softly or roughly.  I love the way it matters how I respond.  I love the way you love me.

Dear God, I feel like a girl

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/20/2007 3:20:50 PM   
bisub4play


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Status: offline 		I could send you a few more idea's for scenes that my previous Domme enjoyed also Ms. Faye if you would like me to..

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/20/2007 3:22:23 PM   
bisub4play


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Status: offline 		Glad you liked them Ms. Kyttin

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/20/2007 3:40:12 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		Though not a Domme i thought i would share an experiance .One day while fixing the usual what needs to be fixed around the homestead , I found i need to go to the manly man place " the hardware store"  I told my Domme  had my list  showing it to her  and said i shall be back soon .Her  responce was Not dressed like that your NOT . I wondered  in confusion as i had work boots on, socks ,standard boxer briefs ,jeans , a belt , t-shirt , and flannel shirt , with work around the house baseball cap .I thought standard fare for completing the tasks at hand .She said you wait right there i shall help you with your  clothing needs  then you can go .
She came back with garter belt ,stockings ,lace bra ,matching painties ,a bracelet ,and floral sent , and a box containing a cock ring .I do not wear these things  nor do i make a pretty woman lol so i was a bit taken a back yet did as instructed and she helped  me dress then putting on the  outter wear again .While i lace and tie my  boots she gave a tug upon the ring  and said i now want you to ask a different person to help you find each and every thing on the list .She also added a few of her own , some rope and clothes pins ,lengths of chain ,and duct tape , and a tarp .
I said as you wish  yet at the time  i was in my head saying why would she want to ask everyone where stuff is i have been 100 times and know where it is , does she not know i know that and it will take longer ?
Come to find out it was a mix of emotions , do people notice i smell like a female ?can they see pantie and garter and bra lines through my clothes ,Oooh no i have 5 more people to ask for help.
Yes she knew exactly what she was doing and when i cane home i told her  all about it ,she was very pleased at my discomfort and arousal aswell , yet she did very little effort .
After bringing home the items she put on her list we then also had new attachment  points in new places  aswell .Also had one great weekend .

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/23/2007 7:04:19 AM   
PlayfulGoddess


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Status: offline 		Take a look at my eyes in my pic...What do YOU think? LOL

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