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Monetary Tribute; a Male Submissive Thing? - 11/19/2007 1:30:24 AM

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i recently changed my search function to include all Men between certain ages, yada, yada, yada. i keep seeing profiles from male submissives offering up their assets and income to their prospective Dom/me. i've never spent much time reading the profiles of female submissives or slaves but i have seen some and don't recall ever seeing this particular 'kink' in any of them.

Is this financial surrender a male submissive thing only? Why do they do it? Do female submissives also do it? Again, why?

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RE: Monetary Tribute; a Male Submissive Thing? - 11/19/2007 3:10:50 AM

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Why do they do it?Pretty simple answer...................... they like it.

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RE: Monetary Tribute; a Male Submissive Thing? - 11/19/2007 5:50:20 AM

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It baffles me, but then again, so do a lot of things we do to each other. Whatever floats their boat.

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RE: Monetary Tribute; a Male Submissive Thing? - 11/19/2007 5:57:41 AM

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Well, here's a male sub point of view, albeit a cynical one...

The numbers are way off in the FemDom/malesub game. Lots of malesubs out there, but very few FemDoms looking for us (think of us as being like stray kittens, just without the SPCA). The only niche of FemDom where there are a significant number of Dommes looking for subs is financial slavery, so some men who are searching adapt themselves to fit the demand. Personally, i don't think it's as much a male submissive thing, as a Female Dominant thing. But, again, cynical

The topic gets beaten to death on a regular basis on the Mistress forum, so i won't bother elaborating further here.

i know that there are female subs who give over all their money to their Dominant, but that seems to always be part of an all-encompassing Master/slave relationship. i suspect that if male Dominants took the "Money Dom" approach in their searching, the community stance would be "don't walk, RUN away from this joker". i think that the M/f analog would be women who want to be "kept slaves"- since they would not be working, they would have no money, and be financially dependent on the Master. Of course, there are male subs who seek this as well, but eventually we get tired of being mocked and stop talking about it

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RE: Monetary Tribute; a Male Submissive Thing? - 11/19/2007 6:17:53 AM

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RE: Monetary Tribute; a Male Submissive Thing? - 11/19/2007 7:45:59 AM

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There is no way in hell I'd ever offer up a tribute for a domme. There are so many money-grubbing bitches out there who give genuine dommes out there a bad name. There are some very respected pro-dommes out there who provide a necessary service, so they don't fall into the money-grubbing category. Feel free to read my journal entries on my profile for my opinion on that topic. I applaud the dommes who state in their profile that they aren't after someone's money. To me, that shows integrity. After I'm in a committed, monogamous relationship relationship with my domme, I'll spoil her like crazy. I rarely put down another person's kink, but to me that one makes about as much sense as wiping your butt before you poop! Ah well, whatever tickles their pickle.

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RE: Monetary Tribute; a Male Submissive Thing? - 11/19/2007 8:34:56 AM

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...Is this financial surrender a male submissive thing only?...

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Why do they do it?

it fulfills them.

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Do female submissives also do it?

yes

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Again, why?

it fulfills them.

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RE: Monetary Tribute; a Male Submissive Thing? - 11/19/2007 8:38:13 AM

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As a struggling Student can I please transfer my debt to a domme......Any takers??? Helloooo anyone out there

In all seriousness I guess it is just a personal thing.

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RE: Monetary Tribute; a Male Submissive Thing? - 11/19/2007 9:06:48 AM

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Before my Owner, every vanilla man i dated told me how much he made within ten minutes of talking to him. They wanted to assure mt that they were financially capable of taking care of me and it seemed to make them proud and think better of themselves. Also, some people have low opinions of themselves and think that money will make them more attractive. Personally, i think it's sad that a perswon has to tempt another person that way.

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RE: Monetary Tribute; a Male Submissive Thing? - 11/19/2007 7:14:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: spirit1975

As a struggling Student can I please transfer my debt to a domme......Any takers??? Helloooo anyone out there In all seriousness I guess it is just a personal thing.

LOL, if you find someone interested in this, let me know, I'll fight you for them!!!

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