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Youresomine -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/19/2007 9:00:45 PM)

Nope, not an "ultimate surrender" to him. He wants you to prostitute for money...there is a BIG difference. It's all in the motivation...see?



winterlight -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/19/2007 9:57:43 PM)

hope u dont have AIDS, get beaten up, stabbed etc. the possiblities are endless..

RUN LIKE HELL AND DON'T LOOK BACK!

Where is your dignity, common sense, and self worth?



MasterFireMaam -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/19/2007 10:36:17 PM)

I understand that it's often a kink for some couples to do this. I also feel that prostitution should be legal...and regulated. However, if doing this chips away at who you are deep inside, then eventually you'll not have anything left to serve him with...or anyone else. Only you can decide it there is, or should be for you, a difference between a Dom and a Pimp...and if that's a good or bad thing.

Master Fire



MasterofScyn -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/19/2007 10:40:56 PM)

I joke about this all the time. but no way in hell would I actually go out and do it... Not to mention all the sexually transmitted ickyness thats out there. Never know what will happen to ya. This isn't submission... This is a form of abusing and taking advantage of what you have given him. You deserve far better than that. Let him go down... but don't let him take you with.
 
Scyn ~ [:o]



feralkyttin -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 12:55:20 AM)

Damn....

I'm not even touching that one.

At what point does personal responsibility become a factor in this equation?  Boondocks



feralkyttin -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 12:57:30 AM)

Ma'am, I keep seeing you around and what you're telling people is a great service to all of us.  I commend you, if it matters to you.  If not, that's fine.  Just... you know... putting in my two cents.

respectfully,
    meesha


a wise dom:  always speak cautiously, respectfully, and never freely if you wish to remain in the company of dominants as a slave



mya75 -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 1:04:10 AM)

Im trying to give a serious response to this ...But I can not understand an adult having to ask if being pimped out is ok.....If you choose to do something illegal and you like being a prostitute then so be it...Whos gonna pay for the damage to your body and mind?  Surely money cant buy that...tsk tsk.....but he isnt the one at fault you are.....



ownedgirlie -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 1:16:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

I understand that it's often a kink for some couples to do this. I also feel that prostitution should be legal...and regulated. However, if doing this chips away at who you are deep inside, then eventually you'll not have anything left to serve him with...or anyone else. Only you can decide it there is, or should be for you, a difference between a Dom and a Pimp...and if that's a good or bad thing.

Master Fire



I agree here.  This is not such a foreign practice, but if it erodes your spirit that can be a dangerous thing and there will be little left of you, at best.  I submitted to someone who was so bad for me I felt worse and worse about myself until I hated myself.  Ask yourself, does what you'll be doing for him make you feel good about yourself?  Strong?  Proud?  Fulfilled and happy?  Sometimes our need to belong leads us to remain in a place that is unhealthy, because the alternative seems too frightening.  But in the wrong hands, you're not really "home," are you?

Only you can know what you feel in your gut.   And that will give you your answer.



mnottertail -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 5:00:45 AM)

Show us a picture.  Maybe that is the best work you can get.

Ron



Aswad -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 5:20:23 AM)

never mind



parttimehotty -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 5:39:08 AM)

To Sexy Red1........i have to lol at your response since it echoed mine exactly.  Yes, i thought that i did sound like a teenager, but you have to remember, this is still pretty damn new to me and i've lived by the old adage, "You can't teach an old dog new tricks" so long, i was questioning if i was not willing to learn and just being stubborn to a new way of life or if i was indeed correct.  Thank you all for your responses!  Seems like i have alot of thinking to do about this man.



parttimehotty -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 5:53:08 AM)

In reply to mnottertail:  Yes, that explains why you don't have yours posted either. Maybe you & i should partner, eh?
Jacka$$



mnottertail -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 5:54:25 AM)

my picture is posted on my profile.

Lets get a look at ya.....




chellekitty -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 5:57:14 AM)

would just like to point out that Ron (mnottertail) has a picture on his profile, if you just click on his name....you can see people's profiles by clicking on their names....amazing litle feature...you on the other hand, "parttimehotty"....do not...



dawntreader -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 6:21:36 AM)

Greetings partime,
i came in to this aspect of myself late too and didn't know the rules were the same as everything else. i made quite a few foolish mistakes that i would have never made in my default world. While i have never been "whored" out i have survived other things i normally would never have done. Growing pains~
 
Anyway, if being whored out is a mutual fantasy, i see nothing wrong with it - doesn't sound like it is in your case though so perhaps you should consider that. There are other Dominants in this world so don't feel you have to stay with someone incompatible.



parttimehotty -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 7:50:01 AM)

In reply to Chellekitty:
That is so very true!  What's the diff bet handing over my hard earned paycheck vs having sex for $$? Yes that's illegal and it plays a large part in my concern.  Just an fyi to all the posts, the "customer" always wears a rubber.  No bb sex involved.



proudsub -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 8:39:58 AM)

quote:

Just an fyi to all the posts, the "customer" always wears a rubber.  


That doesn't protect you from HPV so be sure to get annual paps.  [:o]



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 11:08:51 AM)

I would have no problem whatso ever staring in a porno, course I'd be smart enough to loose the finacial vampire and keep all the funds for myself* hehe*

quote:

I just wonder what will happen if he finds someone who'll pay big money for you to star in porn movies, or with animals, etc. Where do you draw the line?





daddyncherry -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 12:24:45 PM)

hi, i sent you something on the other side. Hope it is helpful in some way :)



Stephann -> RE: Please excuse the intrusion (11/20/2007 1:29:06 PM)

Honestly now....

Are you involved with this man because you truly care about him?  Do you feel you deserve to be cared about?  Or is this a relationship based on feeling you can't live without him.

It sounds more like you're running away from the idea of having to live without him, than it is running towards him.  I get the impression there's a lot more involved than just the prostitution element.

Stephan



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