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RE: Is a pregnant Mistress such a turn-off? - 11/23/2007 1:30:38 AM

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I Think pregnant woman are HOT!!!

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RE: Is a pregnant Mistress such a turn-off? - 11/23/2007 10:29:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: Mizziness

Hello all, and thanks for taking the time to read this. I have a bit of a quandry on my hands, and I'm hoping to get some light shed on this.

I've been looking for a second slave for months now, and finding the right slave has never been an easy thing but...now I am pregnant, and from the responses, virtual hang-ups and general bad reception when talking to potential wards, I feel like I might as well give up finding a second slave for the rest of my life.

I'm not looking for casual encounters, play toys, etc, and I know that makes it even more difficult...but what I cannot understand is why am I getting such a completely horrible response? It's not just, "Oh, sorry, that's not for me." I get the cold shoulder, I get laughed at, I get ridiculed. I know that the prospect of a baby in my life is going to turn away most but I never thought I'd get this sort of response.

And I do know that being in a relationship with a Mommy Domme isn't what most want but...there's got to be some slaves out there who's owners have children. Please shed some light on this for me? I don't want to give up.

a pregnant Mistress would not be a turn-off or a turn-on for me. the turn-on's and off's have to do with many other things.

but i do have to admit, i would have concerns about the effects anything physical for the Mistress might have. i know, i'm sure She would know best here, but i would still worry a bit. for example i would the pressure on the back of a strapon might not be good.

just my take.

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RE: Is a pregnant Mistress such a turn-off? - 11/28/2007 6:46:09 PM

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Lot's of guys are attracted to pregnant women. Generally they would be more the dominant type, because a female is more svulnerable and dependent when pregnant. Cuckolds probably would be too. Generally pregnant women are just like anything else, big boobs, blonde or brunette or redhead, tall women, etc. It is just a preference. I love pregnant women and my slaves should all expect to be pregnant if we are together long enough. Submissives should love their Mistress to be pregnant by a guy, but then again many submissive males are just pretending and indulging their own selves and fantasies and not truly serving.

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RE: Is a pregnant Mistress such a turn-off? - 3/21/2008 1:50:01 PM

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Congrats on the baby Mizziness. I am a Dom myself but as a man I can tell you that some men are very attracted to pregnant women. I myself love the way a pregnant woman looks. Almost giving off a raidient glow. I am sure that you will find someone that would be a good fit for you.

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RE: Is a pregnant Mistress such a turn-off? - 3/21/2008 2:14:58 PM

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I just realized you started this thread back in November. How are things going? Have you had the baby yet, or is it imminent?

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RE: Is a pregnant Mistress such a turn-off? - 3/22/2008 2:48:42 AM

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i would think having a pregnant Mistress would offer many opportunities to serve in a personal way -- back massages, foot massages, pampering of every sort! After the baby is born, there would also be many ways to serve Her that would not involve caring for the child directly and would be the sort of thing a slave would do for a Mistress who didn't have a child.

Ma'am, You are separating the chaff from the wheat. i wish You and the baby the all the best.

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RE: Is a pregnant Mistress such a turn-off? - 3/22/2008 4:21:27 AM

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More than once in my 20 active years in the scene I have seen a woman active in the scene just disappear off for a good, or a 10-15 year spell, on having a child.

In fact I would say that I cannot recall any exceptions when I think about it; though I am sure there are some.

I presume it is because of the extra responsibilities and pressures on time and finances a child brings in their wake.

I guess it may also have something to do with the major hormonal and mood swings that can come with pregancy and motherhood.

Whatever the reasons, if I've seen the pattern, others will, and be wary of committing to you at this point.

It is nothing unattractive about you; just a realisation that there is a very high chance that any relationship formed now will be very short-lived.

Good luck anyway; I hope you can be the exception that proves the rule ....

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RE: Is a pregnant Mistress such a turn-off? - 3/22/2008 6:11:52 AM

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@ OP
first congratulations...I hope all is going well

If you want to serve some one..and you are beware of the fact that you might get less attention in the next months, years...why would you want to get involved? (not saying you are not a good person)
Besides that...not all males find a big belly attractive....or look forward to a Mistress that changes daipers in a session..or have crying on the back ground.
And some people just don't like kids.

mmm sounds a little harsh all..but well..it is an answer

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