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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/21/2007 8:16:32 PM   
TheHeretic


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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

   Ahh...  I see.  It's just that you start threads so rarely.  I wouldn't want to scare you away, even here in the shallow end.



It may be the shallow end, but you thought I was serious.

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          I thought you were just shy.

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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/21/2007 8:22:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

  Ahh...  I see.  It's just that you start threads so rarely.  I wouldn't want to scare you away, even here in the shallow end.



It may be the shallow end, but you thought I was serious.

Sinergy



         I thought you were just shy.


How is that whole "thinking" thing working out for you?

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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/21/2007 8:40:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

Ahh...  I see.  It's just that you start threads so rarely.  I wouldn't want to scare you away, even here in the shallow end.



It may be the shallow end, but you thought I was serious.

Sinergy



        I thought you were just shy.


How is that whole "thinking" thing working out for you?

Sinergy



         Quite well, thank you.  Are you considering taking it up?

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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/21/2007 8:42:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

        Quite well, thank you.  Are you considering taking it up?



Naah, that is why I start threads in the shallow end.

I have an image to maintain.

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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/21/2007 8:44:22 PM   
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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 5:59:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		Back to the OP. . .

As a twue dominate you must speak of how "strict" you are at every possible chance. 

And if ANY joke threads start for sub-types (like that 20 things you should never do list) you MUST post how ANY s-type of YOURS who even considered ANY of those would be out the door immediatly. 


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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 6:42:17 AM   
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Offering something to someone is a quicker way into a BDSM relationship than demanding something from someone. Being yourself is essential.

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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 6:47:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		point out on every page that pro-dommes are evil, wrong and so on - use a thesaurus for more similar adjectives. If you dont have a thesaurus then dont ask any other sort of dinosaur as they're totally useless for the purpose

indicate at every opportunity that this is a great way to get casual sexual encounters for the married and unmarried alike

provide a "how to dress like a dominate" guide as one of the chapters - leather thigh high boots being compulsory for females and an "interesting" option for males, that sort of thing

be sure to cover pet play - and the dos and dont's according to relevant laws surrounding possible misinterpretations of the term

and definitely include a chapter on how hilariously funny it is to arrange to meet a possible parter, but then not turn up

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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 7:54:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

and definitely include a chapter on how hilariously funny it is to arrange to meet a possible parter, but then not turn up



I am not sure I would consider it hilariously funny to arrange to meet and not show up.  This goes more in keeping with the Dominate / submit paradigm.  The submit must do what I wish the submit to do, since I am the Dominate.
Arranging a meeting is all well and good, and the submit will prove their commitment to a long term dynamic with me by showing up ON TIME at the arranged meeting.

However, since I am the Dominate, I refuse to submit to a timetable, rules of ettiquette, or common courtesy, as these are all societal constructs specifically designed to disrespect my Dominate status as it is defined in the first 5 books of Gor and Thelonius Masterlorddomdude's tome "How To Be An Old Guard Dominate."  As a Dominate, I refuse to allow others to shackle me with their lack of comprehension.

The submit can prove their commitment to being with me by the following.

1)  Showing up ON TIME at the meeting place.  There is nothing any self-respecting Dominate dislikes more than a submit who cannot keep a schedule.

2)  The submit shall accept that I had a better offer and respectfully ask what my earliest opportunity to meet will be. 

3)  The submit shall understand that they may not have sex with or communicate with any other person from the moment I have hit "send" on my initial mail message to them.

4) Understand that one of the submits first duties will be to procure other sex partners.  If this requires the submit to have sex with them repeatedly in order to convince them to go to bed with me, the submit shall understand that my righteous indignation and jealous rants are reasonable behavior on my part for the submit's skanky ways.

5) The submit shall understand that the multiple sex partners and situations I get myself in to are simply reasonable and necessary behavior for me in order to further learn how to best act as a good Dominate.  In other words, the Dominate is not doing this for him/her, he/she is doing it in the submit's best interest.

6) The submit shall, at all times, sit in a tree, screeching, and throwing feces at any Pro-Domme who happens to pass by.

7) The submit shall endeavor to learn how to put slashes into his/her words.  This can best be accomplished by spending several years in Botswana with the Kung tribe in order to develop the correct glottal stop procedures.

8) The submit shall fully understand and support that while the submit wears my collar, turns down any and all offers to have sex, abstains from all masturbation or orgasms during his/her time in Botswana, that the Dominate has needs which the submit is failing to take care of, as is his/her position, the submit shall understand and support the Dominates need to care for those needs with any and all submits that cross their path.

9)  The submit shall be willing to dump their children at the nearest orphanage, climb in their car, and move in to the Dominate's home to live on a pallet in the garage so as not to interfere in the life of the Dominate.  The house shall be clean and cared for at all times, in case the Dominate wants to bring a date home.

10) The submit shall memorize within 30 minutes the Dominate's 10,000 rules of "How to be a good submit."  Further, the submit shall understand that rules may be added or deleted at any time, without notice, and she is expected to fully understand and abide by any rule changes, and accept any punishments for transgressions the Dominate deems relevant.

11)  The submit shall understand that the Dominate holds copyrights on the 10,000 rules of "How to be a good
submit" and shall never share any of these with other Dominates or submits.

I hope this has been educational and informative.

Sinergy

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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 8:05:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

point out on every page that pro-dommes are evil, wrong and so on - use a thesaurus for more similar adjectives. If you dont have a thesaurus then dont ask any other sort of dinosaur as they're totally useless for the purpose

indicate at every opportunity that this is a great way to get casual sexual encounters for the married and unmarried alike

provide a "how to dress like a dominate" guide as one of the chapters - leather thigh high boots being compulsory for females and an "interesting" option for males, that sort of thing

be sure to cover pet play - and the dos and dont's according to relevant laws surrounding possible misinterpretations of the term

and definitely include a chapter on how hilariously funny it is to arrange to meet a possible parter, but then not turn up

E




Sounds like an excellent idea for a movie script. Do you want to call Hollywood or leave it to me?

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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 8:08:26 AM   
LadyEllen


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ORIGINAL: stella41b

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

point out on every page that pro-dommes are evil, wrong and so on - use a thesaurus for more similar adjectives. If you dont have a thesaurus then dont ask any other sort of dinosaur as they're totally useless for the purpose

indicate at every opportunity that this is a great way to get casual sexual encounters for the married and unmarried alike

provide a "how to dress like a dominate" guide as one of the chapters - leather thigh high boots being compulsory for females and an "interesting" option for males, that sort of thing

be sure to cover pet play - and the dos and dont's according to relevant laws surrounding possible misinterpretations of the term

and definitely include a chapter on how hilariously funny it is to arrange to meet a possible parter, but then not turn up

E




Sounds like an excellent idea for a movie script. Do you want to call Hollywood or leave it to me?


I cant be bothered talking to those people - you sort it out; but be sure to get me my 5% on receipts and all merchandising as usual, OK?

E

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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 8:09:23 AM   
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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 8:13:44 AM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		Don't forget a chapter for absent-minded Dommes on the capitalization of personal pronouns such as Me, My, etc so that they can remind themselves that they are truly Domme.

Oh and another chapter on leather trousers, waistcoats, head-shaving and artistic beard design for 'twue Doms'

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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 8:55:13 AM   
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Any twue Dominate would know that it's "!Kung".......


*savagely beats his submit for not spelling it correctly for him*

Anthropologist subs *rolls his eyes Dominantly*

Sinergy

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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 10:01:32 AM   
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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 12:44:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		The more years experience you have in "the lifestyle", the better Dom you are.  So, if you can get started in pre-school, by the time you reach 30, you can say you're "Old Guard".

Likewise, the more toys you have for playing (i.e. whips, cuffs, canes, butt plugs) the better Dom you are.  Collect as many as you can.  Then carry them around in your old army duffel bags.  It makes you look patriotic.

Invest in good-quality photographic equipment and photo-enhancing software so that you can post really awesome headless torso and cock shots.  Also to take photos of your massive toy collection.  Slaves dig that.

When you create a profile, use ALL CAPS and start out with several paragraphs criticizing all the FAKES AND WANNABEES that overrun the site for WASTING YOUR TIME.  After all, you are an important Dom and deserve to move to the front of the pack.

Make a HUGE checklist of all your expectations from potential subs and slaves.  If there is anything on it that a potential sub questions, tell her she's not a true sub if she has any limits.  After all, it is all about YOU.

Once you have established yourself as a Dominate, it is your duty to start putting Collars of Protection on as many unfortunate, lost, lonely and wayward subs as you can, to keep them safe.  You must instruct them to announce your Protectorship in their profiles, and you will need to spend several hours each day reading all of their emails, approving or vetoing them, and electronically going to the mattresses with any fledgling Dominates who dare pose a threat to your Collared harem.

From the subs you have Collars of Protection on, take the ones who perform best on webcam and IM and put Collars of Consideration on them.  Make sure they all know about their "sister subs" because it will keep them on their toes trying to out-perform the others.

From the Collars of Consideration subs, take the one with the size 00 body and size DD boobs and make her the "alpha sub".  After all, she earned it.







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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 5:43:29 PM   
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From the subs you have Collars of Protection on, take the ones who perform best on webcam and IM and put Collars of Consideration on them.  Make sure they all know about their "sister subs" because it will keep them on their toes trying to out-perform the others.

From the Collars of Consideration subs, take the one with the size 00 body and size DD boobs and make her the "alpha sub".  After all, she earned it.



I have issues with the idea of letting her know she is an alpha sub.  This tends to create a sense of hierarchical structure among the teeming throng of women running around wearing my collars of consideration.

All submissives must be treated equally.  Failure to do this causes them to argue amongst each other and distract them from their purpose, serving me, wearing their cheerleader or zombie sex slave outfits, and enjoying giving me blow jobs and me giving them butt sex.

Just me, could be wrong, etc.

Sinergy




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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 7:27:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I say let the submits duke it out in a reality-TV-show style.  Whoevers brings more submits into the household as your furniture/french maids/beer bringers/[insert lowly task here], the higher up they go in the ranks.

To avoid confusion, put all your submits up on a chalkboard in your living room.  Encourage your fellow Dominates to bet on this when they come over for the weekly sports game day.

Certain submit types brought into the house should be worth more points - within a certain age range, if they're doable without wearing a paper bag on their head, if it's the hottie submit's hottie sister - cuz that's just hawt...if in doubt please refer to page 343 of the Dominate Handbook, paragraph three, line twelve:

"Yea, and the submit shall bring thee booty most fine, for thou must be pleasured often and well.  Those who fetch thee the most pleasant booty shall have say over the others, for they have served thee best.  Shouldst thou makest it with two sisters, with bootie so fine it would make a teenaged boy cry, thou hast committed the First of the Five Hundred and One steps to True Nirvana."

I know the word 'booty' wasn't in my copy of the Handbook...I misplaced mine and had to use Domiguy's...


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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 7:36:22 PM   
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RE: Dominating for Dummies - 11/22/2007 11:47:08 PM   
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Use true and real at least once a sentence.



That's a really true statement.


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