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MasterShibari -> Why are you here? (11/22/2007 8:14:33 PM)

So for once, a simple question…. Why are you here on the forums?  I don’t mean collarme, I only mean the collarchat forums.  Why do you post new threads here, or why to you respond to the threads of others?

As always, I’ll answer my own question.  As those of you who know me already know, I came to these forums looking to study the psychological aspects of BDSM.  Once or twice a month a question, typically psychological in nature, will strike me.  Il have my own answers to it, usually, but I’m interested to hear the answers and opinions of others.  So, I post it here and see the responses.  I don’t typically browse other people’s threads, and my responses to them have been quite limited here.

Best wishes to you all on your respective journeys, wherever they end up leading you.

M. Shibari



LostMyself -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 8:16:13 PM)

Same reason I'm on collarme.. looking for people with similare expeiriences and views to talk to..



BlackKnight -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 8:31:45 PM)

collarchat....to help see how I fit in, don't fit in, don't fit in.
                 to see if I want to fit in, or not want to fit in, not want to fit in
                 to study the politics of the human race
                 I started cause I wanted to associate with 'like minds'
                 only to find not so alike, but very alike.
                 Like minds of who, to who, for who?
                 the bdsm community is like any other community.
                 Their acceptance, clicks, who's who! All the same!
                 the judgemental, nonjudgmental, judgemental.
                  All the same!



TNstepsout -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 8:46:07 PM)

I love to hear myself talk and impress others with my brilliance and wit.



akisha -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 9:12:50 PM)

To find the love of my life!!!!  yaaaa right, but while i'm waiting for that to happen, I'm chatting with freinds and making new ones and learning things *S*



RRafe -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 9:14:13 PM)

To waste time, and hopefully find someone as bent as me, to waste even more time with.[;)]



laurell3 -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 9:14:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TNstepsout

I love to hear myself talk and impress others with my brilliance and wit.


Actually, I know you don't mean it, but you do impress me with your brilliance and wit quite often.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 9:17:27 PM)

Typing loosens my arthritic hands.  I like to talk, and listen to other opinions.  I like tormenting myself with the cool guys who are too far away.  The usual



ItzKat -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 9:25:59 PM)

Easy, I am here to be around others that share the same interests. 



sexyred1 -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 9:30:24 PM)

Why am I here...many reasons, to meet Mr. Right, Mr. Right Now, Mr. Maybe, Mr. Wrong (no..wait, already did that, ok, forget Mr. Wrong..)

Other reasons: entertainment, humor, knowledge, distraction, turn on, outlet, boredom, desire to be around BDSM conversations, and I pretend I am part of a community since I have no close friends who are into what I am into. (said tongue in cheek since it is not really a community, just pixels on a screen).

In all seriousness, I do find many people here on the forums to be very intriguing, intelligent, witty, attractive and those are the ones worth coming here for. The others who are none of the above are still entertaining enough to read about and make comments on their threads.



mistoferin -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 9:35:29 PM)

I'm here on the forums for many reasons. It's a form of entertainment. I enjoy "socializing" with people. But I guess the most important reasons that I am here revolve around the sharing of knowledge. I like to hear others thoughts, opinions and perspectives. Sometimes I learn new things here and there have even been a few times that I have found a real pearl of wisdom. I also enjoy sharing my own experiences and knowledge and hopefully I can provide a pearl myself once in awhile.



ultsub -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 9:44:25 PM)

I have no life and enjoy living vicariously through the lives of others.



MzMia -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 10:00:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ultsub

I have no life and enjoy living vicariously through the lives of others.


I like this answer this best.
I also come here for the free beer and popcorn.



Kana -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 10:03:47 PM)

Cuz I can't afford hookers and blow.



MissMagnolia -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 10:16:30 PM)

Having an answer, or a different viewpoint, to someone who asks a question.

And poking the monkeys sometimes. I like doing that.[:D]



heartcream -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 10:25:39 PM)

Coming in here to the Message Boards, for the most part, gives me a feeling I like. Some threads I cant run out of fast enough though. I have learned lots of things here. I like to check out profiles sometimes and then I like to follow any threads if they have posted. I can learn a lot more about someone even from like only a few posts.

I like 'getting to know' people here in this way. It also interests me what I might respond to and type something myself.



BlackKnight -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 10:30:17 PM)

to annoy people!



CuriousLord -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 10:40:59 PM)

I was into M/s, but not sadomasochism.  A slave was strongly masochistic- she'd like to be beaten and choked all day long.  I came here looking to understand her a bit more.

I eventually dumped her due to a number of things.  Still, I guess I enjoyed the D/s dynamics here.  I'm considering finding a more appropriate board (since I can't relate fully here), but just haven't done it yet.



Vargus -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 10:42:18 PM)

Why I'm here.

  To learn, and laugh, to make friends and  enjoy like minded people that touch my life, sometimes in strange and interesting ways.



RumpusParable -> RE: Why are you here? (11/22/2007 10:48:59 PM)

Same reason I'm on a number of chat boards... socializing, entertainment.



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