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ErictheRed12662 -> ageplay: how is it done? (11/23/2007 3:28:57 PM)
I have two girls I want to train in BDSM. I read a story once that I found fascinating, and I wanted to act it out with them as a learning tool. In the story there is a man who is dominated by a woman. She has him dress in drag, and puts him on a point system. For each thing he learns about being a woman, she gives him points. At a certain number of points, he can progress to the next age level. For example, level 1 was I believe age 10. He was dressed and had to act like a 10 year old girl during the learning process. She made him learn makeup on that level, and once he was an expert, he went to I believe age 12, and so on. The problem I have is that I don't know how to make my "subs" act the age specified. I wanted to teach them bondage and discipline, but if they're "age 10", how would I do that? Both girls are in their 20s, and I wanted to make them start over at age 10 and work their way up through the lessons... How would I have them act and dress? And if ageplay works the way I think it does, they will have to act like little girls at age 10, and a person wouldn't say, hogtie, a 10 year old girl, right? Maybe I'm just over thinking this, but any help would be great. And for those wondering, yes, I am a submissive. I'm experimenting for a trial period to see how the other side works. This does NOT mean I'm a switch, just to clarify. I don't enjoy being a dominant, I just wanted to learn about it. Thank you for all your help! -Eric

sexyred1 -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/23/2007 3:32:02 PM)
I do not think you are allowed to mention UMs of a certain age, unless I am mistaken on the boards.

daddyncherry -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/23/2007 4:43:56 PM)
Sounds like what you are looking for is to educate them on the basics that you would like and using an age progression method to do it right?...Is ageplay one of your kinks or do you just want to use this method since you read about it?...The method in the story you are talking about sounds more appropriate since it is a man trying to learn to act like a girl...there for she is starting him as a young girl...Your subs are girls sooo if ageplay isn't one of your kinks it doesn't make sense in the same way as the story you sited. Obviously the stuff done in ageplay is not meant to always be stuff that you would do to an UM, it can be in adult baby with the diapering and bottle feeding and such, but, it isn't always stuff that you would do with a real person. The mind set i think is what is most important. That "little" feeling... So you basically want to "step" from one lesson to another? Would "aging" then be reward in the lessons? Maybe try coloring books...dressing them in plaid skirts....bubble baths...and then going from there. Depends on what you are trying to acheive and what your kinks are... Good luck

MrSpectacular -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/23/2007 6:09:00 PM)
Let me get this correct - you are a sub - who wants to be a dom for a while and you are interested in little girls. But you are not a switch, but you want to hogtie a 10 year old. Thanks I got it.

angelslave77 -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/23/2007 7:05:42 PM)
just my two cents worth, firstly I understand you wanting to know how the other side works BUT I think if you are learning why take on 2 subs and why trial a method you dont seem to fully understand. Either find an expierenced sub who can guide you, or find a Dom/Domme to mentor your journey for a bit or even research research research there is so much onfo out there to be had, google is your friend

onthedl94 -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/23/2007 10:09:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrSpectacular Let me get this correct - you are a sub - who wants to be a dom for a while and you are interested in little girls. But you are not a switch, but you want to hogtie a 10 year old. Thanks I got it. hahaha, that was Great! I love it!

CuriousLord -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/23/2007 10:28:14 PM)
Fair warning: You're stepping into dangerous territory. Sure, there's nothing wrong with ageplay when it's just that. But, one has to admit.. we're human. Enacted fantascies can rub off as true desires which might lead one to uncomforting ends. This goes for ageplay as well as other roleplays. (I mean, people here go from mild sadomasochism at some point in their life to pretty extreme.) I'd just like to invite you to consider the possible psycological consquences on yourself beforehand.

Estring -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/23/2007 10:35:09 PM)
Tell them to act like they are ten. That's about as real as you're gonna get.

MadameMarque -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 5:58:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrSpectacular Let me get this correct - you are a sub - who wants to be a dom for a while and you are interested in little girls. But you are not a switch, but you want to hogtie a 10 year old. Thanks I got it. I believe that the essence of the original post has somewhat eluded you...but thank you for playing! Contestants, the question is level 8, of a possible 10, in difficulty, or a possible 10, in girls - however, two girls would be 20, and...it's the daily double! Anyone for the steal? Anyone? Please phrase your answers in the form of a question.

MadameMarque -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 6:16:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Estring Tell them to act like they are ten. [clipped] Seriously. I laughed so at this, because Estring's quite right. First, have fun. If you want to know what it's like to be dominant, first, think of what you want. Then go about bringing it out, in your partners. Often, people into age play will keep in the spirit of interacting with the person in the younger role, at the age they are supposed to be. So, as you say, to engage in more adult type play with an adult who is pretending to be a young UM, might mar the illusion you're trying to create. But, do what you want to do, as long as everyone's on board and no one is harmed or traumatized. Expect the unexpected. Let the unexpected happen, and take advantage of it. It's exciting, that way. You know, the scene you're describing would be pretending to go through the developmental stages of adolescence. You might want to concentrate on playing with the choicest high points of that (fantasized) experience. "Play it as it lays."

Master96 -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 7:24:44 AM)
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LATEXBABY64 -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 8:22:55 AM)
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kittyinpink -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 9:21:56 AM)
Two ways: #1 and the one I think you should stick with... Tell the girls "Gimme your best impression of a 10 y/o" #2 and much more complicated... Regression. This is a process. It takes time and alot of care. I don't see you able to give the adequate amount of either to two seperate girls. Not only that, but when you're done you have to be able to allow them to slowly come out of it. You can't just get up and tell them to go home. #1 is my recommendation. Easier with the effect you are looking for.

Aceton -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 12:17:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrSpectacular Let me get this correct - you are a sub - who wants to be a dom for a while and you are interested in little girls. But you are not a switch, but you want to hogtie a 10 year old. Thanks I got it. Oh yeah, total agreement here. After all, people are born either Dom or sub, it's like having a penis or not having a penis, right? There should NEVER be ANY transition between the two categories (unless you are prepared to sit in the Switch box, of course, which is where we tolerate the ones who just insist on perverting the whole perversion), and people certainly shouldn't have interests that blur the boundaries. Don't you understand that failing to follow the rules of absolute rigidity in defining yourself as laid out by others is the sure sign of a FAKE? That's right, REAL people follow strict patterns and are born into molds. It's you fakies who keep coloring outside the lines and destroying our precious little boxes who are really ruining things. Good point Mr Spectacular. If you hadn't shown us how silly and worthless this fool is who apparently refuses to behave in accordance with imaginary guidelines, he might actually have gotten some help with regards to his question. We certainly don't want to promote that sort of thing around here.

MadameMarque -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 1:53:47 PM)
Hours later, I revisit this thread, and realize I should clarify my post above...When I said I was laughing at "this," I meant at how simple and straightforward Estring's suggestion was - sometimes it makes you laugh with surprise, when someone cuts to the chase. I think your asking for advice is perfectly appropriate. Make your plans to suit your fantasies, of course. Planning can be good. Just know that being in the moment, when you're with someone, seeing how it feels, how it's affecting them, affecting you, adjusting as indicated and going with the flow - this is half the art of it. Rigid expectations on yourself or them, of how the scene "should" go, even for a control freak (if there are any here, at all), is likely to yield more frustration and disappointment than joy and satisfaction. Part of mastering a scene is understanding that you're dealing with human nature and a new experience, each time - life, as it happens.

treehugger42 -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 3:09:55 PM)
Can I ask why people use the abbrevation UM... does that stand for anything? I assume it's to ward off the google searches of certain undesirable types...

marieToo -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 3:11:39 PM)
UM (UnMentionable) is a term that people use for children under age, because they think it's against tos to say the word children.

breatheasone -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 3:13:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: treehugger42 Can I ask why people use the abbrevation UM... does that stand for anything? I assume it's to ward off the google searches of certain undesirable types... Correct...UM = UnMentionables, which = children under 18.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 3:21:25 PM)
Age play and what you are talking about are vastly different. You are talking about very intenensive and involved training. AS a sub who is thinking about learning about the Dom side, you are looking to get in over your head. The story you read involved a Domme who was keeping that sub male, and putting a lot of time and energy into the regression, as well as working with a male who she was retraining overal as a female and starting to do so from an early age. You are already working with females, so you dont have t teach them to be girls. They already know how to be girls. If you are going to regress someone, you want to do it to teach them something age appropriate. Were you learning about bondage at age 10? Age play is just tht, play. Someone acts that age for a period of time, but doesnt get fully and totally into the role ALL the time. Having them regress is a time comsuming thing, not just a 2 hours session and snap out of it thing. You might want to think more about what you actualy want to accomplish with these girls before you consider such involved training. Especialy since you arent a switch, and you dont plan on keeping either of them once your experimentations are over, something life-altering or even thought-altering might be a bit drastic. You might want to consider sticking to teaching them, AS 20 year olds, about bondage. DV

bipolarber -> RE: ageplay: how is it done? (11/24/2007 3:54:53 PM)
Eric, Well, I have to admire you for wanting to bite off way more than you can chew, right out of the gate. Not just with one, but with two girls! You got balls, Kid, I give you that! (I think it will end in disaster, but that's just me...) Anyway... For one thing, regressing your subs to 10, and then having to keep track of the various points on each as they play is going to be a logistical nightmare. Plus, using my own expereince with age play to start, the girls AREN'T going to want to advance. They'll just stay in the 10 to 12 range, so that they can continue to see you as their "Daddy." Women who like ageplay tend to be quite happy having a powerful authority figure, who also protects and nurtures them. The example you cite (from FICTION), is about a totally different power dynamic. It's about a form of male humiliation, so there's some motivation for the male sub to advance. So basically, you're putting your subs in a place where they are quite happy... you are threatening them with a good time. That's not gonna work! Also, I'm sure you've covered this, before going off on this particular fantasy.... but have you asked your girls how they feel about this particular form of play? Some women, I've found, are a little "squicked" by this form of role play. You might want to make sure they are as turned on by the idea as you are. Jus' sayin'....

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