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RE: Feeling owned - 11/25/2007 12:13:33 PM   
salilus


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RE: Feeling owned - 11/25/2007 12:47:54 PM   
girlygurl


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ORIGINAL: onaroll

I'm wondering what makes the submissives here feel particularly owned. An action or a phrase or something that absolutely reminds you of who you belong to. Just curious. :)


I know in my heart and soul that I am His, but when He says "Mine" or "My lilslut" or "My sweet girl" well, I pretty much melt.  There are also times when we look into each others eyes and I feel completely taken by Him, I can't explain it other than that, but I'm sure many of you know what I mean  *sighs* such a happy submissive.

oh... and when He grabs a hand full of my hair pulls me tight towards Him and kisses me hard and deep... well, after nearly a year together His kisses still take my breath away.  Recently He's had me lay my head in His lap, He holds my head against His body, and strokes my face.... it's as if I go into a trance.  I can't even describe the feeling that comes over my mind and body!  Jeesh!!!! I am one lucky girl.


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RE: Feeling owned - 11/25/2007 1:19:28 PM   
porkchop


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Status: offline 		I feel it most when I'm tired/sick/pissy/busy/overwhelmed- whenever anything is going on with *me* rendering me less inclined to want to do those things I agreed upon in order to be in service to Sir. 

Some days, I just don't want to make the coffee (or whatever)... but I remember and honor that agreement.   I chose to be here for this.

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RE: Feeling owned - 11/25/2007 1:38:25 PM   
LaMspeach


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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

quote:

ORIGINAL: onaroll
I'm wondering what makes the submissives here feel particularly owned. An action or a phrase or something that absolutely reminds you of who you belong to. Just curious. :)

I highlighted the word "particularly" because to me, it's important.  As His slave, I always feel owned.  There is no doubt about it EVER.  However, there are certain things, of course, that do really reinforce it instantly.  Here's a short list:


I quoted Luci because this is how I feel as well. I always feel owned there are some things that make me his power over me which I absolutely love.

One of the many things is my desperate need for him. In the beginning that need was very scary for me. I didn't want to "need" anyone. I thought moving closer would lesson that desperate need but now it seems worse then ever.

The fact that I am orgasm trained to the point that I can’t orgasm with out his command not only because he won’t let me but my body won’t either.

Since I have moved my body seems to be in a state of constant arousal. I am always wet, always horny. After some long conversations with Master we seem to think it is my body’s way of reacting and being ready to the fact that he can stop by to use me anytime he feels like it.

There also little simple things like hearing some of his pets name for me, a tug on my hair ect.



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RE: Feeling owned - 11/25/2007 5:12:45 PM   
Bethnai


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Status: offline 		I like all the little names and the hairpulling. Thats all good.

Its also the way he knows what I am thinking, or what I'm doing like in an argument, perhaps.

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RE: Feeling owned - 11/26/2007 9:04:09 AM   
slavemaia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: onaroll

I'm wondering what makes the submissives here feel particularly owned. An action or a phrase or something that absolutely reminds you of who you belong to. Just curious. :)


Any number of things remind me of who i belong to/make me feel owned. Don't want to go into details as they are private, but sometimes it's just a look or a particular command, or how He's not real predictable in His use of me. Wearing His collar, obeying protocols. There are so many.

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RE: Feeling owned - 11/26/2007 9:54:35 AM   
gorgeous1


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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

My Master will grab the back of my hair and say "Mine" or He will grab the back of my hair and ask me, "Candace, who owns you?" ...I'm an instant puddle, and well reminded to whom I belong!



Yup...that does it for me too...not the "Candace, who owns you part" the "mine" part. Hubby will grab me gently by the arm or by my hair and growl into my ear..."MINE." That INSTANTLY makes me feel totally possessed and safe, and small....yummy.

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RE: Feeling owned - 11/26/2007 10:15:18 AM   
BabyDollVanIsle


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Status: offline 		God, reading all your wonderful posts makes me wish so badly that i was already owned.

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RE: Feeling owned - 11/27/2007 3:34:45 AM   
Ferretsdrgn


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Status: offline 		Hm.. When he calls me by onea his pet names, or grabs hold of my hair, when he uses "the voice", or "the look". Really it's a lotta things to can make me feel owned, but it just takes one of them to make me melt.

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RE: Feeling owned - 11/27/2007 5:16:02 AM   
angelslave77


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Status: offline 		Oh god yes, the hair grab, the who do you belong to, or when he says, "do as your told" and when he calls me his squirt or lil one ahhhhhhhh

A few other things too that he does that make me feel so owned because there is not another person on earth I would EVER EVER do those things with

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RE: Feeling owned - 12/1/2007 2:13:44 PM   
lusciouslips19


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Status: offline 		This is a very interesting subject. I have been seeing someone for a little over a month now. Engaging in D's. However he is a nice guy treating me like a lady. We played but I never felt like I had been dominated and he left no marks and usually the sceneing ended quickly and moved on to vanilla sex. I felt topped but not dommed. I liked him but was concerned that i would never get the experiences that I required. I however really liked him and good men dont come around so often. I was also hoping that things would progress.

Well, after a month, I finally was taken to subspace this past week and left with beautiful purple on breast, thighs and behind. Being Dominated in an amazing way and aftercare was amazingly beautiful too. it meant alot. He owned me that night. I am not collared by him but he owned me and developed attatchment in a way he never had before. It was my choice but I kneeled and bowed before him that night. It was the first time I had done that. I also kissed his feet as he had earned it.

For me being brought to subspace is the way to owning my heart and mind.

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RE: Feeling owned - 12/1/2007 2:22:25 PM   
batshalom


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quote:

ORIGINAL: onaroll

I'm wondering what makes the submissives here feel particularly owned. An action or a phrase or something that absolutely reminds you of who you belong to. Just curious. :)


For me, it is something that is in short supply. It is love made obvious to me in actions and in words. When I have this sort of stimulation from the beginning, and more importantly when the NRE wears off, there isn't much of anything I would refuse my Dom.

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RE: Feeling owned - 12/1/2007 5:25:14 PM   
gcarlos


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Status: offline 		Ah yes, pet names......especially when i am called "girl".  Turns me all mushy inside. 

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RE: Feeling owned - 12/1/2007 6:09:22 PM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: onaroll

I'm wondering what makes the submissives here feel particularly owned. An action or a phrase or something that absolutely reminds you of who you belong to. Just curious. :)


Asking if I can do something that I used to do without thinking about it when I was free. He increases control over some of my activities, and when I want to do that activity I feel owned when I have to ask permission first.

I also feel a little like a child too.

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RE: Feeling owned - 12/1/2007 6:19:36 PM   
decstorm37


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Status: offline 		For me it is when he asks me who owns you also hearing good girl,my little slut. Like others have said i get weak in the knees but also feel safe and warm.

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RE: Feeling owned - 12/1/2007 6:23:35 PM   
denika


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Status: offline 		There are a lot of little things, what I see in his eyes when he looks at me is a big one, the whispered word..'mine' when he puts my leather collar on before play. When there are consiquenses for my actions, as silly as that might sound, having  duties. I am blessed to be owned by two men, both my husband, who owns a special part of me and is a strong enough man to share me with my Dom. Having both of them as  strong figures in my life give me such a sense of personal pride and joy in knowing I am loved.

Pet names, even  something as simple as 'my girl' can get me weak in the knee's if it's said by the right person.



Wolf's denika

< Message edited by denika -- 12/1/2007 6:24:40 PM >

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