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RE: oops - 12/8/2007 2:22:07 PM

MissOchistic

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Well, we seem to have ruled that "cute" is his only really redeeming factor. Possibly "nice", but more likely "mapipulative".

Sounds like you'd be better off dating a teletubby, honestly. Don't be his booty call anymore, and I bet he'll stop bothering you right away.

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RE: i suck at relationships! what is wrong with me? - 12/9/2007 12:11:51 AM

MissAnthropic

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Hi miss,

I read a lot of your stuff and have come to the conclusion that you need to be told that sex is not love, it's sex, and that saying no, isnt the same as saying I dont love you.

Personally I think you need a big break from any kind of relationship or sexual encounter. You need to get up in the morning, look at yourself and say I'm a wonderful human being and I deserve to be happy and loved who who I am. I am not a cunt on legs. I think you need some balance and perspective or you will be trapped in a cycle of picking the wrong people, because you were venerable and alone and took in the first big bad wolf at your door. Practice saying NO.

When you can say yes, I'm happy with who I am, then by all means find someone else who likewise thinks your a worthwhile human being to play with or love.

just my two cents worth

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RE: i suck at relationships! what is wrong with me? - 12/9/2007 1:57:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: onlyHisgirl

i dumped him. i'm not pregnant. i'm "seeing" someone else who is nicer and surprisingly a Dom. Not that i'm saying Dom's can't be nice. i've just never had a nice Dom. Hoping to see Him tuesday. Now whether or not W/we end up just friends or more remains to be unseen but W/we're both pretty busy so it's all good.
have a great week ya'll!

I'm glad you're not pregnant. However, a guy, even a nice guy, can't do for you what you need to do for yourself. Stay friends and get some help hon, if he's really that nice he will understand and support you.

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RE: i suck at relationships! what is wrong with me? - 12/9/2007 2:26:57 AM

CliarSiofra

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I have to say reading those whole ordeal gave me a head ache and a half.

you have a lot of really good advice given to you I do wonder if you are ready to listen.

as for relationships, plenty of people have run into jerks and crazy's. I found in and really wonderful relationship there is a few factors to look for.

1. Do you find yourself able to call them one and more of these: Friend, Lover, my heart, my pain in the a**, the one warms my soul.

2. i found that love is a triangle of mind, body, and soul. does the man you have taken interest in tickle all of these.

3. don't jump into sex, the longer you hold it off. well the more worth while it will be.

4. its in his kiss. Its true what they say, a kiss says it all. As much as a guy will try to fake a feeling (i'm using Guy generic not meaning all mean are like this.) there will be a sure feeling of tender passion in a kiss.

5. if you don't love yourself first no one else can, cause only you know what is the most wonderful part of you.

My suggestion is read everyones words take them to heard and then do like the movie 40 day (really funny!) and take a break. do some soul searching and who know what you may find.

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