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DiurnalVampire -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 3:18:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

how do i go about deserving sex? lol


If someone does nothing but cause problems, and whine about why he isnt gtting any, he has done nothing to make me want to have sex with him.  Not everyone considers their male slaves to be relationship material, after all.  You dont deserve sex if you have not made an effort to make yourself appealing.
When someone serves me, assuming they are serving in a capacity that might be sexual (not all of the boys have) they know what has to be done before they are in a position to be allowed sexual contact. 
Tis my opinion, Darch ;)

DV

PS I do hope everyone knows Shawn was being a smartass in post #2 on here... he doesnt actually speak that way.

and you do not want to see him dance... its scary.  He models well, but dancing...not so much



darchChylde -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 3:30:38 PM)

ok, what i meant was that i believe you can not deserve sex, especially as a submissive... you might make it more likely that another person desires or is willing to have sex with you, but deserve it?  no, i don't think so

even the prospect of earning sex does not sit well with me... no matter what you do, or what agreements are made beforehand; all it takes is one "No" to end the show

in my opinion, ideas like "earning" or "deserving" sex are more likely to lead to date rape than anything else



HelenaTroy -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 3:31:46 PM)

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That is precisely why more women should use and enjoy their powers of seduction and allure to control a man's libido (which encompasses his entire sexual physiology) rather than withhold themselves for notions of chasity or purity, etc.
 

I definitely agree with that! I've also found that applying "The Rules" (most of you might be at laest vaguely familiar with that book) works in a femdom context quite well!

Treat them like crap and they will flock. Ignore them and they will drool.




MissMagnolia -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 3:50:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: malloves69

if im going to be naked and with a mistress some kind of sex is a must as far as im concerned ...thats where all the fun is [:)] strapon sex ....being fisted ...orally serving her ..or just vanilla sex [:)] ecspecially if im paying her for a session ..i might be a sub ..but hey im still a guy [:)] no sex probable means i wont be back for a second session unless we really hit it off chemistry wise ..her loss not mine because she wont see my money for a next get together ..mal


ROFLMAO. I hope you have a LONG list of names and a lot of money, because you're sure as hell not going to find one who'll do you for nothing.



MistressAinCT -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 3:55:39 PM)

Did I read the post by malloves69 correctly when he said he "expects" sex from a Mistress especially when he is PAYING for it????  Hmm-me thinks that's prostitution...(although I suspect that the only way he'll get it is to pay for it...)

I am thinking he also thinks he "deserves" sexual favors from her..well, I got news for him: if its going to happen, it has to be EARNED.  The right for any slave to touch Me is EARNED and even then, only *I* decide when or if, not some pissant priss boy who thinks cause he spends two nickles on Me he gets "something".    I agree with MissMagnolia---good luck to him!

Besides...to Me, a slave must have control of himself, his thoughts and his body.  he needs chastity and control.  Want to jerk off? Go home to wifey.  I'm not the Domme for you...



Politesub53 -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 4:03:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: HelenaTroy

This isn't all men or all situations, of course - but it seems the flowers always stop after the legs are spread.



I have to say Ma`am that`s a novel idea for a vase [8D]



MistressPav -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 4:24:12 PM)

Honey, it's all about the pussy.  We have it.  We control it, therefore if we don't think you should be pleasured, you're not going to be. 
Now, run along and be a good little sub. 
***pats you on the head***



Pav, Mistress of the Extremes



LadyHibiscus -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 4:26:22 PM)

Thanks for the laugh, Shawn! 

And OH yes, good to be a female!



MistressDolly -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 5:43:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressPav

Honey, it's all about the pussy.  We have it.  We control it, therefore if we don't think you should be pleasured, you're not going to be. 
Now, run along and be a good little sub. 
***pats you on the head***



Pav, Mistress of the Extremes


:)



DianeB269 -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 5:48:13 PM)

I can have sex anytime I want so, why would I wanna have sex with a sub/slave?


Diane



Machts -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 6:38:22 PM)

Men can also choose not to have sex, or they can let sex control them.

Power is as much about what you will sacrifice-as what you have.



dogboydoggie -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 8:03:05 PM)

 I  AM SORRY TO ALL THE MISTRESS . I AM NOT SAYING  YOUR  MEAN  IF YOU DONT HAVE  SEX WITH YOUR SLAVE  .



dogboydoggie -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 8:36:20 PM)

you   are  so  right  I BOW AT YOUR FEET



DiurnalVampire -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 8:40:58 PM)

Oh, you must be kidding me




IdiotMale -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 8:44:06 PM)

Awesome answer



MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 8:47:31 PM)

And another shining example that Jerry Springer guests are NOT all actors.



TNstepsout -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 8:50:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: dogboydoggie

you   are  so  right  I BOW AT YOUR FEET


Bow at my feet too. KK?



FullfigRIMaam -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 9:57:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ItalianSMistress
BTW,,,OP,,,if you are one of those boys that thinks Ds is all about sex, then good luck on that Mistress search,,,,,in 5 years, you should be a senior member here, STILL looking eh? hahahahahaa
I'm not here to defend the OP, but I'm one of the fem doms who don't do a D/s relationship without sex...  Lets face it, it's just too much work, for me not to use him for my sexual fun too.  Your mileage may vary of course, lol, I'm just sayin'.   M



LadyPact -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 10:37:09 PM)

I passed on this one for a couple of days.  Changed My mind a bit now that I can't sleep.  Truthfully, it has very little to do with the OP.  Just rambling thoughts about My personal life.
 
Well, I guess in a sense, it makes Me mean.  I don't have sex with My sub.  (I'm so tempted to put in some kind of joke referencing Bill Clinton here.)  However, I'm very big on the teasing, control, service, power aspect of it that many of the other Dommes have mentioned.  I don't specifically call it all of those things, but I'm not especially hearing any complaints, either.



dogboydoggie -> RE: mistress why cant your male slave have sex (11/28/2007 10:53:31 PM)

I BOW AT YOUR FEET .  I BOW AT YOUR FEET. I BOW AT YOUR FEET



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