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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 11/28/2007 11:10:05 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		there are many way to undress .Slow seductive , plain ole  get the job done ,one part at a time with distractions"sometimes never finishing ".All have merits but for me the best is the use of a blade , medic sissors ,straight razor ,sharpened finger talons ,and other  things  with an edge .shreading hose upon the leg ,cutting garters ,taking the shirt after it been cut to ribbons grasping it firmly and ripping it off  buttons flying .cutting the panties off to maybe be used as a gag later in the exchange .
However i did run into a problem one time after i got the thrill of doing this very thing , post dungeon exchange many hours later  wrapped in the blanket i asked if she wished to now get dressed and mingle perhaps have a snack .Looking into my eyes she said she had no change of clothing .Lucky for me/and her   a borrowed trenchcoat came in handy for the ride home

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 11/29/2007 6:20:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

there are many way to undress .Slow seductive , plain ole  get the job done ,one part at a time with distractions"sometimes never finishing ".All have merits but for me the best is the use of a blade , medic sissors ,straight razor ,sharpened finger talons ,and other  things  with an edge .shreading hose upon the leg ,cutting garters ,taking the shirt after it been cut to ribbons grasping it firmly and ripping it off  buttons flying .cutting the panties off to maybe be used as a gag later in the exchange .

I would SO want to know if someone was going to do something like this before hand!  If I wore one of my favorite blouses that I've never been able to get a 2nd one, I'd be so upset!!!  When I have favorite clothing (and I don't have much of it), that is sacrosanct to me!

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 11/29/2007 7:34:22 AM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		yes that would upset me too if my leathers got cut off  or a fav silk shirt , THOSE ARE NOT the clothing i speak of .and if someone  held me in in that low of a regard to do such an act  thats the last thing they woulf do with me bdsm wise .There are ways to set this type of activity .

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/18/2007 5:18:36 PM   
cindybee


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Status: offline 		If it is a matter if giving up control (which is what I crave) then either undressing yourself on command or being undressed  could work. If he undresses me it is because he has decided  that he wants me and I must be let him do what he wants. Being told strip and obeying... well then I'm obeying which is hot. 

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/18/2007 6:04:14 PM   
his0rayne


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Status: offline 		It makes me feel vunerable at times.  Really enforces my submission.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/18/2007 6:12:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tigrita

Yes, I sure do love the feeling of a man wanting to tear your clothes off like you're a Christmas present they've been dying to get their hands on...  Or to be slowly, seductively, actively disrobed...  I do also enjoy the vulnerability of the command to strip.  Hell, I just like getting naked, it doesn't really matter how

Like Galilah said, it is different forms of control; them taking possession of your body and its state of clothed-ness by undressing you, or enjoying your active submission in having you undress yourself.  I do think it feels a little sexier to be undressed though.  I get a good mix of both, though probably more often am told I'm wearing too many clothes (that being any clothes) and that I need to correct that.  My ex pretty much always undressed me.



Everything she said goes for me. I adore being undressed slowly or having my clothes ripped off. I don't even remember the last time I took them off myself with someone, they always do it for me. Yum.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/18/2007 7:34:06 PM   
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I adore being undressed slowly or having my clothes ripped off. I don't even remember the last time I took them off myself with someone, they always do it for me. Yum.


My perspective as a Dom: Normally, I want to do the undressing. I've mentally developed a very specific undressing scene for the next "first" time I'm with a submissive. It will give me total control.

But I love variety! Once I specifically told my former sub to wear a blouse I could literally rip off her. Another time she surprised me by having absolutely nothing on under her coat. One thing I haven't tried, but want to, is having my sub wear something very flimsy that I can literally whip to shreds while she's restrained. ::sigh:: "Skoro budyet."

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/18/2007 7:49:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
I adore being undressed slowly or having my clothes ripped off. I don't even remember the last time I took them off myself with someone, they always do it for me. Yum.


My perspective as a Dom: Normally, I want to do the undressing. I've mentally developed a very specific undressing scene for the next "first" time I'm with a submissive. It will give me total control.

But I love variety! Once I specifically told my former sub to wear a blouse I could literally rip off her. Another time she surprised me by having absolutely nothing on under her coat. One thing I haven't tried, but want to, is having my sub wear something very flimsy that I can literally whip to shreds while she's restrained. ::sigh:: "Skoro budyet."

Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)




Nods. That is why we have the "good" lingerie and the "trashy" lingerie. The former is for taking off slowly...the latter is for ripping to shreds without freaking out how much it cost!

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/18/2007 11:29:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm thinking back and I guess it's about 60/40 either I take it off for Him or He takes it off as He wishes.  Hmmmm the idea of my clothes being ripped, torn off or almost off... hubba hubba... (do people still say that?) dang that sounds hot... clothes hanging off my bod as He takes me, uses me.... I have to stop reading these damn things when He's not around... now I'm all worked up with no Sir to please.

girly

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/19/2007 12:44:03 AM   
LittleWench


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Status: offline 		You can't take off that which you don't wear.  I walk through the front door, slip off my shoes on the way to the bedroom, take off the shirt (don't wear bra) throw it in the hamper, unzip pants/jeans, hang them over a chair, throw panties (if I wore them) in the wash pile... whole process takes under 60 seconds.  You'd have to be damn quick to undress me.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/19/2007 12:49:00 AM   
girlygurl


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I suppose it would depend on the day and what I'm up to.  There are days I don't wear a bra (have to wear a sweat shirt they're too big ) and/or go commando... so on those days, there isn't much to take off.

girly

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/19/2007 1:27:01 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		I've heard from someone who has done interrogation on a professional basis that if you want to mess with a woman's head, put her in the middle of a cold, empty room and have her strip while you intently, but coldy, watch.. For a man, you take his clothes from him. A woman who is angry at having her clothes taken won't feel shame. A man who is being macho about getting naked won't feel shame. Shame gets things done.

He admitted that this is a generality, but, in general, it would work.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/19/2007 6:55:34 AM   
Gardenista


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ORIGINAL: Tigrita

Yes, I sure do love the feeling of a man wanting to tear your clothes off like you're a Christmas present they've been dying to get their hands on...  Or to be slowly, seductively, actively disrobed...  I do also enjoy the vulnerability of the command to strip.  Hell, I just like getting naked, it doesn't really matter how  




Heheh. Amen. =)

Come to think of it, my husband cares more for the end result of my nakieness then the process, lol. He's attempted to undress me a few times, but... but I think he gets impatient with unhooking the bra. Yes, the romance truely never stops around here, rofl.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/19/2007 7:16:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: SirJohnMandevill

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
I adore being undressed slowly or having my clothes ripped off. I don't even remember the last time I took them off myself with someone, they always do it for me. Yum.


One thing I haven't tried, but want to, is having my sub wear something very flimsy that I can literally whip to shreds while she's restrained. ::sigh:: "Skoro budyet."

Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)




Nods. That is why we have the "good" lingerie and the "trashy" lingerie. The former is for taking off slowly...the latter is for ripping to shreds without freaking out how much it cost!


Oh thank you sexyred for saying that!!! My 'nilla friends think I'm crazy because I have been known to frequent cheap second hand shops for that very thing.  $5 lace blouse, isn't perfect, has a lil hole under the arm pit?  who cares... It's only gonna be on me for about 17 minutes anyway!  I have ALWAYS had the two sets....

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/19/2007 5:24:05 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

I've heard from someone who has done interrogation on a professional basis that if you want to mess with a woman's head, put her in the middle of a cold, empty room and have her strip while you intently, but coldy, watch.. For a man, you take his clothes from him.


Thank you for the info, Master Fire.  I had heard the same thing, but could not recall which way it went (strip or take) for each gender.

I'm a rather impatient sort, and would just rather shuck off the clothes and hop to it.  If there is going to be anything to it, he had better be the one doing it.  If he expects me to strip (meaning, putting a little feeling into it), it's probably going to ruin my mood and just irritate me.  Uhhh, not that anyone is taking notes on this or anything... well, if you are, you know who you are.  

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/20/2007 8:50:53 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		When Master comes over i have to be naked under my robe.  All he has to do is untie the belt it works for us.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/20/2007 8:53:06 AM   
asiandoll27


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Status: offline 		Think being told to undress is such a turn on and does make you feel like a christmas package being opened when forced to do it very slowly and one item at a time. This is double when it occurs at a time when one is unsuspecting, and usually a complete turnon.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/20/2007 10:40:10 AM   
trusting


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Status: offline 		i love to be undressed, but if he prefers i do it for him then i am fine with that also. i just find it more appealing to have him remove my clothing, it is erotic for me.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/20/2007 3:04:27 PM   
trueshadow


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Status: offline 		As mistress would like, I suppose.  I've not been asked to do that very often.

As a male slave, I've been undressed after being ordered to stand still.  Most often, though, She just tells me what to do.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/21/2007 12:36:55 PM   
Focus50


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ORIGINAL: liminalRapture

OK, I have a totally irrational thing (as opposed to the rest of my erotic life, which, of course, is totally rational ;).

I adore  being undressed by someone else.  I feel like I'm this cherished and totally adored and appreciated being.  I feel pretty.  And I just hate having to undress myself--it feels (and I know this is irrational) like I'm not much valued--just something to fill time till someone better comes along. 

I tried to tell my ex how much it meant to me, but he only undressed me 2 times in a year!  And it seems like it is pretty par for the course to expect subs to do that themselves.  Anyone have similar reactions or relevant experience?

I mostly enjoy having the girl undress herself under the the gaze of my stern but emotionless eyes - because it sets the headspace I desire as the one in control.  And no, I don't particularly feel the need to undress my partners in a "civilised" manner, though, when in the right mood, I do enjoy a bit of rough manhandling where I rip (not literally) her gear off and have her do whatever I want....
 
That said, I also feel a responsibility and obligation to look after my property's needs, too.  So if she did have a particular fetish or desire that doesn't impact on my own personal limits (such as yours), I would certainly accomodate it when she's been a good girl (and occasionally tease her with it, too) and a lot more than twice a year.
 
But back to where I started, it's mostly a matter of control and setting head space - and that I enjoy her being self conscious about being the only naked person in the room, esp getting her that way.
 
Focus.

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