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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/21/2007 6:58:50 PM

WillowRain

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I can relate to this, and share some of your feelings. Being undressed makes me feel like I'm a lovely present. Even better than being undressed is being bathed, or having my hair washed. Standing in a hot shower, resting against someone I love as strong hands cradle my head... feeling completely loved and at peace as soapy water snakes down my back and front... oh yum.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/23/2007 12:17:52 PM

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To undress infront of him is very humbling (being very self consious). It is something I find very hard to do & when I do it & he deliberately watches it is very intimate & helps me learn to accept myself.

If however he undresses me (without help from myself) It is far more sensual & really gets me going.

So on reflection, one to learn, one to play

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/23/2007 1:38:42 PM

hi2525

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If I ever had the blessing to have a female trust me in this area I would love to be able to choose her clothing by actually dressing her and striping her daily. May be time consuming but I would have the joy of making her amazing everyday. I would greatly enjoy doing this.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/23/2007 10:01:38 PM

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To the OP..If I am the only one naked in that room, then I am here to tell you that both undressing and being undressed puts me into the same head space and blushing mode...there is no distinct difference felt by me....Tempting

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/25/2007 10:53:21 AM

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Well, I'd love to undress you, it would be like getting a birthday or christmas present and I do love presents

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/25/2007 6:00:08 PM

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Hi Liminal. I see what you mean. I would LOVE to be undressed or dressed, with the Mistress deciding what I SHOULD wear, to make HER HAPPY !

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/26/2007 10:07:21 AM

lis4

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Having to undress oneself might be colder in some way. When someones all over you tugging at the clothes there is more desire. Thats probably good in most situations, but it might not be the most fun way if your suposed to be dominated.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/26/2007 11:37:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: hi2525

If I ever had the blessing to have a female trust me in this area I would love to be able to choose her clothing by actually dressing her and striping her daily. May be time consuming but I would have the joy of making her amazing everyday. I would greatly enjoy doing this.

I used to do this daily for a former Mistress and found it very satisfying. With my last Mistress, I was also learning to help her with her make-up in the mornings and her night-time facial routine as well. I greatly enjoy peforming this kind of service.

As for being stripped by a Mistress vs. taking my clothes off for her. I've greatly enjoyed having a Domme remove my clothing, especially when it's in a sensual or seductive manner. It is indeed very nice to feel desired like by a woman that. Undressing in front of her at her command puts me in a very different frame of mind that can be equally stimulating as well. It's nice to feel her take control under while her watchful eye as she's fully dressed, then be told to undress her afterward as I serve her while preparing her for whatever is to come that she has planned for me within her wicked mind.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/26/2007 3:21:49 PM

Missokyst

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For me to undress myself just feels like getting it over with. It is not a sexy act, but it may lead to sex. To have him undress me is personal, like a caress from someone who is stripping you because he wants you. But my favorite thing..
Is to have my clothes ripped or cut off my body, because that is passionate, out of my control, and immediately puts me in a vulnerable headspace.
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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/26/2007 3:33:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TysGalilah

if I am being undressed, I am feeling their control of my submission ( reads physical vulnerablity...freedom from/of responsibility for will/choice)

if I am undressing myself at their command, I am feeling my surrender at their control ( reads emotional vulnerablity...my choice/will and accountability for that).

I have done both, and found they really do feel different...puts my mind-set in different places.

I feel the same way. I am more inclined to want to be undressed because when I undress I feel as if I'm baring more then just my body. My hopes, dreams, flaws, mistakes, everything seem to also being laid bare. It makes me feel nervous and high-strung, maybe like a mare being broken to saddle? *shrugs* All, I know is that it's easier for me to be stripped then to do the stripping.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/26/2007 3:53:13 PM

humble75

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Id go with undressing, to save the Lady the work, unless she felt like getting hands on.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/26/2007 4:44:47 PM

Missokyst

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I don't know why it never makes me nervous to undress. I am a modest woman but I have no fear of yanking my shirt off over my head and unsnapping my bra. Heck, I would do it in public if I thought it might make a good tan and it was legal. I have always viewed a body as just a body, nothing special on its own, but as a whole useful. It is almost a utilitarian viewpoint.
What makes me feel sexy or vulnerable is not being naked. It is being valued or desired for what it has to offer.
Kyst

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ORIGINAL: NaiveTempest
I feel the same way. I am more inclined to want to be undressed because when I undress I feel as if I'm baring more then just my body. My hopes, dreams, flaws, mistakes, everything seem to also being laid bare.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/26/2007 4:51:16 PM

Leatherist

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hmmm.....I like doing the undressing. Especially if I do it one handed, after handcuffing her hands behind her. Hand in her hair so she can't struggle too much. Force her down on her face if she does. knee in the small of her back.......pinnoing her while I pull her blouse down off her shoulders, futher hampering her movements with her own clothing..... Shoes off.....pants wadded around her knees.

Mabye I'll just sit back and enjoy the scenery at that point. Just stare blatantly and smile a bit...or giggle and point, and laugh, if she bitches. But then, I'm not difficult to amuse. Show me that your vulnerability makes you uncomfortable.

It should be fun, right?

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/26/2007 5:58:55 PM

DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: lis4

Having to undress oneself might be colder in some way. When someones all over you tugging at the clothes there is more desire. Thats probably good in most situations, but it might not be the most fun way if your suposed to be dominated.

Huh? Entirely backwards in my experience. One of the hottest times I've had was me folding laundry, him looking at me bent over, deciding he wanted me, and pulling my clothes off me before climbing on top. Full blown desire and full blown dominance.

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RE: Undressing or being undressed - 12/27/2007 7:11:03 PM

bunlover

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ladies do you want to be undressed from waist down

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