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Kirren -> RE: ruined (11/30/2007 7:41:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: Kirren

You came expecting a meat market of half dressed big tittied perfect 10 nymphos


Well HELLS BELLS!!!!  That's what I came for!!!

Cali



LMAO...I know I know. Its a sick sad world when the women are real and not plastic molds come from Barbie hell.




TemptingNviceSub -> RE: ruined (11/30/2007 8:16:58 PM)

How appropos!..a firefighter who also is a firestarter!...Ahh! the flames, the pretty the witty flames...do you by chance have a fetish for self immolation?....Tempting




sexyone4you -> RE: ruined (11/30/2007 8:36:33 PM)

I hate this time of year when asses like the op crawl from under their rocks.  Please crawl back there.




materpain -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 5:13:53 AM)

wow ya'll are amazing not once not twice but now three times i've said that i'm not talking about whip marks and minor things i even gave the example of girls being circumsized by their masters or mistresses and other "at home" surgeries that place their life in quite a bit of danger for the gratification of their owner and yet you still miss the fucking point.




mnottertail -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 5:16:09 AM)

Well, I have said it before and will say it again, I do not want my woman looking like phillip habibs passport, and I don't want them clanking metal (it will hurt them eventually, cause it will be coming out abruptly, in situ).

Ron




Level -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 5:19:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Am I the only one who thinks people say stuff like this......just to stir up trouble?


Jeff


No, you aren't......




kyraofMists -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 5:37:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: materpain
yet you still miss the fucking point.


Maybe because in your bastardization of the English language you have failed to make your fucking point?

Knight's Kyra





LordODiscipline -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 5:43:14 AM)

Here you go:

1. Point out a few of these profiles where the "beautiful girls" are damaged and scarred.
2. State a case of female circumcision or "at home surgeries" in the BDSM community (news article, web site with attributions) - there was the two guys doing castrations in the SE - but, that was not on females - and, it is one instance.
3. Give us the reference that states that people cannot do as they please with their submissives - no matter what you believe or claim to "know".

You are not being "old fashioned", you are being silly.

D as you please with the relationships in your life - but, please don't prostelyze through inuenndo and gray assertion of 'how people should be treating others better'. It is a silly oft played game and definitively points you out as being rather shallow and without merit

This is a useless rant designed to stir people up to believe you have some bone fides in the BDSM community - and, that you are empathetic to the emotion succubi (is this the plural of succubus?) who dwell out here on the ether of the web and will lend it support based on their (also) need to look good.

Stop the madness or please tell us all about your experience and your BDSM background so we can verify your stories.

Thank you for playing
~J

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ORIGINAL: materpain

i'd really like to thank stefan at least someone took it in the spirit in which it was intended. My words may not have been chosen well and i really don't give a damn if i capitalize i or not i have more to consume my time with then the bastardization of the english language to show my place in life. I show my stature by working hard and being true to those i come in contact with . Honestly i have met people from this site before this post that were just horrible people or who had no personality whatsoever it has been the majority of the people i've met recently and i can't possibly find those people attractive it isn't just about looks and even as my likes are more extreme then a lot of you may consider kosher I appreciate a woman who attractive inside and out and i enjoy looking at them and admiring them and i appreciate them giving their very existence to me and serving me in any way requested of them but recently things like that which stefan mentioned and people in the bdsm community performing female circumsitions and at home surgeries with the sole intent to modify their slave and seriously risk their slaves well being are becoming much more common place that's what i mean when i say why are we ruining our slaves. it just seems to me that we've begun to take for granted their servitude and that this thought that they are our property so to speak may be the most dangerous thing we've ever thought because property is also ours to dispose of, furthermore i was always under the impression that in return for a slaves good services we owed them in return protection love and caring this is not a one way street. Maybe i am to old fashioned for this site but i have owned my fair share of slaves and not once have i ever felt as some of you obviously do.




laurell3 -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 6:10:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

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ORIGINAL: materpain
yet you still miss the fucking point.


Maybe because in your bastardization of the English language you have failed to make your fucking point?

Knight's Kyra




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A rare comment from you here Kyra, but also a very true one.




MissSCD -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 6:15:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: materpain

ya know i've been on this site a little while now and only talked to a few people primarily due to time constraints but i notice this trend every time i hit browse photos of there being just rather unattractive females on this site compared to others and compared to those that were in the scene in years past. but then you see these girls who are absolutely gorgeous and they've been ruined by their master or mistress. i love a good pain slave as much as the next person but why take such a work of beauty and ruin her body for others to look at?
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Have you taken a good look at your photo?  Ha!
 
Regards, MissSCD





orfunboi -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 6:17:10 AM)

"My words may not have been chosen well and i really don't give a damn if i capitalize i or not i have more to consume my time with then the bastardization of the english language to show my place in life."

No, your words were rude and ugly, but I seriously doubt that your too concerned about that. As to your bastardization of the english language, I have to admit, that most of your post was unreadable. I suppose if I were to take the time and try to read it, I could. But why would I waste the time. Punctuation can be a beautiful thing.




xAdamx -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 6:17:19 AM)

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, methinks he may be closet humliation and  pain slut for the amount of shit he invites as a response...




juliaoceania -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 6:19:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: materpain

wow ya'll are amazing not once not twice but now three times i've said that i'm not talking about whip marks and minor things i even gave the example of girls being circumsized by their masters or mistresses and other "at home" surgeries that place their life in quite a bit of danger for the gratification of their owner and yet you still miss the fucking point.


Would you please present some evidence of this occuring? Someone on this thread mentioned a person with their knuckles removed too... I do not find this impossible mind you, but I do find it extremely unlikely...

There is a dominant that lived very close that told me he intentionally blinded a submissive because she wanted it done.... I did not believe this whatsoever until I emailed my local community and asked about him out of curiousity (I already wasn't wanting to meet him), and was informed that he had been kicked out of their community and they warned me about him... and even that is not proof that he actually did blind someone on purpose... but he did SOMETHING.

My point of relating the above is that. yes, people do crazy shit. But most of what I read on the internet I do not believe until I substantiate it for myself. My second point of relatiing the above story is because it also demonstrates that most lifestyle communities do not embrace maiming someone, even consensually...

So your point that people are going around performing home surgeries is ringing my "bullshit" warning bell.

I have glanced through the pictures on several occasions and over time... I have not seen one example of female circumcision... which would not be approved by the mods anyhow because photos of genitalia are BANNED. I have not seen victims of "at home surgeries" that are old, young, or in between.

Provide evidence of this widespread abuse please, because as a member of this site for a couple of years, I just haven't seen those photos.... and I do not believe you have either.




Mastaziel -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 6:20:57 AM)

I thought for some time after reading this thread, and all I could come up with in response is.....[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m21.gif[/image]



Well that was a fun read, but playtime's over. I'm off to look to see if there's a thread on body modification within BDSM  in general. If nothing else this has Me wondering about peoples opinions as to the extent and types of body mods.  And marks earned through play as opposed to symbols of ownership etc. How far does SSC go in this regard?




MissSCD -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 6:22:33 AM)

To the Wonderful Op:

You listed yourself as being 25.  Half of the psycological problems such as low self esteem, depression, etc, come from relationshipships with a person such as your self during a female or male's young days.  Someone hurt them so badly with comments like this.
Part of our job as Dom/mes and human beings is to lift each other up.  It seems to me that all you are looking for is free porn to wank off.

Regards again.  MissSCD

Yes that was a bold comment, but I know how that comment can feel.  When I was young, I was hot.  I thought I was ugly because a man told me that I was.  Now, inner strength, beauty, and faith is what appeals to me. 




orfunboi -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 6:24:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: jennylynnoh

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ORIGINAL: materpain

i'd really like to thank stefan at least someone took it in the spirit in which it was intended. My words may not have been chosen well and i really don't give a damn if i capitalize i or not i have more to consume my time with then the bastardization of the english language to show my place in life. I show my stature by working hard and being true to those i come in contact with . Honestly i have met people from this site before this post that were just horrible people or who had no personality whatsoever it has been the majority of the people i've met recently and i can't possibly find those people attractive it isn't just about looks and even as my likes are more extreme then a lot of you may consider kosher I appreciate a woman who attractive inside and out and i enjoy looking at them and admiring them and i appreciate them giving their very existence to me and serving me in any way requested of them but recently things like that which stefan mentioned and people in the bdsm community performing female circumsitions and at home surgeries with the sole intent to modify their slave and seriously risk their slaves well being are becoming much more common place that's what i mean when i say why are we ruining our slaves. it just seems to me that we've begun to take for granted their servitude and that this thought that they are our property so to speak may be the most dangerous thing we've ever thought because property is also ours to dispose of, furthermore i was always under the impression that in return for a slaves good services we owed them in return protection love and caring this is not a one way street. Maybe i am to old fashioned for this site but i have owned my fair share of slaves and not once have i ever felt as some of you obviously do.

That brought back memories of reading Faulker's "As I Lay Dying" in high school....

*flashbacks to 'Nam*


Why? Didn't Faulker know how to use punctuation either?

Oh, and too the OP...I know what your going to say. You know how to write a correct sentence, you just refuse to be pushed into that mold. Yea right.




orfunboi -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 6:35:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

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ORIGINAL: materpain
yet you still miss the fucking point.


Maybe because in your bastardization of the English language you have failed to make your fucking point?

Knight's Kyra




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yourMissTress -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 6:47:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: materpain

wow ya'll are amazing not once not twice but now three times i've said that i'm not talking about whip marks and minor things i even gave the example of girls being circumsized by their masters or mistresses and other "at home" surgeries that place their life in quite a bit of danger for the gratification of their owner and yet you still miss the fucking point.


materpain,
 
Didn't read the whole thread,  I know it's a flamefest, I will go back for laughs later.
 
Given your incredible lack of concern for comprehension, I would imagine that your screen name is more about your inability to spell than a desire to be pummelled by tomatoes.
 
I noticed in your OP you mention that not only is there a lack of beautiful women on CM as compared to other sites, but that there is a lack of beautiful women in the lifestyle in general as compared to past years.  Please tell us, exactly what, in your mind is the past?  I mean, I understand that at 25 you have been around for so long you can remember the days when kinksters rejoiced in the debut of Bettie Page.  But in just how many years have beautiful women become extinct?
 
I will give you a few years as a minor, looking at porn on the internet, and ask; Really? In the last 10 years all the beautiful women in the lifestyle have disappeared?  And when you find one needle in the haystack she's been "ruined" by her master or mistress?  Maimed, mutilated, beautiful women, and the underattractive is all that's left?  Now I have to ask about your standards...
 
Please define to us, beauty, in your estimation.  Is beauty a carbon copy of Barbie?  Pamela Anderson? Angelina Jolie?  Because if those are the standards by which you measure your potential partners, you had better be planning some plastic surgery, and soon.
 
Just a few thoughts from another "under attractive" woman on CM.
 




peppermint -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 6:50:22 AM)

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wow ya'll are amazing not once not twice but now three times i've said that i'm not talking about whip marks and minor things i even gave the example of girls being circumsized by their masters or mistresses and other "at home" surgeries that place their life in quite a bit of danger for the gratification of their owner and yet you still miss the fucking point.


You have also missed the point and more times than just 3.  You have made accusations about the lifestyle community.  May i ask how you know that there are more mutilations being done in the present than there were 5 years ago when you were a relative newbie??   Quite honestly i must tell you that i've never seen a mutilation nor have i ever heard of one in any community in which i have visited.  For some reason you seem to be made aware of the mutilations much more often than the rest of us. 

I think what people are looking for is some supporting proof of your accusation.  If this is happening frequently i would like to be more aware of it, however, without any proof i am at a loss as to whether to concern myself. 




MissSCD -> RE: ruined (12/1/2007 7:17:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: materpain

wow ya'll are amazing not once not twice but now three times i've said that i'm not talking about whip marks and minor things i even gave the example of girls being circumsized by their masters or mistresses and other "at home" surgeries that place their life in quite a bit of danger for the gratification of their owner and yet you still miss the fucking point.


You are being so nieve that this is becomming fun.  I think you locked down the auto message revolver.  It is back working now.
Missed the point?  What is it? I think you are way in over your head and don't have the slightest clue as to what we do.  You need to go back to Fire Department and work for a few years.
May I add that  I am sending you into the corner, spanking your bottom and adding some pins and peppermint oil and yes a big ball gag with restraints.  It is time for you to take a time out.
Anyone else like to get in this scene, by all means join in.
 
Regards, MissSCD




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