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do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 8:07:35 PM   
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you are hesitant to share with your Dominant?

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 8:09:26 PM   
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Used to. I got over it though.

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 8:14:56 PM   
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Sure.  The point is not to let it stop you.

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 8:15:38 PM   
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oh such  a timely question, there was a thread the other  day about extreme turn ons or something which got me thinking. So today I shared a couple of stories that are quite dark but that turn me on immensly with my Sir and he found them hot also. I think he and I both had things we were holding back and now we are sharing, it is opening new doors

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 8:18:18 PM   
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If I did I would hardly tell a public message board about it, now, would I?

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 8:18:42 PM   
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No, I tend to be a blabbermouth and tell Master more than he would like to know. We talk about it and he decides if it something worth pursuing.

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Angelslave - 11/28/2007 8:23:53 PM   
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i really can identify with your post. It seems that almost all my Owner's fantasies and desires are mine too. It's nice to have that type of closeness. Thanks so much for posting.

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Julia - 11/28/2007 8:29:26 PM   
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It was a yes or no question. No one was asked for details. They are free to give them though if they want.

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 8:37:15 PM   
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HINT - Instead of changing the title to the whole thread to respond to a particular person, simply click on "reply" in the post you wish to reply to and it will say who you are replying to in the bottom right corner of your reply.

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RE: Julia - 11/28/2007 8:41:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

It was a yes or no question. No one was asked for details. They are free to give them though if they want.


I was just making a joke...

But I do have to say that for those of us here that have our Significant Ones reading our posts, I can imagine that if their submissive talked about having fantasies they had not shared with them, they might not appreciate their sub making it public that they have not entrusted their deepest and darkest fantasies...

These are things I have trouble opening up about with everyone... it takes me a long time to share them. I have done so though.

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 8:43:47 PM   
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I did for a while, but that soon passed.  Now I can't wait to share all my naughtiness with Him



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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 8:52:04 PM   
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Yep quite a bit lately. Hope he doesn't read this :(. Why? i don't really know the answer, but at night in dreaming i have many thoughts but always had a hard time telling my Dom. So i keep them to myself.

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 8:57:26 PM   
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Somewhere between "several" and "a bunch", yeah. 

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 9:00:44 PM   
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I think it's good to share fantasies when you want to overcome certain inhibitions and learn to enjoy something in particular.  For me, some fantasies are really just fantasies that I know I'd never actually want to experience.  I keep those to myself.

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 9:06:31 PM   
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Sometimes....but He's a terrible freak like I am so we seem to compliment each other very well. So that makes it less scary

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 9:08:32 PM   
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Nope.  My fantasy is for him to feel free to share and do all of his.

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 9:17:23 PM   
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I used to, but when he didn't even blink when I shared my most extreme and "awful" fantasy that I wasn't sure I even wanted to do, and worried he would think me a freak for even considering it, I realized I could tell him anything.

Oh yeah, and then he did it.

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/28/2007 9:53:39 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

you are hesitant to share with your Dominant?


No, because I only allow one person to dominate me from time to time and they're used to my odd or extreme thoughts.  I handle that person carefully when sharing them but have no fear of getting worse than an odd look.

On the opposite end, I do tend to have fantasies I'm hesitant to share with any sub/slaves.

I've learned to always be careful with how I handle others, to go at their pace even in dominating them and pushing what they thought were their limits... because I always want more, further, harder, stranger than anyone I meet.  That goes for both lifestyle interactions and vanilla, fantasy or reality.





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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/29/2007 5:51:13 AM   
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I'm pretty warped and twisted to start with.  Plus, Mistress is pretty demented Herself, so we blend pretty well.  She's used to my dark fantasies and often adds another twist to them.  I'm very vocal about things that interest me and Mistress has given me free reign to voice my likes and dislikes.  Whether She chooses to hear them or even pay attention to them is totally up to Her, though.  LOL. 

I have a really strong fetish for long-term rubber bondage and encasement, but never thought it was possible to find a domme that was interested in it to the level I was.  Mistress is not only interested in it, but I think She's more obsessed with the idea than I am!  She comes out with things that make me catch my breath...and that, in itself, is quite an accomplishment.  She's the first one to ever scare me with Her dominance and creativity. 

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RE: do you have a fantasy that - 11/29/2007 5:59:02 AM   
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