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RE: To all sub/slaves - 11/30/2007 1:47:24 PM

laurell3

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ORIGINAL: Shawn1066

It has, in fact, turned out far better than my fantasies.

Yeah, Shawn, but you have the hottest Mistress ever!

winks ~ fairer

yes...but why is he not dancing yet?

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RE: To all sub/slaves - 11/30/2007 2:22:59 PM

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All of your persistence just may pay off if you're not careful. :-p

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RE: To all sub/slaves - 11/30/2007 3:13:15 PM

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I find that not only is the reality of belonging to a strong, sadistic, loving Master better than anything I could ever think of (and I have a GREAT imagination), it is more interesting, more meaningful and more fulfilling than I thought it would be.

Another thing that still mystifies me- I had thought on some level that it was still "play"; that I was following His directives because I wanted to please Him. But He recently demonstrated to me that following His orders is not voluntary for me anymore. I mean, He said He would live inside my head, but I didn't take it literally. One of my fantasies was to have someone who really knew me and understood me (and loved me anyway). It's kinda disorienting when you have to face the realization that now someone knows you better than you do AND He owns you and all your responses. I am still wrapping my head around the true depth of His ownership.

I do tell vanilla friends that I thought this kind of love only existed in romance novels. He is the romantic hero-type - tall, muscular, extremely handsome, emotionally mature and emotionally available, secure, baggage-free, talented (rock-n-roll front man) and gainfully employed. Before I met Him, I was sure a man of that description was fictional! And the fact that we fit in the kinky realm as well is just short of a miracle.

So, to answer the question- the reality is much better, more inspirational, challenging, fun, adventurous, sexy, loving and wonderful than anything I had ever imagined.

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RE: To all sub/slaves - 11/30/2007 4:46:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: Shawn1066

All of your persistence just may pay off if you're not careful. :-p

And this would be a bad thing HOW?

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RE: To all sub/slaves - 11/30/2007 5:27:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

When the D/s lifestyle was still just all in your head do you find that your D/s life turned out to be better than your fantasies, the same or not all at what you thought it would be. For me it has gone beyond my wildest dreams. i never thought i would ever know such happiness, freedom and peace. i do hope that everyone has found that or will find that.

Without question, the reality FAR surpasses the fantasies I've had.

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RE: To all sub/slaves - 11/30/2007 6:02:42 PM

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From the real experience I had, I found it dissapointing in a way, but I think that's because of the man I was with. In some ways it was an anticipated, in other ways better.

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RE: To all sub/slaves - 11/30/2007 7:23:12 PM

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ive always been a helpfull person never the leader type i hadent really heard of bdsm till 2 freinds showed me what it was and more. that was june 06 . since then i have found that there is no way for me to have even dreamed of what could be my first play was a dungon in dallas tx i quickly found subspace and cant get enough. i tried several tops and partners till i came to atlanta and met M'Lady
she showed me how much further i could go and pushed me right past. i am ever so greatfull to M'Lady for bestowing to me her collar

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RE: To all sub/slaves - 11/30/2007 8:50:55 PM

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My Master and I are each others 1st....we both explored online, and had limited real time experience.... WE are making up for lost time LMAO...boy howdy...*ahem..sorry*....anyway...yes...this is NOTHING like I imagined...Its life changing....I am Home....I have found my missing piece.

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RE: To all sub/slaves - 12/1/2007 3:58:54 AM

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Nothing prepared me for the way I currently live or how I feel or even what I've become.
It's surpassed every expectation I had for a life with D/s and it's wonderful.

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RE: To all sub/slaves - 12/1/2007 4:46:12 AM

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My relationship with Master goes beyond my wildest dreams of what my concept of the lifechoice was. I never thought I could feel anything so strongly or so deeply about another person in my life. It isn't a bed of roses all the time, but I would lay down my life for him if I had to.

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RE: To all sub/slaves - 12/1/2007 6:10:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

When the D/s lifestyle was still just all in your head do you find that your D/s life turned out to be better than your fantasies, the same or not all at what you thought it would be. For me it has gone beyond my wildest dreams. i never thought i would ever know such happiness, freedom and peace. i do hope that everyone has found that or will find that.

Oh yes. Big time. The leap from virtual/head space to actually living and experiencing it was way, way beyond anything i would have imagined, in a positive way. And from there the best part is that there is no turning back;)
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