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Teles -> RE: Long Term Separations - Putting BDSM on hold (2/23/2009 1:41:31 AM)
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Hello everyone,
I know that this is an old post, and I don't mean to dig it up except to pass along some information about this that some may find interest in, others may not. My name is Robert; I am the male on this profile that was sent overseas to Iraq. I am Special Operations branch, so my missions kept me away from reliable "live" forms of communication with home, except for the first few months I was there, where I was actually able to speak to Liz (the female on this profile) every day. By the time she had posted this, we were already speaking every day (which I did for her, because she isn't a strong person, emotionally, but it exhausted me, honestly). Yes, we've spoken about this, but nothing productive ever came out of it. I'd like to say that she wasn't able to see my side of it, but the truth is she just didn't want to see my side of it.
Well, let me fast forward. Starting about January, I started giving her "assignments," which involved just writing short erotic stories for me, which I knew she loved doing. That only lasted a few assignments in because she simply stopped doing them, and I did not have the time or energy to keep up with it due to what I was doing, so I had to leave it alone. In fact, from the end of January to somewhere in mid-February we didn't speak at all, due to movements and mission changes (and I told her in advance that we wouldn't be able to talk for a while).
Well, towards the end of this period, she started cheating on me and having sex with a boy she had just met through a friend. She chose sex over love, I suppose. Or perhaps the love was never there. Just thought some of you would have been curious how it ended up. I broke up with her in September 2008 because I knew that she was cheating on me, though I couldn't prove it (and really I suspected her of cheating on me due to the way she was acting [other than what I've mentioned, but it would take to long to include on this and I don't think it's neccessary to anyway] even from January, although she hadn't been able to find someone yet, I suppose). I found my proof later that month. Now, she still tries to talk to me once in a while and has told me that she would never forsake her love for me. I think it's just like everything else she's said, haha. I'm past the point of being bitter over it, though it is frustrating that someone would throw 5 years away, as well as a marriage engagement away, for sex.
We both have new profiles on this site now, mine is Niakan and hers is Pantherkitten I think. Hope to see you guys around sometime. I haven't really done much on this site, so I'm still trying to figure it out. :waves:
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