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Hair Pulling - 12/1/2007 10:00:05 PM   
TLlilone


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Status: offline 		my Master uses hair pulling as a big part of my training. i keep my hair up at all times, but we find that when He pulls on my hair, it tends to mess up my pony tail. Any advice on how to keep it from messing up?
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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/1/2007 10:13:13 PM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		I don't know about that, but i ADORE getting my hair pulled for whatever reason. you lucky girl....



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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/1/2007 10:17:34 PM   
SmokingGun82


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Status: offline 		Let's see... cut your hair short. That'd make it impossible to mess up. Or just shave it all off. That'd also insure it stays exactly how you want it.

It's accurate advice, albeit not exactly helpful.


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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/1/2007 10:18:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nope- if it's gonna be pulled, then there's no keeping it in place.  I can only suggest keeping it in a clip so that you can easily clip it back up or an easy tail at the nape of the neck that can be put up again.  Otherwise, just let it go.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/1/2007 10:20:43 PM   
kittyinpink


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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

I don't know about that, but i ADORE getting my hair pulled for whatever reason. you lucky girl....




I second that!

To the OP, try various hair ties, some have better grip than others.  There are also headbands that I wear while working out that have a thin strip of rubber underneathe them.  This keeps it from slipping and does a good job of keeping down the flyaways


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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/1/2007 10:55:04 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		You look to have long hair by the picture.... it is rather simple for me just to pile my hair back into a pony tail if it gets mussed... I just sweep it back up again, and my hair is rather long too.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/1/2007 11:59:26 PM   
CrescentLuna


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Status: offline 		I'm kind of fond of a sturdy bun at the top of the head that can grasped and pulled this way and that, though eventually it will come down. Two scrunchies pulls it up easily again, though, though it might not look the most stylish. (for me that makes it better, when I don't look "made up" anymore but you know, messed with? maybe that's the phrase)


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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 12:17:17 AM   
arayofsunshine55


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Status: offline 		Which one of you is concerned about it being "messed" up?  Hell my makeup gets messed up when he's brutal.  He likes it.  And he likes signs of his brutality.  And we cut my hair off cuase it was too much of an issue for us.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 1:07:59 AM   
Phin


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Status: offline 		Its going to get mussed. not trying to sound like an ass here but get over it and move on...

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 1:19:17 AM   
Mastaziel


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Status: offline 		messy girl, hair scattered and mussed, makeup smeared, on her knees looking up at you with a smile on her beautiful face...adjust your hair to get it out of your face, other than that it's perfect. :)

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 1:34:40 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		While I also find it aesthetically annoying (as the grabbER), if he's not messing your hair up then he really hasn't got a hold of you like he means it!  *wink*
 
Hands tied plus a firm hand full of hair - who's ya daddy now?  lol
 
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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 2:31:39 AM   
Takenbymasterwk


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Status: offline 		braids.
yeah my hair becomes one huge tangled knotted mess when Master is uhh well you know- doing things that require him to manipulate/control my head....ahem....y'know...(blush)

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 3:10:49 AM   
Mastaziel


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Status: offline 		Braids would be great, braiding leather strips into it with a ring at the very end. A DAMN good hand hold and a great tie point.
A five point hog tie using the ring in your hair to pull your head back, nice little package on display. Beautiful! Be rather hard to actually move in that position I'd imagine...unless you were given a good reason to try. FUN!

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 3:36:10 AM   
sweetsub516


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Status: offline 		Hair Pulling... lucky girl... i found i loved it and it evoked a strong response for me. My hair is short so eventually we did weave a leather thong into the back of the hair and the leather braided in DID provide an easier handhold but was never quite as satisfying as that whole handful of hair. However, it was quite effective and getting it braided in was almost an orgasmic experience for me as well... it was a great idea...

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 4:13:59 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		 i used to keep a tuft of hair just above the clit especially for hair-pulling and loved it loved it loved it.  Master prefers shaved but that hasn't stopped the pulling or pinching.  Oh... on my head??  Well my opinion is that if i worry about how i'm gonna look then my focus is on me not my Master.  Messy hair.... well neither Florida nor South Carolina is gonna give me 'helmet hair' but that new latex hood surely is..... Sometimes suffering is what it's all about *wink*

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 6:29:11 AM   
NewKnotTyer


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Status: offline 		My gf/sub LOVES to have her hair pulled. Just one tug and her knees are water.  When we are playing a good tug with a nice fistful of hair has her coming like a freighttrain running behind schedule....hrd and in a hurry!   Aaaanyhow, OP, here is a delicious solution to your problems: http://63.134.230.60/video/06_BasicHairTie.swf  youre welcome, and Im not responsible for what happens next.... *shudders* mmmm, good times. hope that helps. 

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 6:31:47 AM   
GentleSeduction


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Status: offline 		Thanks for all your advice, guess we will try some different things.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 7:02:00 AM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		don't want to mess up your hair? don't pull it! other than that, what's so hard about putting it back up after it's messed up; i've been doing it for years!

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 7:33:57 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I must brush the knots out of mine and put it back up every half hour. He's constantly playing with it, pulling it, pulling me around by it. Just keep a brush with you at all times and scrunchies is all I can recommend.

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RE: Hair Pulling - 12/2/2007 8:17:27 AM   
PsyVamp


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Status: offline 		Every time I grabbed his hair, it got mussed, the ponytail had to be redone when all was said and done.

My advice would be to just let it go until your training is done, or maybe your Master would rather pause a moment to have you fix yourself.  Unless your hair is getting in the way with training after that, does it really matter? 
If  you are bound, and  your hair is getting in the way, have one of those larger clips at hand so he can just clip your messed tail to the rest of your hair and move on.

Good luck and have fun!

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