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RE: I feel so conflicted - 12/4/2007 1:53:45 AM

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angel, I am glad you are feeling stronger today, and I am happy I was able to be there for you last night. you are a treasure, He knows that ... and so is He, and you know that! I stand by what I said last night, there's no "should" about feelings, they are valid as they are and you have the obligation to share them with your Sir. It's natural and understandable that you would feel disappointed when it looked like He would be moving here sooner than later and then He gets this offer! But, it's what you DO as His sub that matters ... and working with Him to make the best of the situation is the important part now. As someone else posted, there is every chance that in some months He can transfer and that this job will improve His chances of getting good work here. And it's great that the employer knows and is prepared to be supportive.

Let Me know if Master or I can help in some way, and remember We're only about 20km away if you need a chat, a hug or a shoulder to cry on!
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RE: I feel so conflicted - 12/4/2007 4:45:52 AM

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Awww...sorry to hear that hon, hopefully something can be worked out. Like Dad getting his time over the summer when the kids are off school or something like that so you could move.

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RE: I feel so conflicted - 12/9/2007 11:17:06 AM

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Count on Yyour love hon, it really sounds sollid, and it's understandable that you panicked, but there are good sollutions brought up regarding your question I wish you enough.

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RE: I feel so conflicted - 12/9/2007 1:55:17 PM

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thankyou goddess, things are back to fabulous now and me being the cheeky lil thing I am decided to stir him and ask "what is the going rate of an engagement ring these days?" his reply "2 or 3 months and my reply "wow I will need a body guard" but I am seriously ok with it all now and we both know this desicion is for the best. And in fairness he has till August to move becuase we set a twelve month LDR limit (although I do hope he is here permenantly before then)

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RE: I feel so conflicted - 12/9/2007 5:16:17 PM

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im happy things worked out for you, im in a situation like that here. my M'Ladys husband just got orders to spend a year in korea, im leaving this base in 7 months. so my M'Lady will be alone for 6 months till they get the assignment to the west coast. W/we all talked about it and the outcomes and it will work out for us as well. true bonds cannot be broken by distance only strengthend. i wish you the best of life
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RE: I feel so conflicted Updated - 12/19/2007 3:43:21 PM

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Just wanted to thankyou all for your advice and support and update on something that happened last night.
Sir said to me that he is regretting taking the job and wishing that he had just moved up to be with me.
I am so pleased that he took it and learned this on his own, and I guess on the positive side it adds another dimension to his already impressive resume.

But the very best thing (I think) is that he does really love the job and still he regrets his decision, it just makes me feel so very loved and treasured.

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RE: I feel so conflicted Updated - 12/19/2007 9:23:25 PM

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Eh I still kick myself for not moving in with my partner when he asked- I was looking for a job at the time and it would have been very convenient for us both.

But AT THE TIME, it just wasn't the right choice. I still felt I needed to stay independent and wasn't completely sure where "we" would go and didn't want to get us into a serious situations which would be messy to turn back.

Hindsight of course I realize I was the most stupid and luckiest person alive to have the second chance.

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