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No men - 8/14/2005 10:06:05 AM

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Is anyone else bored with seeing "No men" on women's profiles?. Just a thought,Im fed up with this "Oh,no!!,I dont want to talk to you!!!. You arent good enough".Seems women like women more than men. oh well.

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 10:07:12 AM

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If you had a female's inbox,here,you would know why.

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 10:11:02 AM

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If you had a female's inbox,here,you would know why.

Sad but true

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 10:11:11 AM

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Why should you be bored or fed up because a person knows what they're looking for? It's not a personal attack on your manliness.

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 10:11:38 AM

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I certainly respect that everyone is looking for different things, and I never bother any woman who places a "no men" request in her profile. However, it does seem that there are a whole lot of Dommes who have either "no men" or "not looking" or something to that effect in their profiles. It is frustrating, but I guess that's the brakes. Got to respect people's wishes.

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 10:12:19 AM

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you know I can understand what HaloweenWhite was saying but Fidelity hit the nail on the head. I just created a profile for my girl on here. It was blank and within 10 minutes she had like 5 emails from Doms, and one Domme trying to claim her.

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 10:15:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HalloweenWhite

Is anyone else bored with seeing "No men" on women's profiles?. Just a thought,Im fed up with this "Oh,no!!,I dont want to talk to you!!!. You arent good enough".Seems women like women more than men. oh well.

HalloweenWhite.

I would love to get an opinion from a lesbian on this. A real one, that is!

We all know that there are probably lots of men who write profiles to get erotic emails, and they pose as women who are bi or lesbian. Men pretending to be women on the net to get free wank material is probably as old as the Internet itself.

It seems like the profiles written by lesbians or bi sexual women that are extremely ADAMANT about saying "NO MEN! I will NOT respond to MEN! If you are a man, DO NOT WASTE MY TIME!" -- combined with a really cheesy name (like "HotBiDomme4sluts" or something) and that are written like a PORN story have just got to be men. Pure and simple. Don't you think?

Now, I am not in the market for a lesbian or bi femdom or sub, so I have not contacted any so I can't say how many have turned out to be fakes after a few emails, where the apparent lesbian/bi femdom won't get on the phone to verify or just seems to keep harping on wanting details training experience stories, pictures, or whatever. I know that if I were seeking a woman partner online, I would want a phone call right out of the gate -- and I know any woman would respect that, because she's in the same boat.

So my question is -- for lesbians -- do you post in your profile " NO MEN !!! " -- or is it mostly the men pretending to be posting as women that do that? Because wouldn't a real lesbian just ignore the emails from men and delete them, anyway? Why make such a huge fuss about it -- it's not like you will be tempted by the man anyway.

Just seems curious to me. I know that a homophobic HNG (many of them DO seem homophobic) would just go nuts trying to make sure he didn't get any guys emailing him...he just wants the hot bi sub/femdom emails to start pouring in...

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 10:18:24 AM

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it's no different then some men who are bi or gay and put no women or the straight men who put no men. W/we all have O/our preferences and they should be respected regardless. Maybe someone has found another. Should they delete their profile because they aren't searching? Just because W/we don't find what W/we're looking for WHEN we want to find them doesn't mean W/we won't find them eventually.

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 10:21:24 AM

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I have a lesbian friend who has a profile here. She originally just listed as lesbian, and wrote her profile describing herself and the type of woman she was looking for.

She finally added "no men" in big letters at the top, because people just didnt' get that "lesbian" and a profile detailing a search for a girl meant "I want a girl. I am not into guys."

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 10:21:57 AM

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Ya know AAkasha, that's a damn good point. Even more so since all they need do is set their bulk mail filter to automatically screen any emails from men. You got me wondering about just how many of these probably are fakes. I just never paid them any attention before. Would be interesting if there was a way to prove it and if CM would do something about it (like deleting them), though I don't see that happening.

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 10:43:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: Fidelity

If you had a female's inbox,here,you would know why.

Are you trying to tell us something?

*wink*

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 10:55:27 AM

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No matter what someone puts in their profile ... someone will have something negative to say about it. Even a completely blank profile will get some negative feedback.

Catagorically speaking:

Their profile belongs to them ...
My profile belongs to me ...
Your profile belongs to you ...

Funny how well that works out.

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 11:12:19 AM

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Makes me wonder how difficult it would be to include a few preference flags, c.f. "I do not want my profile to show up on searches unless the person looking is this and this and not this".

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 11:17:59 AM

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I wondered about the email filters too. It really does cut down on what you do not want. But isn't it sort of amusing to think that all of those pushy sorts who think they can poach,or convert women who dont want men........May actually not only not be getting what they want.......but there is MALE horny net geek laughing his ass off,and wanking his crank while he reads them?

What a blow to an overinflated ego! To be reduced to no more than a cum spot on someone's computer chair!

Almost like a kinky "big bad wolf"...........

"I'LL HUFF, AND I'LL PUFF!!!!!"

(and you'll blow your wad down.....)

ROFL.......isn't the net FUN?

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 11:26:29 AM

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Since when is having a profile only about wanting to hook-up with another person?

Is there a rule somewhere that says you can only create a profile if you are wanting to date?

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 11:32:07 AM

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LOL Fidelity, was thinking the same thing!

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Since when is having a profile only about wanting to hook-up with another person?

Ah... but someone advertising and saying No Men, is looking to hook up, just not with men. Which is fine if that's really the case, though I find the senario of some male pervert pretending to be a lesbian getting bombarded with emails from male HNGs pretty damn amusing!

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 11:36:40 AM

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I once has a sub friend who hung out on irc-an hng was stalking her,being a total pest.

I finally just told her "Give him this link,and tell him you can't deal with the guilt any more,he can come over,and you will treat him to what is on your personal website."

It was of a Big nasty gay Leatherman. The opening picture on his home page showed him with his fist up some guy's ass to the elbow.

Just took one cut and paste-no more hng.....welcome to the net,where the men are men-and so are a hell of a lot of the women!

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 12:01:43 PM

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Ah... but someone advertising and saying No Men, is looking to hook up, just not with men. Which is fine if that's really the case, though I find the senario of some male pervert pretending to be a lesbian getting bombarded with emails from male HNGs pretty damn amusing!

This whole matter could be solved if all the horny men were persistent in forming a relationship with MissSix and stopped bothering the rest of us...

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 12:02:25 PM

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ROFLMAO!!!

Ya know... I'm almost tempted to set up a fake page like that on my server an let the ladies here link to it next time they want to scare a HNG off... its a helluva thought!

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RE: No men - 8/14/2005 12:10:29 PM

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Its odd when I see something like this. Being a part of an equal opportunity household, we have probably seen it all.

We don't limit ourselves based on the sex of the person that may be interacting, but my wife and I know the odds of us finding a male that each of us find attractive as opposed to a female that we both find attractive. I like BBW's, and she likes very strong men.

That being said I have sat in the office here at home with my wife as she has been on Yahoo or any other chat, and watched the things that come across. I was mildly surprised that there were alot less men bothering her than I had thought. She may get 2 or so gimps in an evening, usually trying to get something goign while hiding from their wives online (no pic is a dead giveaway).

I have managed to come to several comclusions when it comes to such things.

There does indeed seem to be a plethora of men out there that want instant gratification. And bothering people can and is a valid form of self pleasure it seems.

There aren't as many as one would initially think, since my wife's solo profile on a couple of sites barely gets attention at times.

I have also come to the conclusion that just because someone is female, does not make them any less flakey. Just that with females they are more inclined to tug at someone, lead on, then break off. Whereas males are more into the instant gratifications. The females I have encountered along these lines seem to feel the need to be pursued and then walk away, a hit of "He wants me", then leaving.

There may indeed be people that have their inboxes flooded with horny net geeks ( a term my wife introduced me to ), but I have yet to see it in a way that could not be easily managed. And yes they may be mostly male.

The men only terms simply bothers me from the standpoint that I think alot of people have it in their profiles because they assume the overwhelming response of negative male responses. And women, by and large, are still a form of commodity within the sexual world. Who wants to share their "commodity"?

Apologies for the comodity if anyone takes offense, but when was the last time you saw a plethora of ads looking for another male to add to the relationship?

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