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sexyred1 -> RE: Kissing bad kissers (12/4/2007 1:50:24 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Termyn8or
red, I hope you are not running away.
Actually the first line of this would be different.
How about something constructive. Now I am not saying I am good, but sometimes I can wrap my toungue around your's and pull. Only a little bit, there is no traction, well unless one of us is a lizard or something.
As a Man I would always be interested in learning how to please Women, it's kinda a thing with us. But I need to know more about what you want. And no two Women are the same either. But getting general, I think those who have been fueling this thread owe us a little bit in the way of explanation.
I know that it can't get too detailed but the major point of it should be brought up. Do you want me to play and peck, nibble your lip, or do you want my tongue pretty much down your throat ? There comes a time you want something to invade you down there, is that true on the top as well ?
This is a legitimate question, what do you want, a dance inside the mouth, or a forceful thing ? One girl told me to blow into her, but another hated that. Biting the tongue is another issue. Not really biting, but nibbling. Some want, some don't.
Let's put it this way, I need to know what you want, I simply cannot read your mind. You must express yourself. You might try tact if the guy is otherwise good. The slobbery guy, put a cracker in your mouth, play around that. Tell him why. Because when it gets down and dirty you might just not mind his slobber all over your hoo ha. And you might miss out on a guy who could take you to the moon because you can't utter a few simple words. Or can't find them.
But finding the words is another story, you do not want to offend, but then you were looking for a Man right ? Do you want one with an ego so fragile that you can't even tell him what pleases you and what does not ?
Please don't let me have the last word on this.
T
Hey T, I would never run away from an intelligent discussion, I just got back on just now and returned to the thread. :)
I really do appreciate your points above. I can see why it might be hard to know what a woman wants. In other activities; let me blunt if I may, such as oral sex...a woman can easily communicate to a man how she likes it, or how to touch her breasts, or if she likes rough sex or gentle, slow lovemaking.
But for some reason, when it comes to kissing, it does not seem as if anyone actually ever discusses ways to kiss. I cannot remember a time in my life when I told a guy HOW to kiss me or when a man asked me how I would want to be kissed.
I also think this has nothing to do with ego; despite some other posters failing to see humor in what I wrote, not my problem. I think confidence is more like it. I also think you can feel confident knowing you are a good kisser simply from feedback. If your feedback has been amazing, then it stands to reason, you are good at it, no? When I said I was born good, I was being facetious, which only .dark seemed to get; she knew I meant aptitude.
Anyone I had amazing chemistry with, we just kissed perfectly together. Now I will say this, that a few times, I kissed someone and it was not earth shattering, but later on, if I ended up in a relationship with them, the kissing just got better, but it was not because of a discussion; it was because our chemistry further developed.
You can also show someone by example how to kiss, but if they don't mimic it back within a reasonable amount of time, what do you do? Say, hey dude, you are so not kissing me like I am kissing you? Not very submissive, is it?
So perhaps I have missed out on some great guys, but even as a great communicator on all levels, somehow to me, kissing, should not require much conversation.
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