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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 12:09:55 PM   
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Complicated sceneries.   

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Conservative or Liberal   very important if it dose not match your value system

I'm supposed to have values as well as bake muffins and iron his under pants?
 


I think I'm in trouble...tis only Tuesday and my eyes first read that as "iron under his pants".  I was going to note that your sadistic side was a lot worse than a lot of dominants I know 

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 1:33:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know if I read his post so much as 'testing', but as weeding out people upfront for what you already know you want.

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 5:15:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		     Wow  I guess even in the most common sense form people got lost.  Some got it correct.  Sarcasm from the point of view I said is bad. The reason why  it is always about someones Mistake, Failure or hurt. only a dumb ass never feels that of which they do to others. Karma gods are always cool at setting that record straight. those that do unto others get it done back. As For the rest is was quiet clear.
    It Did not take rocket scientist to see. it is all about finding the right person to bond with up front. every Relationship is an investment. So if your going to put all your trust like money to a bank. YOU better make sure that person is worthy of that trust.

       Hence the points i Listed. Very simple and logical. No body wants to be hurt or taken advantage of unless  your mental.  We all want good things in some way or form. I am not buying that well what if they want that bull shit. So just move on down the road cause your poisoned. You have more baggage then people at airports.

          So keep in with post if you have needs and desires. Then really look at the person your in voled or getting in voled with. Know things things earlier can save you a lot of heart ache later

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 6:27:34 PM   
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I was not picking on you. I asked a question about the words in which you used to post your question.

You titled the thread
Testing the Dom and Domme
 
and then go on to talk about how you approach someone and how you act when they approach you.

My confusion stemmed from that.

That's ok though. If you want to be a prick and be all prickly because I asked for clarification on that; that's perfectly fine with me. I will not lose any sleep over it.

Have a nice life.

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 6:29:50 PM   
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I am not buying that well what if they want that bull shit. So just move on down the road cause your poisoned. You have more baggage then people at airports

Excuse me?
Who are you to judge what people want?
Who are you to say they are poisoned?
Who are you to cry emotional baggage?
 
The more posts i read from you the more jaded you come across.

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 6:31:55 PM   
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HUH???

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WTF?

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 6:43:20 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		this was never about you. IT was back at the general comments made. General comments diserve general answers. sense that is all people see most of the time on here 

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 6:49:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

    Wow  I guess even in the most common sense form people got lost.  Some got it correct.  Sarcasm from the point of view I said is bad. The reason why  it is always about someones Mistake, Failure or hurt. only a dumb ass never feels that of which they do to others. Karma gods are always cool at setting that record straight. those that do unto others get it done back. As For the rest is was quiet clear.
   It Did not take rocket scientist to see. it is all about finding the right person to bond with up front. every Relationship is an investment. So if your going to put all your trust like money to a bank. YOU better make sure that person is worthy of that trust.

      Hence the points i Listed. Very simple and logical. No body wants to be hurt or taken advantage of unless  your mental.  We all want good things in some way or form. I am not buying that well what if they want that bull shit. So just move on down the road cause your poisoned. You have more baggage then people at airports.

         So keep in with post if you have needs and desires. Then really look at the person your in voled or getting in voled with. Know things things earlier can save you a lot of heart ache later


Your post is about your values and preferences.  Your tag/subject line was probably poorly written.  I don't think anyone here is going to tell you not to have your values and preferences and up to this point I don't see that they have.  You should adhere to the same concept.

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 6:50:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		I judge cause i can. Because knowing what is right and wrong in life comes with knowledge of not doing something stupid or unwise to cause strife or disharmony. Kinda of like positive to negative  Conservative to liberal.. if the path  you are on is only causing you trouble. logic would suggest you change course. That is all my answers have been.  Some people sink to deep in the mud and get stuck in it. others walk around it and see it for what it is. 

< Message edited by LATEXBABY64 -- 12/4/2007 6:57:41 PM >

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 6:58:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		You judge because you can !! Your judgement is based on what? Your pyschic knowledge of all other peoples relationships?
You cannot possibly know what is healthy for other people and what is not. You cannot make choices for other people based on what your choices would be.
You cannot criticise those you know nothing about based on nothing but your judgement of relationship rights and wrongs.

'Criticizing others is a dangerous thing, not so much because you may make mistakes about them, but because you may be revealing the truth about yourself - Harold Medina.'

Giving advice is one thing, but ramming your opinions which you believe (incorrectly) to be fact for everyone down someone elses throat constantly is just plain arrogant and rude.

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 7:16:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

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Complicated sceneries.   

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Conservative or Liberal   very important if it dose not match your value system

I'm supposed to have values as well as bake muffins and iron his under pants?
 


I think I'm in trouble...tis only Tuesday and my eyes first read that as "iron under his pants".  I was going to note that your sadistic side was a lot worse than a lot of dominants I know 


I did suggest straightening pubes with my hair straighteners, that could get a little on the burny side. I had the thought that if i accidently caught the penis between them, well it would just be an unfortunate accident

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 7:31:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

I judge cause i can. Because knowing what is right and wrong in life comes with knowledge of not doing something stupid or unwise to cause strife or disharmony. Kinda of like positive to negative  Conservative to liberal.. if the path  you are on is only causing you trouble. logic would suggest you change course. That is all my answers have been.  Some people sink to deep in the mud and get stuck in it. others walk around it and see it for what it is. 


What is positive, negative, strife, disharmony, conservative, liberal, trouble, logic, mud, knowledge, and/or stupid varies from person to person.  Trust me LB you aren't all-knowing.  None of us are.  In my opinion your post was fine the way it was worded.  It's about your preferences.  Assuming they are anyone else's or should be is foolish. 

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 7:56:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

I judge cause i can. Because knowing what is right and wrong in life comes with knowledge of not doing something stupid or unwise to cause strife or disharmony. Kinda of like positive to negative  Conservative to liberal.. if the path  you are on is only causing you trouble. logic would suggest you change course. That is all my answers have been.  Some people sink to deep in the mud and get stuck in it. others walk around it and see it for what it is. 


I can not resist...."Judge not, least you be judged"- The BIBLE- which a lot of people don't believe in, read or even acknowledge. Yet, I see that even in a site such as collarme- where the most free "living, thinking, sexual" beings chat, meet, and post to forums, there is just as much judging going on as on  Judge Judy, Judge Joe and Judge Mathis. (No- I don't watch them, but I hear they are ridiculousy hilarious).But- these posts where anything goes- even more hilarious.


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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 8:11:27 PM   
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I thought you had learned enough from me not to get into confrontation with people and judge them.  I just ask them right off the top of the bat, are you married.  Ninety-nine percent of the time their answer is yes.   I never get passed that point. 
Your wording was bad.  Just learn from this one and move on.
 
Ron, I hope you did not forget to shave your legs hun.  LOL
 
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

I judge cause i can. Because knowing what is right and wrong in life comes with knowledge of not doing something stupid or unwise to cause strife or disharmony. Kinda of like positive to negative  Conservative to liberal.. if the path  you are on is only causing you trouble. logic would suggest you change course. That is all my answers have been.  Some people sink to deep in the mud and get stuck in it. others walk around it and see it for what it is. 

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/4/2007 8:11:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Why 'test' anyone? As if your typical Domme who's actually quite sharp, highly intelligent and sensitive to boot isn't going to work it out straight away.

I have a simpler strategy. I know that nothing in life is guaranteed, and that most attempts at starting a relationship fail anyway. I find that by paying them attention, listening to them, being myself and being honest and open works really well.

But this is just me.

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/5/2007 7:44:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: missturbation

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

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Complicated sceneries.   

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Conservative or Liberal   very important if it dose not match your value system

I'm supposed to have values as well as bake muffins and iron his under pants?
 


I think I'm in trouble...tis only Tuesday and my eyes first read that as "iron under his pants".  I was going to note that your sadistic side was a lot worse than a lot of dominants I know 


I did suggest straightening pubes with my hair straighteners, that could get a little on the burny side. I had the thought that if i accidently caught the penis between them, well it would just be an unfortunate accident


Excuse me while I just go over here and close my legs, cover my crotch and just cringe....

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/5/2007 9:25:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		A lot of it is really simple Logic people make it more difficult then it is. YOu can say what ever. I do know that life experince can teach you this. I have a whole lot of it more then you could ever know. So what makes me and expert.

      I was doing this before you were thought of.. I  have learned from my lessons Now common sense can work like this. You can learn from someone elses Mistakes or you can make your own. No one cares either way. That is reality just how it is. when people read something they take it to much to heart fine. It just dose not bother me iether way.
     When Pc Goes off so does my thoughts here. Unless i know you. So My point to you use. Do what ever you want I do not know care. But if your life is sucken you better be doing something to change it yep.

       It is kinda like sports couches. there are only so many right plays to do on a playing feild to win. If your not whinning then you sure are not doing something right. You can come up with every excuse. Even Minpulate the post to fit your agenda. But in the end if you do not have it together. You only have you to blame.

      I just I care about people so that makes me terrible. Lol oh well welcome to cyberville.  

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/5/2007 9:49:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

A lot of it is really simple Logic people make it more difficult then it is. YOu can say what ever. I do know that life experince can teach you this. I have a whole lot of it more then you could ever know. So what makes me and expert.

     I was doing this before you were thought of.. I  have learned from my lessons Now common sense can work like this. You can learn from someone elses Mistakes or you can make your own. No one cares either way. That is reality just how it is. when people read something they take it to much to heart fine. It just dose not bother me iether way.
    When Pc Goes off so does my thoughts here. Unless i know you. So My point to you use. Do what ever you want I do not know care. But if your life is sucken you better be doing something to change it yep.

      It is kinda like sports couches. there are only so many right plays to do on a playing feild to win. If your not whinning then you sure are not doing something right. You can come up with every excuse. Even Minpulate the post to fit your agenda. But in the end if you do not have it together. You only have you to blame.

     I just I care about people so that makes me terrible. Lol oh well welcome to cyberville.  


Lets be clear about this, just as others have been. If this is the way you want to run your life then fine, but it is not how everyone wants to run theirs. You have not been doing this since before everyone was born and the length of time you have been doing something does not always correspond to the amount of knowledge you have about that particular topic.

If this feels right for you then you go with it but please please stop trying to make out that yours is the only way to live life. It is not. There are a huge chunk of people that live their very happy lives very differently from the way you do yours. They are happy and content with things the way they live them. Learn that yours is not the only way, just a way and stop ramming it down everyones throats.

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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/5/2007 10:14:54 AM   
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RE: Testing the Dom and Domme - 12/5/2007 10:56:15 AM   
missturbation


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A lot of it is really simple Logic people make it more difficult then it is.

YOUR logic, not everyone's.
 
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YOu can say what ever.

Yes i can.
 
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I do know that life experince can teach you this.

Teach you what?

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 I have a whole lot of it more then you could ever know

A whole lot more what?
 
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So what makes me and expert.

You're an expert? At what exactly?
 
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I was doing this before you were thought of..

And?
Age or lifestyle length time does not make wisdom.
 
As for the rest, couches, whinning, minpulate - you've lost me completely.
Any chance you can use spell check and punctuation?


 
 

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