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subspace - 12/5/2007 7:01:53 PM   
girlygurl


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Status: offline 		Ok, so I'll admit it.... I'm not sure exactly what subspace is other than I think I've been there after some hard fucking with my Sir.  I'm sure it's different for everyone but maybe those of you with some experience can shed some light on the subject (excuse me if this is one of those non-stop thread topics). 

What do you feel like/experience when in subspace?


what brought this up for me was yesterday!  I was by myself and well... lets just say I had a really good time with me, myself and I  I felt so darn good.... I was buzzing for the next hour.  I asked my Sir the question, "can I experience subspace on my own?"

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RE: subspace - 12/5/2007 7:20:39 PM   
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RE: subspace - 12/5/2007 7:23:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		Since I'm inexperienced in actual participation... I can only quote an explanation I've heard before. I don't remember it verbatim, but it was said that entering subspace was like getting into a really good book. You may be in an uncomfortable position when you're reading it, but you don't notice until the book is closed and find your back stiff (ie. or you've taken more of a flogging than you expected.)

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RE: subspace - 12/5/2007 7:24:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Like you said, probably different for different people.  When I get myself off or have vanilla sex, I get a good afterglow after a good orgasm, feeling warm, happy, tingly all over.   Subspace is more than that for me.  I feel owned, taken care of, pushed so close to the edge that I am alive all over and could fall except for the guy I trust so much.  Afterglow is always good, but subspace is amazing.  Sometimes all it takes to be in subspace for me is him grabbing my hair the right way, or growling in my ear when he passes me, or just barely touching my neck for a few seconds. I am his, totally. Mmm, happy thoughts. 

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RE: subspace - 12/5/2007 7:59:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		If Master and I are playing, i can usually feel a shift in my mind when i go into subspace.  It feels like i am floating above myself, looking into my own eyes.  I would say for me is is also an alternate subspace i can shift into outside of play, which can be triggered simply by a word or a gesture.  This puts me a very focussed state where i am at one with Master's needs, where i am at one with him.

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RE: subspace - 12/5/2007 8:11:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Don't know.  I have heard so much about it but, not sure I have ever felt the mystical shit. I do know that there is thing between pain and pleasure that rocks. I . know I get lost.  I can't see, I might float, hell I  don't know.  I sure as hell can't talk.  Its like some ......................one long drawn out moan.   It just pulsates through me, in and out.

I don't know if that qualifies. But its ok in my book.  If that ain't it, well, then, I guess there is something to look forward to. Cause I was perfectly fine with that.

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RE: subspace - 12/5/2007 8:16:24 PM   
Sirsinini


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Status: offline 		You might get a ton of information if you utilize the search button in the upper right hand corner of your screen and search subspace.
Heads up: It's different for everyone.  I didnt even know I went there.... Sir had to tell me I was "gone."
 
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RE: subspace - 12/5/2007 8:30:57 PM   
Bethnai


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Status: offline 		But its not that I don't get the concept. Its .....subjective.

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RE: subspace - 12/5/2007 9:22:34 PM   
Sky42


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Status: offline 		It depends on what you mean by "alone".  I was not at home with my owner, but we were on the phone together, and she was able to talk me into an absolutely wonderful orgasm (yes there was some self stimulation involved).  While it was nearly as intense as when we are together, it was still incomparably better than before I was in her service, and while it may not have been a 'deep subspace', I do think that I was there.

That being said.. if you are truely alone, yes, you probably could achieve the same state yourself, I mean, after all it is a state of mind.  What it would take for you is something only you could answer though, if it was thoughts about your Dom acting on you, or just your service to them, or replaying an intense scene in your head, or even just their particular scent or taste.

Depending on how you react to it though, I'm not sure I would reccomend being by yourself.  I was, frankly, a little worried as I (kind of) know how I react, and I know if I had really let go I could have gone a ~lot~ deeper, but I had to reign myself back a bit because there wasn't anyone close-by and I didn't feel like trying to explain how I got hypothermic to the paramedics. : D

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RE: subspace - 12/5/2007 9:36:44 PM   
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_622770/mpage_1/key_subspace/tm.htm#622894
Crazy First Subspace

http://www.collarchat.com/m_549476/mpage_1/key_subspace/tm.htm#549596
blocked out scene or inaccurate memory?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_521560/mpage_1/key_subspace/tm.htm#521654
A question about "subspace"

http://www.collarchat.com/m_514967/mpage_1/key_subspace/tm.htm#515095
Different views of subspace and subdrop

http://www.collarchat.com/m_238766/mpage_2/key_subspace/tm.htm#280229
How quick do you go into subspace?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_440912/mpage_1/key_subspace/tm.htm#441045
Was this subspace?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_537506/mpage_1/key_subspace/tm.htm#537508
Subspace ??

What is SUBSPACE?

Subspace...?

Subspace

Subspace can you control it?

Subspace?

Not talking subspace...or sub drop...so what is it?

Subspace or just fantasy land?

Subspace safe?

Subspace or subdrop anyone?

Subspace? (2)

A thing called subspace


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RE: subspace - 12/5/2007 11:31:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		I nominate LuckyAlbatross as the link queen.

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RE: subspace - 12/6/2007 12:08:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Subspace = non-ordinary reality = shamanic journeying for me. I most often find this during sex. Topspace = trance = meditation for me. I most often find with flogging or singletails.

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RE: subspace - 12/6/2007 12:09:56 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: NimirRa

I nominate LuckyAlbatross as the link queen.


LA is definately our Link Queen. She even has her own (PINK) 'Easy Button'! ;-)

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RE: subspace - 12/6/2007 3:18:12 AM   
girlygurl


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Status: offline 		Thanks to everyone who commented on this subject.  The only way I can describe how I feel when I feel that I'm in subspace "with my Sir" is the following.... He and I share special time after playing hard.  During that time, I am pretty much "out of reality" I'm in this zone of smiling (when I don't realize I'm doing it) staring off into space as I gently stroke my Sirs back or chest, and I am incredilby content. 
Nimirra decsribed it well. I don't want to move, I don't think to move actually, I'm so intently focused yet it's an effortless focus just being and floating and it's fucking fantastic. 
When I was alone the other day, it wasn't the same as what I experience with my Sir, but I do believe it was some kinda space  and a damn good one at that.  I had brought myself to multiple orgasm (doesn't happen often) one right after the other... *sighs* me thinks I wanna go there again... soon!!!

~LA thank you for the links. 
~Sirsinini next time I have a topic to discuss I'll try search... and all this time I thought LA had special powers  

girly

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RE: subspace - 12/6/2007 3:25:25 AM   
lusciouslips19


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Status: offline 		I know that I have been to subpace when I have had hard play, I'm shaking, small, feeling alive, nutured, nerve endings alive and even without an orgasm, I am completely satisfied.

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RE: subspace - 12/6/2007 4:51:28 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

What do you feel like/experience when in subspace?



What subspace feels like is directly related to how I got their and how deeply I went into it. Sometimes when he takes me roughly during oral sex I go lightly into subspace because it is kind of like breath play. It makes me feel spent, slightly unfocused. Other than that, it feels different all the time when he beats me into subspace.

< Message edited by juliaoceania -- 12/6/2007 4:52:23 AM >

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RE: subspace - 12/6/2007 5:51:01 AM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		I'll say again that I have a long article drawn together from a number of sources on the hormonal ins and outs of subspace (and how it's similar to but NOT the same as orgasm) and how there is an adrenaline stage and an endorphin stage. It's way too long to print here and as it's a Word doc which won't attach through collarme, you are welcome to msg Me on "the other side" and send Me a regular email addy such as hotmail to send it to. People who have asked for it have found it helpful. Please note that I will be offline from 11th - 20th Dec though, so if you msg Me in that time, be prepared to wait!

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RE: subspace - 12/6/2007 10:44:32 AM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

quote:

ORIGINAL: NimirRa

I nominate LuckyAlbatross as the link queen.


LA is definately our Link Queen. She even has her own (PINK) 'Easy Button'! ;-)

Master Fire



I'm jealous...

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RE: subspace - 12/6/2007 10:45:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		For me I just tend to feel really really happy. I just want to cuddle with Valyraen and snuggle him. If I played a longer scene and got *really* high, I will just giggle and sit on the carpet for awhile.

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RE: subspace - 12/6/2007 1:30:10 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
I'm jealous...


Awwwww...maybe she'll share. Or, if you want a different color, I think I still have the files (I made it for her). IM me, if you do.

Master Fire


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