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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 11:41:40 AM

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If your Dominant was ill what soup would you get Him or Her, why and would you make it yourself.

That could be an entrapping trick question if the Dom/Domme does not like soup! ;>)

Ahhh Wise Grasshopper, fortunately this one likes soup.

its more a think outside the bunn kinda question. How they answer would give me something to muse on during a consideration time.

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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 12:11:45 PM

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See I really like the Book, Music and Food questions, they provide for a long list of follow up discussions, that will likely touch on values, ethics, perspectives...

Now that is interesting. I list in my profile about my serious interests in the cultural arts. I also ask questions to that end.

I cannot tell you how many emails and questions I get saying:

"why are you talking about the cultural arts? this is a kink site. go on match.com!"

I agree that mutual interests in all areas make one compatible but trying to find some intelligent and cultured person who is also compatible with you in the kink arena is like a needle in a haystack.

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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 12:13:34 PM

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"why are you talking about the cultural arts? this is a kink site. go on match.com!"

ROFLMAO!!!

Yup - Match would be your # 1 source of finding folks interested in the cultural arts! Why didn't I think of that?

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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 12:25:55 PM

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See I really like the Book, Music and Food questions, they provide for a long list of follow up discussions, that will likely touch on values, ethics, perspectives...

Now that is interesting. I list in my profile about my serious interests in the cultural arts. I also ask questions to that end.

I cannot tell you how many emails and questions I get saying:

"why are you talking about the cultural arts? this is a kink site. go on match.com!"

I agree that mutual interests in all areas make one compatible but trying to find some intelligent and cultured person who is also compatible with you in the kink arena is like a needle in a haystack.

at least with that sort of responce you can easily, say "thinks for helping me weed you out on my Match ;)"

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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 12:29:09 PM

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"why are you talking about the cultural arts? this is a kink site. go on match.com!"

ROFLMAO!!!

Yup - Match would be your # 1 source of finding folks interested in the cultural arts! Why didn't I think of that?

LOL I know, I rolled my eyes when I saw that one. Please, I get crap around here when I say I like rock and roll AND opera!

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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 12:31:59 PM

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1. How does one live a happy life.

2. Who do you think you are.

3. What matters most in how people interact.

4. What is bdsm to you.

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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 12:37:00 PM

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haha

Well what if they submissive's duty was to drive you to a show *gasp* and actually sit there and keep you company.

Or on the submissive looking for a Dominate....if the dominate liked rap , and it couldn't stand it.

i means these aren't life or death but it helps with interaction.

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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 12:39:30 PM

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And let's not forget the soup!

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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 12:41:50 PM

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never forget the soup...

or chocolate<----punishable by ignoreing for month *nods*

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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 12:49:54 PM

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But wait! You did not specify what kind of chocolate!!

There is a lot of potential to screw up the chocolate selection! Bitter - half-bitter - milk - nuts - almonds - fruit - aero - thin - thick - 60% cocoa - 70% cocoa...I mean, a sub could earn months of solitary dungeon confinement by just fucking up the chocolate!!

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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 1:07:55 PM

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IMO

Dark chocolate with hazelnuts. but most Domme would certainly give their submissive a list of fave foods over time.

some sooner.

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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 2:46:15 PM

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See I really like the Book, Music and Food questions, they provide for a long list of follow up discussions, that will likely touch on values, ethics, perspectives...

Now that is interesting. I list in my profile about my serious interests in the cultural arts. I also ask questions to that end.

I cannot tell you how many emails and questions I get saying:

"why are you talking about the cultural arts? this is a kink site. go on match.com!"

I agree that mutual interests in all areas make one compatible but trying to find some intelligent and cultured person who is also compatible with you in the kink arena is like a needle in a haystack.

It's funny, except for my list of kinky interests, my profile basically WAS my match.com profile! See, over a couple of years on vanilla dating sites, I'd developed a dating profile that described reasonably well both who I was and what I was looking for, and I was very happy with it; I'd managed to meet many, many extremely cool people but had just not yet managed to meet someone that matched my kink, in part because I hadn't quite come to terms with it. But when I did finally accept that I was a dominate kinky bastard and moved over to exclusively dating kinky people, I didn't see why I shouldn't continue to use the same profile, as who I was and what I was looking for hadn't really changed... much. There was a just a new element that I needed to add to it, but I figured that posting my profile on a kinky dating site to begin with pretty much took care of that :P

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RE: BDSM application? - 12/11/2007 2:57:34 PM

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MasterFireMamm if I answered all of those questions I would publish it as a book. Even if someone answered all of the questions to your satisfaction could you match their crtiteria. How much of this are you willing to compromise. Another variable that could screw it all up is if you fell in love with someone who flunked this exam.

Which is why I said I need to change the manual to reflect how I really use this. And, there really is no "flunk".

Besides, you're not interested in the household, so it really shouldn't matter all that much to you.

Double besides, I've filled it out.

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