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if you have ever - 12/11/2007 12:11:44 PM   
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had a collering ceremony, formal or not. What did you wear? Where you able to pick out your own outfit or was it picked out for you? also, if you haven't been collered yet what would you wear if you could pick anything?

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RE: if you have ever - 12/11/2007 12:23:06 PM   
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I was collared in a private ceremony. Daddy told me what look He wanted me to go for and I dressed accordingly. So, He sort of picked out my clothes, but I picked the exact clothes. I really don't think that He has ever had any interest in dressing me, except to point out a particular piece of clothing that He especially likes.
 
 

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RE: if you have ever - 12/11/2007 4:16:38 PM   
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My collaring ceremony was private and because I'm so anal about my body image I had a say in what I wore. We found a lovely short, white peignoir set. I felt as beautiful as he said I looked.

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RE: if you have ever - 12/11/2007 4:42:02 PM   
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you're one curious person today.

ok i'll bite (again) - collaring ceremony with Daddy was private and i picked my own clothes.  when i'm collared by my SO in Jan, same thing will happen.


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RE: if you have ever - 12/11/2007 9:59:49 PM   
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I was naked and alone with him when he fastened his collar around me.

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RE: if you have ever - 12/11/2007 10:03:17 PM   
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I was naked and alone with him when he fastened his collar around me.


ditto 

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RE: if you have ever - 12/11/2007 10:06:54 PM   
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Ummm lets see.. my outfit is a pair of baggy comfy pants... strapless bra so I can take the top of my shirt off... and sitting in a tattoo chair for hours on end clawing the back of the chair from all of the pain!!!! But I love every minute of it so far.. still have a few more sessions to go.. That's my ceremony.

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RE: if you have ever - 12/12/2007 10:27:20 AM   
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Our ceremony was private, and I wore white.

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RE: if you have ever - 12/12/2007 10:47:28 AM   
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naked, with black leather cuffs on wrists and ankles...because that is His favorite look for His slave.

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RE: if you have ever - 12/12/2007 12:02:04 PM   
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welp....lets see...once I was on my knees in front of a huge waterfull looking fountain thingy in a park in Houston. There was me, the idiot I let collar me, and his wife. The relationship didnt last long. He totalled my car and emptied my bank account and his mother stole my sons piggy bank. yea, I was young and dumb and I met them in yahoo chat. go figure.


then, once, I was sitting on a bench in front of a mall in Jacksonville, right outside of where he bought the collar and had it engraved. It was pretty and sweet and honestly I miss the guy. We still chat ocasionally, but it just wasnt working. we had agreed on a bdsm only type relationship...and I started to want something more intimate cause I cant help it I fell in love with the guy even though I knew I couldnt compeate with his wife.


Hopefully Ive grown up and made the right choices this time. We've been together for 5 years. we got married last march. last september he technically collared me, but there wasnt really a ceremony or a moment where he put anything around my neck. I had a neckalce he had given me years ago, and one night he told me to start thinking of it as a collar. shrugs. that was it. Now, I do know for a fact that I am getting one of those locking steel collars for christmas this year, and ive been all busy wondering how he's gonna put it on me and if its gonna be one of those, take it out of the box and pop it on and go about your day type things (typical him honestly) or if he'll get all romantic, or beat me and fuck me first, or do it at a BDSM event we are going to for new years...who knows...honestly I dont want to know, im looking forward to the surprise.

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RE: if you have ever - 12/12/2007 2:36:38 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

I was naked and alone with him when he fastened his collar around me.


ditto 


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RE: if you have ever - 12/12/2007 3:47:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

I was naked and alone with him when he fastened his collar around me.


So few words and so beautifully powerful.
Thank you.


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RE: if you have ever - 12/12/2007 5:28:34 PM   
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My collaring was a surprise to me. It was dinnertime, and I was already kneeling with my forehead on my Master's dining room chair, prepared to suck his cock as he began eating (sometimes we start our meals that way). I was topless, barefoot, and wearing black pants. He came downstairs and was carrying the collar I didn't know had arrived in the mail (we had ordered it from Chaotic Creations about six weeks before).

I remained in the kneeling position as he said some beautiful words to me and then locked the collar around my neck. I've worn it ever since.

Damned if either of us can remember exactly what he said, but it was perfect.

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RE: if you have ever - 12/12/2007 7:30:08 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

had a collering ceremony, formal or not. What did you wear? Where you able to pick out your own outfit or was it picked out for you? also, if you haven't been collered yet what would you wear if you could pick anything?


Honestly of the things that concerned me at milestone moments in our relationship - what I was wearing was definitely something I haven't remembered let alone really cared about in hindsight.  For the piercing I was probably wearing a shirt and I was naked waist down.  For the branding I was naked (and probably in cuffs).

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RE: if you have ever - 12/13/2007 7:44:15 AM   
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We were naked in bed with each other and no one else.

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