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RE: Am I doing the right thing? - 12/13/2007 9:42:31 AM

tdslittlehelper

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the thing is that if he is willing to lie to get someone they will find out. Lies come to the light and even if he changed the profile he could be lying to them about something else.

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RE: Am I doing the right thing? - 12/13/2007 9:48:38 AM

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So you call him on it and he disables his profile. And then puts up a new one with no face pic, then what?

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RE: Am I doing the right thing? - 12/23/2007 7:50:09 AM

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Life always goes on unless you plan your own death. Perhaps maybe he learned something from his relationship with you? Maybe not? But at least he is back in the game and living his life beyond you... We are all products of our experience and past... you can spend your time living in the past or forge forward and seek new experience to which you may find your happiness..

addvise: let it go and move forward on your own. Someone else may just find their happiness as a result of his experiences/mistakes with you?

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RE: Am I doing the right thing? - 12/23/2007 9:33:03 AM

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the right thing to do is to stay out of things that don't involve you.

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RE: Am I doing the right thing? - 12/23/2007 10:13:49 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kittyinpink

My feeling has generally been that it's not my business I don't owe it to anyone to "save" them... I guess I was wondering if that makes me an Asshole or a realist...

While not your business, the fact that you show concern and a certain amount of worry over a stranger's potential safety and well-being is laudable. For that, you should feel proud.

You can't save the world, or even another, in this situation though. 'she' might see any sort of input you'd have as jealousy, sour grapes or something similar (which I'm sure it's not). On some level, it would be a warning that might well fall on deaf ears.

I suppose the only move is shrug and just let others be them, let him be him and do your own thing.

Another point (not sure I'd seen this brought up)...

This might just be him doing this to get a rise out of you or cause just this sort of thing you're focused on. Feeding it only feeds him taking it further (if that's what he's doing) cause he'd see that it's having an affect on you - the very thing he may be after.

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RE: Am I doing the right thing? - 12/25/2007 11:10:01 AM

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While I feel it is very compasionate of you to want to protect the fellow board members from any harm. I think the only thing you are going to accomplish is give yourself a headache and create bad blood with your ex. Go with your gut and let it go. We are all supposed to be adults here. I am sure they will see thru his over bending of the truth in a short amount of time

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