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plantlady64 -> RE: Caning (8/17/2005 6:37:46 AM)
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Hello There,
I just found BDSM in my life 2/05. I initially had read about caning and thought it to be a brutal horrble thing. I just couldn't understand what would possess anyone to like to be beaten by a cane. I'm a member of the Black Rose Society in Washington DC. Every Tuesday they have socials and presetations on various BDSM play. The night they were presenting caning I though I was not going to like the presentation, and that it would disgust me. As I'm in my training period I decided I should still attend so I'd no the safety features of this play just in case a Dom insisted I let Him cane me or wanted me to top someone else for Him. I went in with a heavy heart.
The Presenter instead of just beating the daylights out of His model instead showed how you could drag the tip of the cane lightly over the sub in a very sensual way, showed how to put one cane between her legs and tap it with another one to make her orgasm, and discussed using it lightly. I never thought about those things. I only thought of someone beating the crap out of someone full force. He also read an article in a medical journal that stated a test group of normal vanilla people were subjected to being caned once a week and not only were they calling trying to make extra appointments, but they had a better sense of well being in a few sessions, they had more self esteem and more confidence. He did discuss safety features and the bruising that resulted from a heavy session, but the sensuall things he'd shown made me decide I needed to try this type of play.
OH MY GOODNESS I LOVE BEING CANED!!! It's one of my very favorite things now.
It's funny how something I thought was repulsive is so hot to me now. I guess you can never say never about things because you never know.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne
** corrected spelling as my first attempt was rushed.
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