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JohnWarren -> RE: Caning (9/6/2005 12:24:37 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Orbital


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ORIGINAL: JohnWarren
Another approach is to "saw" the second cane across the first.


(Making notes)

Looks like i'll be picking up a couple canes sometime soon. Thanks for the hints!


I've found it works best with rattan. The synthetics are too smooth.

There's a great, inexpensive, book from Greenery Press www.greenerypress.com It's called Canes & Caning. It was written by Janet Hardy (Lady Green, Catherine Lyzst)



BalletBob -> RE: Caning (9/7/2005 12:38:46 PM)

Hi Aqua, I did the Hot Wax. I wantd to try it, and MADAM obliged me. I had a little too much chest hair, and it took forever to get all the wax off. There are still a lot of things I would like to try still, but need a Mistress, unless I try on my own.

Thanks for the reply, BalletBob

Have you tried the Pastic Wrap? I loved it...and even got to try the ear plugs, Blindfold and breathing tube in it once.



Hissweetshiv -> RE: Caning (9/7/2005 6:41:01 PM)

Just an update - Master and i tried a cane for the first time. He read the site posted, as did i, and we went slow and easy since it was a first....
YUM!
lol... i can't wait for more.



Aquariansub -> RE: Caning (9/8/2005 3:46:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Hissweetshiv

Just an update - Master and i tried a cane for the first time. He read the site posted, as did i, and we went slow and easy since it was a first....
YUM!
lol... i can't wait for more.

Excellent so glad to hear it all went well....it can be the best emotions during and afterwards and as mentioned a little daunting. For those who enjoy it...it can be a wonderful play.



Aquariansub -> RE: Caning (9/14/2005 9:51:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Hissweetshiv

Just an update - Master and i tried a cane for the first time. He read the site posted, as did i, and we went slow and easy since it was a first....
YUM!
lol... i can't wait for more.


How is it going? What is it you find you need and want more of? Is it the sensations during or the marks afterwards?
I had this asked of me recently and I have to wonder which it is I want more....the hit does tend to hurt but that is overpowered by the stinging afterwards and the intensity of the play is wonderful. The marks afterwards can be alot different depending on how and what is used. I long for the red stripey marks and love when they stay for a while afterwards.



SubmittedWife -> RE: Caning (9/15/2005 7:10:42 AM)

WOW! I would never have thought of being caned as a sexual experience.

Although, that said, I wouldn't have thought about any of this until VERY recently. My Master and I are taking things slowly but enjoying every minute of it. He even managed to get past his fear of inflicting real pain on me. He has noticed how much more obedient I am since then so I have a feeling it could be a more regular occurrance. Maybe he will try caning in the future but for now he is investing in a paddle as his hand is getitng too well used!



Aquariansub -> RE: Caning (9/19/2005 7:28:21 PM)

starting with other things and leading up to the cane is a good idea. In alot of ways I have a fear of the cane....I would say its when it first hits that there is going to be some pain...but the wonderful sensations afterwards and the marks etc are worth every moment.



Aquariansub -> RE: Caning (10/12/2005 11:29:43 PM)

I recently heard from someone who loved canning that she now had a "hard arse" and the cane no longer would leave marks. Has anyone else experienced this?



sf-Sub -> RE: Caning (10/13/2005 1:49:17 AM)

This can happen ... the hard arse effect.

Try changing up to another toy for awhile. :)



sf-Sub -> RE: Caning (10/13/2005 1:50:51 AM)

Look for something say like a 'Rug Beater'

see the link
http://www.stockroom.com/b351.htm




sweetpettjenny -> RE: Caning (10/13/2005 3:23:01 AM)

I loveeee being caned, although even my lil masochistic self hates two areas being caned...the soles of my feet being number one , and my inner thighs...yowsa



ownedjulia -> RE: Caning (10/13/2005 11:30:33 AM)

my Master is big on canes and he has a wide selection.

Some just hurt, some just sting and some do both.

I never knew there were so many differnet types but I, like you enjoy the different sensations that it produces and those wonderful neat lines.



fiddlegirl -> RE: Caning (10/13/2005 5:06:28 PM)

I really like being caned. The erotic stories I had read made me think it would be worse than it actually is.

My top says that at our next meeting he's going to cane me over wet panties... no, not those kind of wet panties! I'm supposed to bring a spare pair and soak them in the sink then wear them while being caned... he says it's a "unique" sensation. Has anyone else here done this?



ownedjulia -> RE: Caning (10/14/2005 12:23:23 PM)

ouch!!

not quite like that, i have been caned after being out in the rain.

The water amplifies the sting. Make sure it's REALLY COLD water to get the full effect!



Aquariansub -> RE: Caning (10/17/2005 3:05:00 PM)



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ouch!!

not quite like that, i have been caned after being out in the rain.

The water amplifies the sting. Make sure it's REALLY COLD water to get the full effect!




With the water is there any other differences or just an increase in the sting?



ownedjulia -> RE: Caning (10/17/2005 3:12:33 PM)

to be honest i've not noticed any. I've been too busy concentrating on the sting and trying hard not to yell out.




nycpure -> RE: Caning (10/22/2005 11:29:39 PM)

mmmmm... I looooove caning! definitely must be in the proper mood for it though, since i can be a wimp at times. but the marks are really incredible. you should try laying over a bench or on your hands and knees while He stands over you and canes you vertically as well as horizontally!! those bring excellent marks and sometimes just a little bit of blood.



ownedjulia -> RE: Caning (10/23/2005 2:58:52 AM)

the hardest i have taken was when i was laying face down on a table with a cushion under me to push my rear up a bit.
my hands were tied in front me and I got 12 with a dragon cane.

OUCH!!!

But the marks.... yummy :)




Aifu -> RE: Caning (10/23/2005 3:59:47 AM)

Ive found that having a cock in my mouth at the same time makes me be able to endure being caned for longer and harder than without. Definately a gr8 turnon for me.



Hoople -> RE: Caning (10/23/2005 5:06:00 PM)

I just got caned for the first time last weekend. I was warned that this session was going to be a bit more intense than the previous one - she wasn't kidding! Up until yesterday morning, I was able to admire the 5 cane welts across my ass when I got out of the shower. Judging from the posts in this thread, I'm not alone in enjoying those souvenirs. I really enjoyed the process of getting them also, even though I was a little (okay, a LOT) nervous at first when I saw her selecting a cane along with the other toys in her bag of tricks. I'm sure I'll be nervous next time as well (how many will I get now that she knows I can take it? Ulp...), but I'm really looking forward to the warmup, the snap, the sting, and the mementos of my next visit.

(Oh, and I realize I didn't really offer anything terribly new in this thread - I was just so pleased with my latest experience, and I can't really share that with any of my R/L friends!)




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