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pain... - 12/13/2007 9:06:17 AM

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wondering here.... does anybody ever explain whats pain does to him/er?

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 9:08:39 AM

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All the time. Glad you asked.

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 9:09:59 AM

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My sub has on occassion, but the in person version is much better.

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 9:34:39 AM

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wait ..........pain?........does stuff to people?........
well.....shit on a stick!!

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 9:34:58 AM

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so.... write something about it.... would like to read

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 9:38:00 AM

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well.....shit on a stick!!

One could even exclaim "fudgecicle"!

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 9:38:45 AM

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Once upon a time.there was a very bad girl. A nice man came by and tied her up, but she was still sad. So he lifted her skirt, grabbed a cane, and skillfully whacked her until there were pretty red lines on her ass. She had a wonderful orgasm, and lived happily ever after

The End

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 9:38:59 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: rokedetbageshem

so.... write something about it.... would like to read
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Have at 'er stud.

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 9:43:39 AM

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i for one am constantly 'explaining' to my Master what pain does for me, in movement, reaction, noises (not always able to verbalise lol). Whenever W/we play He tempers His actions to my reactions... That is what makes a good Master in my opinion...being able to judge and bring the sub or slave to the place where they, the Master, feel and know their subject needs to be. You can only do that if the pain is being 'explained' in some way...

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 9:45:23 AM

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quote:

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Once upon a time.there was a very bad girl. A nice man came by and tied her up, but she was still sad. So he lifted her skirt, grabbed a cane, and skillfully whacked her until there were pretty red lines on her ass. She had a wonderful orgasm, and lived happily ever after

I am disappointed. There could have been an orbital sander in that story. Or in the very least, some heavy grit sheets of sandpaper.

You think you know a guy...

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 9:46:45 AM

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Once upon a time.there was a very bad girl. A nice man came by and tied her up, but she was still sad. So he lifted her skirt, grabbed a cane, and skillfully whacked her until there were pretty red lines on her ass. She had a wonderful orgasm, and lived happily ever after

I am disappointed. There could have been an orbital sander in that story. Or in the very least, some heavy grit sheets of sandpaper.

You think you know a guy...

it's a LOVE story

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 9:51:46 AM

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it's a LOVE story

If she wasn't even worth sanding to him - how could it be a love story?

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 9:55:39 AM

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quote:

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well.....shit on a stick!!

One could even exclaim "fudgecicle"!

LMFAO

you two...are absolutly horrible....

LOL

You stole her word

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 10:08:16 AM

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it's a LOVE story

If she wasn't even worth sanding to him - how could it be a love story?

Well, she might have had a raspy throat, and we all know where we would file that....

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 10:12:55 AM

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I'm not sure if all of this sarcasm is what your looking for In the post you wrote. But I know myself, find the need to explain to the Dominant I'm with what exactly it is that pain does to me & for me. Me being a masochist it's an extremely important part of play for me. Without explaining, how would my Dom know the level of intensity that I appreciate.... That mind numbing state of shock the body goes into while slipping into that surreal warm fuzzy feeling of subspace. I have been with Dom's who were Sadistic & knew how to inflict pain but couldn't push me over that threshold, for fear of harming me. That is when I realized, hmmm maybe I ought to let them in on my little secret, if this is going to be a Win Win situation ... Rest their minds at ease that I can take so much more. I found that many Dom's are afraid of doing real harm to their subs. Which is completely understandable. So to reiterate yes I like to explain to who I'm with what it does for me.There are some I've not had to tell, they just knew me so well, they could read me like a book.

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 10:16:22 AM

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We are fully authorized to use her word!

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 10:18:01 AM

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We are fully authorized to use her word!

/sigh

I know. It's a sad sad world..

LMAO

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 10:18:56 AM

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it's a LOVE story

If she wasn't even worth sanding to him - how could it be a love story?

Well, she might have had a raspy throat, and we all know where we would file that....

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 10:19:47 AM

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I'm not sure if all of this sarcasm is what your looking for In the post you wrote.

I will put effort into answering someone's question if it is written in an intelligible manner that indicates the OP is actually interested in getting intelligible responses.

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RE: pain... - 12/13/2007 10:20:57 AM

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What this place needs is a stable full of interns!

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