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RE: anal training - 12/16/2007 7:03:50 AM   
TMaster2


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

So, goodness, does this mean I have to cross TM off my "MMMMMMaybe Someday" List??        

Cali


lol, nah, I would hope not -- I enjoy being given reasons to do OTHER things

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RE: anal training - 12/21/2007 7:52:01 PM   
Twoshadows39


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Status: offline 		Hello, yes try to train yourself use a small dildo and wear it as you go through the day take your time and slowy work up to larger ones.

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RE: anal training - 12/21/2007 9:22:24 PM   
lronitulstahp


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RE: anal training - 12/21/2007 11:48:59 PM   
robertolapiedra


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Status: offline 		Hello curious0082. As you do not seem to have a master, it is up to you. Do you want to be trained by a master or do you want to train yourself ? Usually a slave likes to be trained and enjoys the adventure side to submission.

It all depends on your motivation. If it is for your personal pleasure (masturbation) and exploration, that's fine. But if you just want your future master to find some sort of "value" in your being "self trained" in sphincter dilation? That would be a bit "adolescent" in my view.

I recommend the slow consensual (sensual) training as it is much more erotic and...fun. Besides, it will never happen the way you "imagine" no matter how much you "self train" yourself. RL.

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RE: anal training - 12/22/2007 12:54:13 AM   
HeavansKeeper


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ORIGINAL: curious0082

i am an anal virgin, and was wondering if i should start to train myself for ass play, or does a Master normally like to take the virginity themselves?


How much does he know about anal sex?  If his knowledge is limited to "well... you add some lube and stick it in." then I strongly suggest you train yourself.  If he doesn't like to hear your response to how well he's doing, it can  be painful in a bad way.

Perhaps he can start your training WITH you, so he can maintain that unhealthy victorian outlook on sex.

Sorry, could not hold back my personal principles.

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RE: anal training - 12/22/2007 4:40:46 AM   
Driver1961


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First comment- Enemas vs Anal penetration- "A little mess is okay!????" Excuse me,  a little facal matter is not a samll mess but a huge worry!   Google something on this- educate yourself.   I't's always better to minimise risks and maximise repeat sexual enjoyment. 
Can Anal sex be stimiluating?- Yes to a form of orgasm (medically proved).  
Can you self lubricate? Yes to generally inside the rim. 
Walking around with a smallish butt plug for preparation would (in my opinion) garner respect for your knowledge/foresight in preparation. You want?-then prepare to telegraph the action.
A virgin arse or even the gift of an arse is just that- a gift of trust regardless in the Dom's eyes.

Warm regards Driver.

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RE: anal training - 12/22/2007 7:17:52 AM   
curious0082


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for wonderful replies!

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RE: anal training - 12/22/2007 9:36:15 AM   
LoveAndDS


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Status: offline 		If you know that the Master your with is going to train you in anal play than starting out early might be a good idea.  If your single right now than starting out early is still a really great idea :)

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RE: anal training - 12/23/2007 2:36:02 PM   
kinkypuppy2


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Status: offline 		Depending on your Master, you should not be making that decision. If it is your however there are some "anal trainer" sets around that allow you to take progressively larger plugs


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RE: anal training - 12/24/2007 8:06:48 AM   
slavegirljoy


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Status: offline 		You're seriously going to post this question in "Ask a Master"?  Show of hands, please, what Master would not "normally like to take the virginity themselves"?
 
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quote:

ORIGINAL: curious0082

i am an anal virgin, and was wondering if i should start to train myself for ass play, or does a Master normally like to take the virginity themselves?

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RE: anal training - 12/24/2007 9:40:29 AM   
Aswad


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RE: anal training - 12/24/2007 9:57:26 AM   
adon58


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Status: offline 		A long time ago, if you can still remember, you were a vaginal virgin....have you 'trained' your vagina in preparation for the big day??? Sorry, but I see no difference.
Btw, no woman I have ever known was indifferent to anal: they either loved it or hated it.
Frankly, for me each both situations are enjoyable.....lol....just slightly differently. The former are great when in nilla mode the latter are great when in D/s mode.

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RE: anal training - 12/24/2007 10:00:22 AM   
slavegirljoy


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ORIGINAL: Aswad

And the silence was deafening... 

Health,
al-Aswad.


So i noticed.  Gee, what a surprise, huh?
 
slave joy
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RE: anal training - 12/24/2007 10:35:48 AM   
Aswad


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Status: offline 		Obviously. Now all we need is a poll as to how many prefer gentle vs harsh the first time 'round. 

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RE: anal training - 12/24/2007 7:26:11 PM   
NaiveTempest


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Status: offline 		Wow. Like the OP this is something I've been pondering.
The input, has been, shall we say...enlightening, lol.

One question about enemas (ewwww) when would it be considered that one is necessary in regards to anal sex? If you didn't go *gasp* poopie that day?

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RE: anal training - 12/24/2007 9:59:10 PM   
Knightenslaves


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ORIGINAL: NaiveTempest
One question about enemas (ewwww) when would it be considered that one is necessary in regards to anal sex? If you didn't go *gasp* poopie that day?


Any number of reasons really, maybe the couple in question prefers to not have any...dirty sex. Maybe the Master decided her wanted his girl clean or maybe the fetish is medical in nature...Maybe it happens to be Christmas eve and Master said he wanted a present to remember.
And I agree with slave joy...no Master votes against a fresh squealing ass, though the anal slut does not go unloved I assure you 

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RE: anal training - 12/24/2007 10:49:18 PM   
sunshinemiss


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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

You're seriously going to post this question in "Ask a Master"?  Show of hands, please, what Master would not "normally like to take the virginity themselves"?
 
slave joy
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Thinks slavegirl joy nailed it.  *so to speak....

peace

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RE: anal training - 12/24/2007 10:59:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		I heard tell of a sub who trained for over two months for a first-time anal encounter. He ate raw eggs, jogged for 5 miles every morning being chased by kids, ran up a whole bunch of steps and ended the day by punching raw meat.
 
No, wait a minute. That was Rocky.
 

Fuck. Never mind.

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RE: anal training - 12/25/2007 8:56:18 AM   
eyesopened


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NaiveTempest

Wow. Like the OP this is something I've been pondering.
The input, has been, shall we say...enlightening, lol.

One question about enemas (ewwww) when would it be considered that one is necessary in regards to anal sex? If you didn't go *gasp* poopie that day?


Oh gee.... i'm not an anal virgin wah wah.... But since i'm not i can speak via my experience that any drugstore carries anal syringes which are akin to a nice douche for the anus.  Stick a finger in there and explore already!  There's more than one sphincter, then there's a little "pocket" a poo-staging area if you will, and contrary to what they wish to believe about their penis, most guys aren't long enough to reach the colon so a full enema is not necessary to anal play or penetration.  A good lubricant acts much like "poo teflon" and i have never had a problem with "mess" or if Mr Happy got a little fleck of brown spot, i've never heard about it.  Mostly what i've heard was oooo and aaaaaa and never an ewwwww.  However, regardless of how clean one is, never go from anal to vagina... just not a good idea!

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RE: anal training - 1/1/2008 11:18:07 AM   
PrimeVector


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Status: offline 		I keep an assortment of anal-training devices, including several sizes of what are popularly known as "butt-plugs" in my scene-bag.  Some of the hottest times I've experienced with my subs have been taking them out for dinner or a movie or to a party with the "plug" inserted.... so she can have a few hours to "relax" and get used to it, not to mention the anticipation of what's to come later in the evening... or the fun of being in a crowd of  'nillas in public.  (btw I ALWAYS use a condom on these toys... makes any "mess" quick and easy to clean up, among other reasons)

That said, what can be super hot and leading to multiple-squirting orgasms one evening can be annoying and boring on another... anal can be odd that way.  At least that's been my experience with it.

...and re: eyesopened's comment about going from anal to vag... totally agree.  A yeast infection is not fun for anyone involved.

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