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RE: anal training - 1/1/2008 2:55:25 PM   
masterlink65


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why dont you ask your master how he wants it prepared?

i trane by using an egg in a condomn, lots of lube. once the egg is all the way in, push it back out. repeat, repeat,repeat. leave the egg in for awhile, then push out, put it in, repeat, repeat, repeat.


but you really should ask you master for permission.

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RE: anal training - 1/2/2008 12:25:53 PM   
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my preference is i do the anal training of my slaves,i take great plesure in it!

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RE: anal training - 1/2/2008 12:34:39 PM   
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Indeed!  Very hot indeed sexyred1!  To the OP, while i wasn't a virgin in that area, i might as well have been when He took control. i never hated it before, but when it became too painful, i was always able to opt out of continuing, but w/Him, i knew i had to do it, so i bit the proverbial bullet and now i'm His complete & utter a$$ whore!!  i can't imagine why i always stopped before, now i can't get enough. He was/is very patient when W/we do this and because of that, i know He's not all bad ;)

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RE: anal training - 1/2/2008 12:50:52 PM   
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Just be careful.

Find out IF they have any real experience. Experience does not mean success however.

I have owned two girls in my past who were ANAL RAPED, by expert(s). They both found different idiot doms who got over their heads and caused damage. One had to go to emergency because the anal tear  was very bad. Healing takes along time down there. The sad news is that idiot is still out there, probably still ripping assholes!

Just be careful!   

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RE: anal training - 1/2/2008 5:41:56 PM   
antipode


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Ah, Norway. That explains it. Here in the US of A girls teach each other in college, so the boys can fuck and the girls can still be virgins.

Best way for you: train yourself, but don't tell your playmate. Pretend he is taking your virginity. He won't be able to tell the difference, for as long as you make enough noise, squirm, push him back, moan, complain he is "so big", it'll get him going like a banshee.

Unless he is very skilled, you see, it can hurt you. If he is impatient, he might even (uwittingly) tear your sphincter. Happens a lot on "initiations", especially if the lad is well endowed. No point in risking that, like this you will both enjoy. Which is what it's all about, in my book.

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RE: anal training - 1/2/2008 6:43:31 PM   
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A good Mistress starts a sub off slow, just a well-lubed [Astroglide, none better] finger circling his asshole, then putting a condom on a finger and a cotton ball under Her nail so it doesn't tear, inserts one finger inside him.  If he tightens a lot, perhaps some Anal-Eze spray, and try again.  Once he can comfortably take two fingers, I start using a dildo, then a Strapon, with a vibe in the base for My pleasure, of course! 
I'm not interested in training size queens who can only be pleased by bigger and bigger invaders, and not one of them has ever had to beg for more.   It's the motion of the ocean and the length of the voyage, not the size of the ship.

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RE: anal training - 1/2/2008 8:00:29 PM   
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It's really not the greatest or safest idea to use things in the ass that were not ment for the use, or did not have a flared base to keep it from going inside and needing medical help to take out.

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ORIGINAL: masterlink65

why dont you ask your master how he wants it prepared?

i trane by using an egg in a condomn, lots of lube. once the egg is all the way in, push it back out. repeat, repeat,repeat. leave the egg in for awhile, then push out, put it in, repeat, repeat, repeat.


but you really should ask you master for permission.


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RE: anal training - 1/2/2008 10:34:37 PM   
Maestro66babycak


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ORIGINAL: girlygurl

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ORIGINAL: MrSpectacular


Oh jeeze!  I sure hope he will be gentle with the OP!  But yes, lots and lots O' lube!!   I can't imagine someone taking anothers virgin ass and not being gentle. 

girly

Master Jess was not gentle at all!! I screamed and screamed in pain and he didnt stop. I was crying and screaming for him to please stop. He kept on. He finally stopped about one second before I said my safe word. That was the first time. The second time was not any better , but I used the safe word before he stopped ... I asked him to be gentle and the third time he was gentle, but I was so scared that he didnt accomplish much. The fourth time is on the horizon , I hope this time goes better. ...sigh...I do not know what the attraction of putting a buttplug in someones butt is...

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RE: anal training - 1/3/2008 10:01:26 AM   
masterlink65


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thats why you put the egg into the condomn. the end of the condomn sticks out of hole, and you can use it to remove the egg. very good at training the hole. anything going IN the asshole is not meant to be there. the asshole is an exit, so it needs to be trained to be entered.

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RE: anal training - 1/3/2008 12:22:44 PM   
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i would say, save it for the Dominant to do.

the effects are much better when the Dominant does it.  Not to mention you lower the risk of tearing yourself, because when someone else does it they can physically see what they are doing.

~meticulous~

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RE: anal training - 1/4/2008 3:35:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Maestro66babycak

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ORIGINAL: girlygurl

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ORIGINAL: MrSpectacular


Oh jeeze!  I sure hope he will be gentle with the OP!  But yes, lots and lots O' lube!!   I can't imagine someone taking anothers virgin ass and not being gentle. 

girly

Master Jess was not gentle at all!! I screamed and screamed in pain and he didnt stop. I was crying and screaming for him to please stop. He kept on. He finally stopped about one second before I said my safe word. That was the first time. The second time was not any better , but I used the safe word before he stopped ... I asked him to be gentle and the third time he was gentle, but I was so scared that he didnt accomplish much. The fourth time is on the horizon , I hope this time goes better. ...sigh...I do not know what the attraction of putting a buttplug in someones butt is...


When I have taught this in Sex Ed type classes, I've always recommended that (besides the obvious lots of lube), it can help if the bottom person has had an orgasm as this relaxes them.  Then once the finger/ head of the penis / dildo / plug is in the very well lubed asshole, let the bottom person push onto the f/p/d/p in their own sweet time.  When being the one who does the guiding, it can be a truly pleasurable experience because there's less possibility for physical harm and it is also a psychological freedom that allows more relaxation.... Once that has occurred, one can learn to squeeze the sphincter to make things tighter, just like squeezing the vaginal walls together can make a tighter hole there.

And the attraction - is that there are a lot of nerve endings there that get stimulated.  It can be pleasant from a purely physical standpoint, it can be a humiliation or submissive act.... it can just be fun.

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