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Submissiveideals -> RE: As a young dom... (12/18/2007 12:27:28 AM)
Okay first of all i am a young Dom myself. I have already faced many subs who first response would be that i am to young. But i have also seen subs that would keep speaking to me and find that my attitude, my respectful tone and my ideals match that of what they desire. While my experence shows that we may not get the instant respect like Doms with more experence, you may find that if you try to talk a bit and not control that you will be respected. You can not ask someone to serve a man they do not respect. Also, your attitude is very... dishearting. If i was a sub and saw you posted that i would loose full intrest. All you have done with this post is harm yourself more. Show respect and you will be given it.

untrainedKajira -> RE: As a young dom... (12/18/2007 12:44:36 AM)
although this is just my opinion i would have to say i prefer Younger Doms for the simple fact that i am able to connect with them better

backseatbebe -> RE: As a young dom... (12/23/2007 12:47:34 PM)
this is exactly why young Doms get a hard time they tend to want to take the easy route they dont want to put in the effort it takes to get the outcome they want everything is about now, think later putting the time and effort into something will bring you far better results than jumping in head first dont be in such a hurry to get what you want, the most important things take time (trust, respect, honest communication, devotion) quote: ORIGINAL: kennyautopsy There are thousands of posts on this site. I'm very well not going to sit here and sift through all of them to see if someone has addressed My problem before deciding to post My own thread. quote: ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia People have preferences AND choices. If their choice is an older D, good luck to them. Bitching isnt going to change a thing. Ranting about how badly done to you are IS going to get you ignored as a petulant child. *copied from the same thread under a different title. Why are you making duplicate threads?

slavekal -> RE: As a young dom... (12/23/2007 8:10:50 PM)
If Lebron James could play in the NBA right out of high school, there is no reason that a person can't know what they are doing in regards to whips and sexual games at the same age.

OldBastardly1 -> RE: As a young dom... (12/24/2007 4:57:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavekal If Lebron James could play in the NBA right out of high school, there is no reason that a person can't know what they are doing in regards to whips and sexual games at the same age. [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif] Sorry, all I can do is laugh my fat hairy ass off to that.

cankles -> RE: As a young dom... (12/24/2007 10:54:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ezduzit There is a difference in an 18 year old sub with a older experienced Dom and an older experienced sub with an 18 year old Dom. Who would be training who? I truly mean no disrespect at all to young people, but there is a huge difference between the capabilities of a 40 year old man and an 18 year old man. There is a biological change that takes place in between the ages of 28 and 32. These changes have a profound effect on demeanor among other things. This is the true coming of age for men. Look at statistics like arrest reports. There is a huge drop in all kinds of immature risk taking behavior during this period in a man's life. This is the time that men become suitable fathers and husbands and start to take on leadership roles in society. There does seem to be a major change in a man's perception of beauty somewhere near the age of 40. I have been experiencing ballet with new eyes for the last few years. I truly see this or more acurately organize this information in a way that is wholly new to me as if the activity is something completely different than it was previously. There is not just life experience to consider. There are actual biological changes that are truly profound. The changes tend to deepen the abilities of males in particular ways. I contend that the changes are of the type that will have a significant effect on one's "Domness" (whatever that is). Can an 18 year old be dominant? Certainly..... Should he expect to be treated in the same way as someone who had passed through these portals of change. Since he cannot directly know about them from personal experience, maybe he can expect it. It is unlikely, however, that he will get it. This is, IIRC, the drop in circulating testosterone that goes hand-in-hand with the aging process.

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