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ORIGINAL: SilentTigresss

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The other lying type of coward needs to have a cattle prod shoved up his ass.

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ORIGINAL: sweetstorm


They only say nice things. They distract you from the lack of information about their home life by changing the subject back to YOU and oh how pretty you are! and oh how smart you are! Married men are great at saying all the things that women love to hear.  However, if they'll lie to their wives, how can you believe a word they say?

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ORIGINAL: SilentTigresss

Hello to all,
Not sure just how "general" this is, but i would like to see opinions on how you figure out when someone isn't telling you the truth and they are indeed married or attached to a vanilla person. i do know of some, but would really like to read other people view on this please.

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But then I am jadded.

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ORIGINAL: MzMia
How many men do you know that left or divorced their wife {their decision to leave NOT hers}, and left their wife to move to an apartment or house by themself? 
No other woman waiting, no other woman already lined up to date?

I agree - my parents did not split up until my dad had met his new girlfriend at work. It finally gave him the impetus to run out on the family...

Still, I might have met the one guy in the universe who doesn't fit you description.

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ORIGINAL: FeistyBtch

I too have fallen victim to the married scammers out there.  The ones who kill me are the ones who actually tell you up front they are married because they're so honest.  I always ask if the wife knows, and usually she doesn't.  That begs the question I always ask...."so, are you only honest with complete strangers then, but lie to the woman you're supposedly committed to for life?"  Already I know this person is 100% dishonest.  If they lie to the wife, they lie to everyone.  A liar is a liar is a liar.  They don't pick and choose who they lie to, or who they're honest with.  I tend to go with my gut instinct today, and like so many posted before, the ones who suddenly disappear because they got booted, or don't get online for days because they're too busy, or don't come back when they're supposed to because they fell asleep or whatever excuse....are usually hiding something.  If something seems fishy, it probably is.

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

I have been on these boards almost 3 1/2 years.
I have talked to hundreds and met ZERO men from this place.
 
I take men through all sorts of tests before I meet them.
If you can't pass, we don't meet.
I think I should write a book, to help some women out.
 
Hint #1 if he is not available on weekends, buy a clue.

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ORIGINAL: LadyLegs

Inititally say that you never play at home... married men usually can't put a hotel bill on the credit card or play at their place.  

It is also possible, if you get an address, to find who has title to a property online.  I found a man had actually given me a fake "real name" that way. 

The thing that annoys me most about liars is that they think they are smarter than anyone else and it's rare that they actually are.

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I am single I only have a cell phone.........and I use the drier sheet things

Jeff

I didn't say it was always true, but it is a quick test.  But now you have me wondering. . .

When I was single I didn't use dryer sheets,

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ORIGINAL: urtoy

The married ones are usually the first to ask repeatedly if you're in another relationship/have a boyfriend/are seeing someone/"is someone there now?"--that sort of thing. Other than specifics, I recommend listening carefully, giving them enough rope to hang themselves. Surprising how many "single" guys accidentally make mention of wife/kids/inlaws without realizing it or speak in the plural. "What are you doing for Christrmas?" "Oh, we're having a quiet day at home". When in doubt, ask questions. If he sounds like he's hiding something, he usually is.