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ORIGINAL: Honsoku

~fr~

As always, there are exceptions to almost every single rule one can come up with. For example;

• I haven't used a home phone in years. There is scarcely reason for one anymore.

• If I owned slacks, that didn't need to be dry cleaned, I would be using anti-static sheets.

• I am not always available Friday or Saturday night, because *gasp*, other people like doing things those nights as well! Being single doesn't mean one has to be sitting home alone all the time.

The only perfect filter is the one that lets no one through. That is the only way you can be sure that you won't waste time on someone who is married, attached, or otherwise unacceptable. The only way to tell that a filter isn't perfect, is if someone does get through. So if you have talked to hundreds of people and not one of them has been meet worthy, you might want to reconsider your filtering process.

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Sorry.
NSA = "no strings attached"

Bottom line: people who are serious act serious.  I don't mean they never smile at you or laugh at themselves.  I mean when it comes time to transact business, they do it without drama, static or BS.  People with something to hide have patterns that are inconsistent or bizarre.  People who are real might have 67 body piercings but when they say they will be by their phone at 8:30pm, they are.  Someone can be big-time kinky without being weird.

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

When I read these message boards, I pay the most attention to comments from people who are currently in healthy relationships.  They are speaking from SUCCESSFUL experience.  If someone has been "looking" for years with nothing to show for it, maybe the problem is *that person*.

There are plenty of good, kinky, SINGLE people who are looking for a serious relationship.  I know this from direct, personal experience. 

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ORIGINAL: SilentTigresss

If you are someone who does not like confrontation, 

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how would you go about confronting  ?