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whipingherfeet -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:20:20 PM)

you need training my dear lots of it




sexyred1 -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:25:46 PM)

LMAO.

Ok, find me a cool, hot guy with a great vocabulary, good job, who lives near me, with a well filled out profile, a few photos, who makes me laugh and does not focus in on only one fetish and then I will consider it.




KatyLied -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:27:29 PM)

quote:

you need training my dear lots of it


You are going to get the cream of the crop of the sublier with that attitude.




Jeffff -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:32:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

you need training my dear lots of it


You are going to get the cream of the crop of the sublier with that attitude.



Probably not....I  had a blanket order for every woman here to kneel.....I was..disheartend by the response

Jeff




KatyLied -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:34:47 PM)

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Probably not....I  had a blanket order for every woman here to kneel.....I was..disheartend by the response


You need to type harder on the keyboard.  Allow your domliness to shine through.

ack spell edit




subtee -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:40:40 PM)

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Probably not....I  had a blanket order for every woman here to kneel.....I was..disheartend by the response

Jeff


What the---

~gets up off her knees, grumbling~




sexyred1 -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:42:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

you need training my dear lots of it


You are going to get the cream of the crop of the sublier with that attitude.



notice he has NOT gotten back to me with the aforementioned list of thingsIwantinadomtotrainme?




whipingherfeet -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:50:20 PM)

how about this .we put a nice slave collar on you strip you naked flog you and sale you over seas  to a  rich arab who will train you




Jeffff -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:51:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: whipingherfeet

how about this .we put a nice slave collar on you strip you naked flog you and sale you over seas  to a  rich arab who will train you


Ok......... this has GOT to be a reg.pulling our chain right..................right?
lol

although....sounds good till you get to the "sell you" part
Jeff




KatyLied -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:52:36 PM)

::swoon:: he said collar ::swoon::






sexyred1 -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:53:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: whipingherfeet

how about this .we put a nice slave collar on you strip you naked flog you and sale you over seas  to a  rich arab who will train you


OMG, I think I am in love.




sexyred1 -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:55:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

quote:

ORIGINAL: whipingherfeet

how about this .we put a nice slave collar on you strip you naked flog you and sale you over seas  to a  rich arab who will train you


Ok......... this has GOT to be a reg.pulling our chain right..................right?
lol

although....sounds good till you get to the "sell you" part
Jeff


Ha! He would need the new black Amex card for that.




MasterFireMaam -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:57:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: whipingherfeet

thank you. also he could ban  what type of foot wear  she wears .kept her in 6 inch heels   util he obeys


Did anyone catch this typo? Makes oh so much more funny!

Master Fire




whipingherfeet -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:57:53 PM)

you would  look nice in slave chain and barefooted wearing a harem dress with lash marks on your back




sexyred1 -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 12:58:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

quote:

ORIGINAL: whipingherfeet

thank you. also he could ban  what type of foot wear  she wears .kept her in 6 inch heels   util he obeys


Did anyone catch this typo? Makes oh so much more funny!

Master Fire



this whole post is hysterical, I am dying...[:D]




YourhandMyAss -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 1:00:49 PM)

They're making fun of you for mis spelling your name, not seriously inviting you over.
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ORIGINAL: whipingherfeet

i be happy to come over and give your feet  a good  whiping




whipingherfeet -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 1:01:07 PM)

she obeys   you happy now ?




DesFIP -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 1:02:19 PM)

How long were you together before moving in? How much discussion did you have about day to day things? Because if you were imagining total control and she was assuming things would go on as they had been, both of you are to blame for not talking it out.

He moved to where I am and d/s went out the window for about 6 months. He had a lot of adapting to do. So did I.  I had to take pictures down, he needed to put them up so he felt it was his home. Same with furniture. He had to adapt to a new job, find a new place to stop for coffee and chat with the waitress etc. Then he came home and he didn't have his stuff where he automatically knew where it was.

All the day to day stuff has to be worked out for the person to be comfortable. You're comfortable because you're still in your same place. She needs to be welcomed in, invited to paint the walls a color she likes, rearrange the pictures including her favorites. Until then she will feel like an outsider in what is supposed to be her new home. Do you get upset if she reorganizes the kitchen? Have you done anything to let her feel like your partner instead of an intruder?




MasterFireMaam -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 1:02:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: pottscpl
Her reply is our agreement not to let her loose her identitty.


Perhaps you're frustrated because you don't have an understanding of where her identity comes from and what it's wrapped up in. For example, my identity used to be based on being a scientist. Now, it's based on being a spiritually led Master and student. She may not know where her identity comes from. You also knowing where yours comes from is important. You don't have to know everything, you just have to be one step ahead of her. Self-awareness and the ability to communicate that to another person is extremely important and would help the situation a great deal.

As for making her obey...you have two choices and which you choose is based on how she's wired. Some people have a fear of punishment and that really works well as a behavior modification tool. Some people don't. So, again, you need to learn how she works. To do that well, you need to learn how you work.

Master Fire




whipingherfeet -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 1:04:53 PM)

see you due or what every you tvs want to be call 




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