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LadyHugs -> RE: learning to live as D/s couple (12/17/2007 1:37:27 PM)
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Dear whipingherfeet, Ladies and Gentlemen;
As a seasoned lifestyle individual -- I must express my personal disappointment in your postings. In my personal experiences, quite a few Dominants do put themselves in the position as to feel what they apply to others, to include flogging, single tails and yes--even bastinado. It is clear you haven't 'bottomed' or subjected yourself to any and or all the suggested behaviors, e.g. whipping someone if they have a comment or question anything you say. It might just be a question as to confirm what the order/command might be--as to better serve.
Even animals who have been whipped non-sensibly will boil and take an opportunity to lash out. This world is not a fantasy novel like Gor, it is not middle-Eastern where the culture is anti-female and all women are barefoot and ignorant.
I also fail to see, any mention of the middle Eastern terms for bastinado, which in Turkish would be Falaka and in Arabic is Falaqa. So, apparently the research as to such is not complete at all. I also haven't seen any good advice that supports how to do safe bastinado, which done wrong will cripple someone for life. That risk has not been declared and this disappoints me.
There are safe ways to do bastinado--which is actually Spanish and linked to the tortures during the Spanish Inquisition. Bastinado was applied not only to torture but to cripple, so they could not escape. Modified for BDSM, as NOT to cripple someone, is done with a very well placed and well practiced application to the nerve bundles. I don't even let my students bastinado anybody until they can hit the size of a pea 10 out of 10 times, due to the fine bones within the foot as well as the tendons. And, I submit my foot first--before any slave suffers a wrong technique, skill and or application of bastinado.
My apologies to all for side-tracking this particular topic on 'learning to live as a D/s couple.'
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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