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MadRabbit -> RE: Getting what you give (12/18/2007 6:01:30 PM)
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If you don't enter into it with a high fluting, arrogant, know-it-all, close minded, "I'm too dominant to ever submit or do anything not limited by my narrow minded sterotype of True Dom behavior" attitude, the experience will most likely be beneficial to you in some way.
Of course, if you allow yourself to buy into the even more narrow minded and sillier thought that any non sterotypical Dominant behavior means your not a real true Dominant, you could leave with a whole lot of insecurity.
However, while I do think there is benefit in the experiences (I found some in the few I have had), I won't expect a whole lot of ground breaking deep seated insights into the submissive mentality.
Unfortanely, it's not much different then having homosexual experiences as heterosexual to learn about homosexuals. While you might find some shallow appreciation for the other side and a degree of understanding for what the other side might possible experience or endure...at the end of the day, if sucking cock just doesn't do it for you, then sucking cock just doesn't do it for you.
If that's the case, then sucking cock is just sucking a cock and not a gratifying mind blowing sexual experience like a homosexual might experience. In much the same way, submitting will just be...submitting and not a mind blowing spiritually fulfilling life altering experience that brings about a new existenstial perspective.
Still...there will most likely be some value in it that will influence and help you some way and most certainly doesnt fall into the "crock".
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