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Najakcharmer -> RE: Smther my face (12/17/2007 1:53:53 PM)
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ORIGINAL: damose2007
How do I get a female to smother my face without her getting pisted off and leaving?
Education is intended here rather than offense, but I am already pissed off just by reading a crude, explicit, grossly selfish sexual demand that is couched in terms that make the woman sound like a thing you can use for your pleasure rather than a person. You sound like a total jerk who just wants to use any random female to get his rocks off, without caring who she is or what she wants. Women really don't like being treated as inanimate objects to meet your needs. Are you surprised that it pisses us off to be treated that way?
There are no shortcuts to getting what you want that don't involve hiring a professional. If you have a specific sexual/fetish desire, you need to keep it in your pants until you have taken the time to get to know a woman and develop a mutual relationship that meets her needs as well as yours. THEN you can bring up what your sexual needs are, and she can bring up what her sexual needs are, and you can negotiate what you will be doing in bed together. But if you can't focus on her and her needs as much as you are focusing on you and your needs, you're doomed.
Coming right out and asking for specific sexual acts in a way that makes it clear that you don't care who will be doing them....ugh, that's incredibly unattractive. It makes you look like an indiscriminate, selfish, horny, rude jerk who thinks of all women as "females" rather than real human beings with wants and needs of their own.
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