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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 9:30:10 AM   
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Jeff that goes for all women.

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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 9:32:39 AM   
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Jeff that goes for all women.



True,,but the piercing voice of an 18 year old may actualy keep you awake

Jeff
(napping)

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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 11:23:32 AM   
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Jeff that goes for all women.





True,,but the piercing voice of an 18 year old may actualy keep you awake

Jeff
(napping)


That's why us old-fart women choose over 25 yo's...at least their voice will have changed.  And a couple more years might have boosted the knowledge level of things to talk about.  'Sides, howdya think I keep up with all the cool new gadgets young people get to play with nowadays? 

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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 12:39:16 PM   
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The problem with fucking an 18 year old is.......they are gonna wanna talk.

Jeff


I have two words for you....duct tape


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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 1:19:22 PM   
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Awww...you're makin' me MELT.

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I love women after menopause!  Fewer complications...

And they tend to be appreciative, too.  Nothin' wrong with a little appreciation.


We're like Avis - we try harder.

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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 3:00:40 PM   
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This definitely redefines my definition of the OP as IDIOT.  I am in surgical menopause, and I do what I want.  I am free, free, free at last.
I would like to see one man handle a cycle, have children, or even go through menopause. 
Menopause is freedom, not death.

 
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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 3:25:27 PM   
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This definitely redefines my definition of the OP as IDIOT.  I am in surgical menopause, and I do what I want.  I am free, free, free at last.
I would like to see one man handle a cycle, have children, or even go through menopause. 
Menopause is freedom, not death.

 
Regards, MissSCD
 
back to the cave.  bats are everywhere.



Well, obviously the title of "Idiot" resides with those who, instead of reading what is written, make assumptions without evidence and then proceed to show their ass by calling names.

Or maybe it's just those "feminine hormones" have still got you at their mercy?

Firm

PS, Menopause doesn't seem to give women a sense of humor, either, if they didn't have one before.


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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 3:51:34 PM   
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What this study is proposing is that you can't explain why human females live past their reproductive years without taking into account the male of the species. 



Look my time spent breeding and impregnate has counted for less than one twentieth of my time on this planet thus far....
I think it's safe to say I have been somewhat busier doing other things and yes not all of them exploring sociobiology with the male of the species......
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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 6:37:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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The problem with fucking an 18 year old is.......they are gonna wanna talk.

Jeff
Hummm..Iowa is looking better all the time!!..~wink~..Tempting

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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 7:25:37 PM   
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According to peer-reviewed research, the only reason that women live past menopause is because older men screw younger women ....


Bullshit.  I don't whose "peers" reviewed this research, but they clearly haven't been talking to any physical or cultural anthropologists.  The causes of human menopause have been extensively analyzed, and it has nothing to do with who human males have sex with.  Human females are members of a social species.  Women over 50 do not remain fertile because after that point, they can better pass on their genes by investing their energy in their children and grandchildren, rather than by producing new offspring themselves.

There is one other species on this planet that has female menopause:  the pilot whale.  No "May December" romances there between older males and younger females, so how do we explain it?  Simple:  any species which enjoys a substantial benefit from the Grandmothering Effect will evolve a menopause for its females, regardless of who or what the wrinkly old males stick their cocks into. 

A second point:  "December-May" romances are not common in Hunter-Gatherer societies, which are the appropriate analogy for any reference to early human evolution.  "December-May" romances are actually a product of patriarchal farming societies, which burn through their women at an appalling rate by forcing them to breed until they die.  In such societies, many monogamous males can kill two or three wives in succession in the childbirthing bed by the age of 50.  And since women in these societies are usually first married in their teenage years and are never permitted to divorce, these men will be forced to re-marry progressively younger women as their lives go on--because they've killed all the others before they could become peers.

There's also an outright fallacy either stated or implied here, in the suggestion that human males over 35 are as reproductively viable as males between 14-35.  They aren't--this is an empirical fact.  Human males remain fertile after 50, yes, but probably because their bodies are more likely to kill them if they stop producing viable sperm than if they keep it up--whereas the reverse is true of human females.  (Prostate cancer will take out men very easily even if they stop masturbating at that age, regardless of whether they masturbate to pictures of women 18 or 80.)

In any case, regardless of whether they're still able to produce sperm, men suffer the same degradation of their gametes that women do after age 35.  Whatever they're shooting with whoever they're shooting it into, there's a good percentage chance of any resulting zygote being defective, leading to birth defects, stillbirth or some nasty chromosomal mutation.  To say nothing of the likelihood that these men will die before their offspring are fullgrown, leaving their children without resources or protection.

Upshot:  older men are not ideal fathers, biologically or socially.  Period.  Empirically, inarguably, no matter how many wankers wish it weren't so.

It's amazing what people try to pass off as science these days.  Sheeeez.


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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 7:38:10 PM   
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...The causes of human menopause have been extensively analyzed, and it has nothing to do with who human males have sex with.


Ummm, ShaktiSama... the study wasn't about what causes menopause.

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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 7:43:43 PM   
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Skati,

All of your points were addressed in the actual study, to one extent or the other, I think.  Did you click on the link and read, or just go into "feminst rant mode"? 

Firm

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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/19/2007 7:46:44 PM   
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Sorry, dude, but I am with Shakti.  Why spread this tripe around in the name of humor? 

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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/20/2007 5:44:56 AM   
ShaktiSama


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Skati,

All of your points were addressed in the actual study, to one extent or the other, I think.  Did you click on the link and read, or just go into "feminst rant mode"? 

Firm


I would not bother reading an "actual study" which was summarized by the OP by  multiple statements about human evolution and biology which are simply, utterly false.

For example:  your reference to human sexual dimorphism is completely wrong.  Human sexual dimorphism is actually very limited, even relative to other members of the great ape line:  in any given human population, the variation between males of different sizes is actually much greater than the average difference between males and females.  The latter amounts to 1-2 inches in stature and a few kilograms in mass at most--along with a millimeter or two of length on the canines, especially the lower.

Contrast this to the dimorphism of a real polygynous species, like the gorilla or even a semi-polygynous species like the orangutan, and you can see it's a joke.  Humans are actually much more analogous to our closest cousins, in the genus Pan--the chimpanzees and bonobos.  Both species of Pan live in multi-male, multi-female groups, like humans.  Fancy that.

There's another aspect of human morphology which argues strongly against the idea that our ancestors were living in polygynous groups--your own cock.  Human males actually have a very large penis versus total body size, compared to many other species of primate.  They also have large testes that produce a lot of semen.  Having a larger, longer penis and bigger testes that produce copious fluid is not necessary...unless you have to actually compete for reproductive success within the vagina itself.  In other words, a species doesn't develope a big wang unless a female ready to be fertilized will have access to multiple males! 

You can call a reference to these inconvenient facts a "feminist rant" if you like.  I simply do not like people to post nonsense and call it science--or to publish nonsense and call it science, for that matter.

I do not personally care who you have sex with, so long as she is old enough to consent to it.  Ageplay is fun for dominants and submissives in all gender combinations.  But polygyny and "May December" romances are cultural phenomena--not biological phenomena.  And your own body argues against both as being "natural" or somehow biologically correct for your species.

P.S.  Having now read the article posted, I can easily see multiple flaws in the reasoning of the authors.  Namely, they have no conception whatsoever of the concept of "social survival"--evolutionary forces that causesone's genes to survive due to non-mating events like infant care or group defense.  The survival of humans of both sexes into old age is easily explained by social survival--older humans are often very valuable to their younger kin.  The productivity of older women in particular, in hunter-gatherer societies, has been studied in terms of calories they produce per hour of labor.  Their productivity is off the charts, compared to younger women in the child-bearing years--grandmothers work harder, longer, and much more efficiently, and "bring in the bacon" for their sons/daughters and grandchildren much more effectively than a woman still carrying her offspring.

The majority of effective hunting and fishing in many such societies is also done by men in their mid-thirties or older.  Grampa is damned useful too!

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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/20/2007 5:50:25 AM   
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Older babes are hot...enuff said


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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/20/2007 5:50:49 AM   
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Hey!!! Hey!!! Hey!!!.............. Name...in vain.........no, no, NO; no taking Bull's name in vain........bad girl, no biscuit............go to your room..........


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Bullshit. 


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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/20/2007 5:59:29 AM   
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The problem with fucking an 18 year old is.......they are gonna wanna talk.

Jeff

LMAO
Geesh Jeff...

You know, you could always just tape those pretty young mouths shut. Or better yet, fill them with something so that they CAN'T talk

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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/20/2007 6:03:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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The problem with fucking an 18 year old is.......they are gonna wanna talk.

Jeff

LMAO
Geesh Jeff...

You know, you could always just tape those pretty young mouths shut. Or better yet, fill them with something so that they CAN'T talk


Then they go on and on about their bruised tonsills...like I care

Jeff

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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/20/2007 6:05:09 AM   
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Then they go on and on about their bruised tonsills...like I care

Jeff

18 year olds have tonsils?


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RE: The secret to life after menopause - Older men/youn... - 12/20/2007 6:06:01 AM   
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Couple of guys sittin around drinkin
Down at the starlight bar
One of em says, you know Ive been thinking
Other one says, that wont get you too far
He says, this is your life, and welcome to it
Its just workin and drinkin and dreams
Ad on tv says just do it
Hell if I know what that means

The secret of life is a good cup of coffee
The secret of life is keep your eye on the ball
The secret of life is a beautiful woman
And marilyn stares down from the barroom wall

You and me, were just a couple of zeros
Just a couple of down-and-outs
But movie stars and football heroes
What have they got to be unhappy about?
So they turn to the bartender, sam, what do you think?
Whats the key that unlocks that door?
Sam dont say nothin, just wipes off the bar
And he pours them a couple more

cause the secret of life is in sams martinis
The secret of life is in marilyns eyes
The secret of life is in monday night football
Rolling stones records and moms apple pie

Sam looks up from his sunday paper
Says, boys, youre on the wrong track
The secret of life is there aint no secret
And you dont get your money back
Hey

The secret of life is gettin up early
The secret of life is stayin up late
The secret of life is try not to hurry
But dont wait
Dont wait

The secret of life is a good cup of coffee
The secret of life is keep your eye on the ball
The secret of life is to find the right woman
The secret of life is nothin at all
Oh, its nothin at all
The secret of life

Couple of guys sittin around drinkin
Down at the starlight bar
One of em says, you know Ive been thinking
Other one says, that wont get you too far
That wont get you too far

Have Faith...........take care this holiday season (I will be drinking and driving)

Ron

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