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womyn -> What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:31:24 PM)

Obviously the people who look at my profile do NOT read through it. I get so many obnoxious people calling themselves dom (mes) that seem to think I'm a slave and can order me around!

I am a SUBMISSIVE NOT a slave....yet! Why, WHY are people so disrespectful?!




RCdc -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:35:12 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: womyn

Obviously the people who look at my profile do NOT read through it. I get so many obnoxious people calling themselves dom (mes) that seem to think I'm a slave and can order me around!

I am a SUBMISSIVE NOT a slave....yet! Why, WHY are people so disrespectful?!


I don't know - why are people like yourself so disrespectful?
Why do you believe that it's ok to 'order' slaves around but not you, the not so 'humble' submissive?  Do tell - I would love to know.
 
the.dark.




sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:39:59 PM)

Oh fiddlefuck, another newbie posting about whywhywhywhywhywhywhy is the internet so bad and horrible to meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

OP, get a clue, this is ONLINE, it is kink site, people are going to do what they want, regardless of what you tell them in your profile. You are on post 3, good. Keep posting and hanging out on collarme and hopefully you will get the hang of it, if not, join the waaa waaa club.




womyn -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:44:11 PM)

No, I think I might not have made myself clear. I've been getting really obnoxious emails with offers for plane tix, money, etc. and it's really insulting. Perhaps my the heading was too generalized.

For any unintentional offense I may have given to the REAL Doms (mes) my apologies!




RCdc -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:46:59 PM)

Really - if you are going to apologise to anyone, how about the people who identify as slaves?  You run in, wanting cheese with your whine, bemoaning lack of respect when you clearly have no respect for consensual slavery.
 
I find no sympathy with you at all.  And the wine is far too good to share.
 
the.dark.

(.editbecausemyspellingsucks.)




KatyLied -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:47:51 PM)

We all get those emails.  Instead of whining about them we ignore them.




mnottertail -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:49:21 PM)

Click from the searching side of the house on new users, you will show up there, having joined on the tenth of this month........

So, as they say...

on your neese, bithct!!!!!!!!!!

(it slows down after a couple of weeks, you poor new guys get the fuck beat outta you and don't even have a red ass to show for it....unfortunately, you might also miss mr. wrong because of the onslaught).

Laugh and drink heavily thru the new year, that should about take care of it.  

LOL,
Ron




sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:49:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: womyn

No, I think I might not have made myself clear. I've been getting really obnoxious emails with offers for plane tix, money, etc. and it's really insulting. Perhaps my the heading was too generalized.

For any unintentional offense I may have given to the REAL Doms (mes) my apologies!


Ok, deep breath....first of all, you made yourself clear in your post. You are ranting about getting obnoxious emails. Hello?? Every woman here gets obnoxious emails and so do men. Duh. It's the internet. You cannot only control your reaction to these things, not the thing.

Everyone gets weird offers; you would freak if you saw some of the ones I get, just laugh it off.

Why would you let pixels on a screen insult you? If this kind of thing upsets you so much, you need to take your search to real life and avoid online. Because in real life someone may not have the freedom of self expression that people online have and they won't be able to upset you so much, or insult your delicate sensibilities.

So either laugh it off, change your profile to be perfectly clear about what you want without being negative (no one likes all the ONLY REAL people need apply or ONLY hot people need apply stuff that you have written). You can be more free spirited and positive in your profile and may attract better people.





KatyLied -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:50:03 PM)

Yeah, she's fresh meat.




crouchingtigress -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:50:28 PM)

best advice i can give is: if being offered plane tix and getting hit on is insulting to you....well in the words of the great Bette Davis, "Fasten your seatbelt honey, its going to be a bumby ride"




mnottertail -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:50:48 PM)

you already got that snuffed up do ya?

threesomeguy




sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:51:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

Really - if you are going to apologise to anyone, how about the people who identify as slaves?  You run in, wanting cheese with your whine, bemoaning lack of respect when you clearly have no respect for consensual slavery.
 
I find no sympathy with you at all.  And the wine is far too good to share.
 
the.dark.

(.editbecausemyspellingsucks.)


can I have some wine? please dark, please??? pretty please?




KatyLied -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:51:25 PM)

quote:

you already got that snuffed up do ya?


LOL




sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:52:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

best advice i can give is: if being offered plane tix and getting hit on is insulting to you....well in the words of the great Bette Davis, "Fasten your seatbelt honey, its going to be a bumby ride"


Ha! How much do I love that line and movie? Classic bitchfest.




KatyLied -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:54:04 PM)

I liked Whatever Happened to Baby Jane.
Yeah, I like weird stuff.




womyn -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:54:17 PM)

please no hostilities. I OBVIOUSLY have never been a slave. I am trying to learn the ropes (excuse the pun) so to speak, but I feel uncomfortable  (and a little uneasy) when I am pushed into it. But the in the future I'll follow that advice about just ignoring some of those emails. I am not here to cause any trouble, nor am I here to say ALL doms (mes) are pushy. I am here to get more input about the M/S relationship.




RCdc -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:54:53 PM)

Oh - would that be red for red?
An exquisite rioja?  or  delicate shiraz?[;)]
 
the.dark.




sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:55:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I liked Whatever Happened to Baby Jane.
Yeah, I like weird stuff.



Yes you do, Blanche, yes you do!!




mnottertail -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:55:49 PM)

I keep wanting to find that on dvd at the lowcost sellers, that.... Hush Hush and all that rot......

But I either forget or try to get newbies to suck my dick and it sidetracks me.

Ron





KatyLied -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/19/2007 1:56:29 PM)

We should all get together and have a movie night.




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