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Nipple play? - 12/19/2007 2:35:46 PM   
Blindmage


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Status: offline 		hi all,

...i'm kinda nervous posting this, but i'm stuck looking for advice. Thanks to some recent conversations w/ my domme, and curiosity on my part, i've discovered my nipples .

anyways, thanks to being a very premature baby and being crazy sick as a young one (and..umm...being a largeer man) , i have odd nipples, one is normal and one is an inny...kinda.

anyways, after playing around w/ some clothes pins (ouchy), and talking to my domme, she really like the idea of progressing with this...i need help, i have no idea about nipple play at all, and i don;t know if my odd nipples will cause a problem.

thank you in advance.


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RE: Nipple play? - 12/19/2007 3:58:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		Dear Blindmage, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Personally, I much rather use rat or mouse traps for nipple clamping first.  Easily and gently put on your nipples, and gently lowered and grasping the nipple--the large base (wood part) and the round bar (the part that snaps shut) is so much nicer than a harsh edge.
 
In addition, it is helpful to new people for a Dominant to take the nipple gently and slowly increase the pressure on the nipple, as for the blood to retreat and nerves numb a bit.  This is when a clamp should be applied.  I also don't leave it on long either.  I first put my fingers on the nipple and apply pressure before removing the clamp and gently decrease the pressure so the pain isn't extreme, which is caused by blood rushing back into the fine veins/vessels
 
As to address odd nipples -- the "inny' isn't all that odd really--though not common it shouldn't be a source of stress or look down upon.  That said, when wearing clamps, it will change the skin and the shape of your nipple over time to an outward look.  Snake bite kit where suction is applied, in time changes how the nipples position themselves.  Piercings in the nipple, if done by a real good professional will hold a nipple in a position and the skin learns a new position.
You may also be so inclined, as to use a woman's hairpen, where it is closed into a clamp like form and wear it as often as possible in private as to 'train' the skin and associated veins, nerve endings and underlying tissues.
 
Hope this may be of help.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
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RE: Nipple play? - 12/19/2007 4:04:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Do you feel pain, numbness, swelling, bruising, etc in the "inny nipple" the same as the other?  I love nipple play, the thing you have to be careful of is not restricting circulation to the extent of killing the skin tissue.  If you are able to experience sensation to the point of recognizing this may be occurring, you should be fine.

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/19/2007 4:38:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		Buy yourself some Bodkins from a craft store and use a pair of pliers to bend the ends out a bit. These are inexpensive and they allow the slightest of adjustments. Of all the nipple clamps I've experienced, these can be worn for the longest amount of time. Don't apply the teeth to your nipples, apply the flat part. Enjoy.

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/19/2007 5:06:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		ever try suction ? a cheap wat to do it would be go to the camping area and get a snake bite kit or two.you could also get a vacume cupping set , though i am not too fond of the plastic cups in the vac sets they are a fun  intro . 

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/19/2007 11:13:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		thanks for all the tips, and info everyone! I wasn't expecting so much so fast. As to a sensation difference between the two, i dunno, i'me stil very very new at any kinda nipple play, i think there's a little difference, but it could just be in my head.

I was looking at these:

http://www.sub-shop.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=1291

and my domme and I think they'd be ok to start with, but we're still unsure, cause we're never really comfortable with something untill we've gotten to hold and see it in person, but none of the places near use have these.

i'm usually able to find out lots of info before i bring things to her, but this time, i'm kinda at a loss, it's hard to find nipple toys around here, and we're kinda nervous about ordering something sight unseen...

anyways, enough worrying from me.

Thank you all for your time.

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/20/2007 9:03:34 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Blindmage

thanks for all the tips, and info everyone! I wasn't expecting so much so fast. As to a sensation difference between the two, i dunno, i'me stil very very new at any kinda nipple play, i think there's a little difference, but it could just be in my head.

I was looking at these:

http://www.sub-shop.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=1291

and my domme and I think they'd be ok to start with, but we're still unsure, cause we're never really comfortable with something untill we've gotten to hold and see it in person, but none of the places near use have these.

i'm usually able to find out lots of info before i bring things to her, but this time, i'm kinda at a loss, it's hard to find nipple toys around here, and we're kinda nervous about ordering something sight unseen...

anyways, enough worrying from me.

Thank you all for your time.



Anything that is adjustable is a great place to start...we started with a medium sized pair of those adjustable clamps. Just remember that many of these toys are cheaply made, so don't expect them to last forever...those adjustable screws give out pretty fast. AVOID CLOVER CLAMPS for now...they are INTENSE and will scare away all but the most brave. After ten years of playing I can still only handle them for about three minutes and then I'm in tears!

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/20/2007 9:41:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know peeps, tweezer clamps are good enough for me, anything else and I scream bloody murder.

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/20/2007 5:51:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe its just me but clover clamps aren't all of that bad. They can get really painful if you pull on them but just hanging there they are quite nice. I've also found that how much meat they are pinching influences how much pain they inflict.

That said, I wouldn't recommend them for a first time clamp.

Clothespins and those pinchy hangers are good cheap starters. Try bending out the springs in your clothespins if they are too much.

I can't really say about your unusual nipple causing problems but I suspect it will be fine. You might ask your doctor if it really worries you.

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/20/2007 6:00:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		get a couple pair of plastic chop sticks  and some rubber bands ,putting the nipple inbetween  a pair of chopsticks you can then move the rubberbands from the outter ends of the chop sticks closer to the center . The closer  you move to center the tighter the  pinch .Bingo a practily free set of clamps .

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/20/2007 6:29:11 PM   
Blindmage


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a quick note, both my domme and i have horrid vision, she's legally blind, so i don't think finiky things like chopstiks would work....how do you go about bending the springs on clothes pins?

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/20/2007 6:45:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		for me, so long as they are rubber tipped, there are many different ones out there. that one set you had the link to did not impress me though. that little screw on them just adjusts how far they close, not how tightly they pinch.

something along the lines of these http://www.stormyleather.com/product.asp?0=348&1=349&3=1863 are what i like to have "laying around"

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/20/2007 7:09:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Over extend them. Basically you open them really wide. You can make a set of the same intensity by either bending several out to the same degree (eyeball it) or using a pipe or cylinder (which will make them all bend out the same.

Don't be afraid to break one to get a feel for how far is too far. They are cheap :)

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/20/2007 7:43:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Tweezer clamps are very good for having a little more control over the pressure on the nipple. You can adjust it to as tight or as loose as you find comfortable.

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/21/2007 12:27:46 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: gorgeous1


quote:

ORIGINAL: Blindmage

thanks for all the tips, and info everyone! I wasn't expecting so much so fast. As to a sensation difference between the two, i dunno, i'me stil very very new at any kinda nipple play, i think there's a little difference, but it could just be in my head.

I was looking at these:

http://www.sub-shop.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=1291

and my domme and I think they'd be ok to start with, but we're still unsure, cause we're never really comfortable with something untill we've gotten to hold and see it in person, but none of the places near use have these.

i'm usually able to find out lots of info before i bring things to her, but this time, i'm kinda at a loss, it's hard to find nipple toys around here, and we're kinda nervous about ordering something sight unseen...

anyways, enough worrying from me.

Thank you all for your time.



Anything that is adjustable is a great place to start...we started with a medium sized pair of those adjustable clamps. Just remember that many of these toys are cheaply made, so don't expect them to last forever...those adjustable screws give out pretty fast. AVOID CLOVER CLAMPS for now...they are INTENSE and will scare away all but the most brave. After ten years of playing I can still only handle them for about three minutes and then I'm in tears!


Damn  for a newbie I must be super brave I have been using clovers and adding weight using chains as well plus using rubber tip mini clamps that you buy in the hardware store to do the BDSM zipper along the sides of the  breasts as well.  and all along I am thinking I am not much of a painslut as I am still  afraid of the thought  of being whipped  with a single tail   photo explains what is meant by the BDSM  zipper but without the string to attach them to one another 
http://www.eroshare.com/image/mleg2001/9493/medium/3d38da407a2861ac34f7548cc7d190aa/P1010005a.jpg




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RE: Nipple play? - 12/21/2007 4:39:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Somehow I don't think the above link is working, if not maybe this works 
http://pixcastle.com/pic/11520xuMOS/219305.jpg 

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/22/2007 9:44:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		different strokes for different folks paper clips ...the large kind for those who want to learn the feel of a clamp without the pain,its a great area to explore almost anything that pinches and doesnt bite into ones skin can be experimented with .

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/24/2007 12:45:46 AM   
Blindmage


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Status: offline 		thank you all for the help!

my domme just surprised me with an msn message saying she got me some clamps 'on impulse' while buying things for my new years surprise!

i don;t know anything about them yet, I'll find out when we have our new years eve get together!

LDR's suck, we only see each other once every few months.

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/25/2007 5:24:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hi Blindmage. WOW, NIPPLE PLAY ! It brongs fond memories. I use "Bobby Pins" a lot, because you can put them on the nipples, closer to the "OPENED ENDS". This will be less pressure to cause damage, and will still let you know they are there.

You can also use Clothes Pins like I do, with rubber Bands on the "Handle" parts. You can slide the Rubber Band so there is hardly any presure on the Clothes Pin, then slowly slide the Rubber Band to make the Clothes Pin tighter, to suite you.

I also use Alligator Clips, with small Screws and Wings Nuts, to adjust the pressure. You don't want to damage those Puppies.

Also when mine are cold, they tend to Stick Out....YUMMY !

Sincerly, Sub BalletBob

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RE: Nipple play? - 12/25/2007 6:19:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Blindmage

thanks all,

a quick note, both my domme and i have horrid vision, she's legally blind, so i don't think finiky things like chopstiks would work....how do you go about bending the springs on clothes pins?


You can just clip the clothespins around the edge of a book to bend the springs. Good luck to the both of you and most importantly... experiment and have fun doing it.

cali


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