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What makes your happy... - 12/21/2007 9:45:16 AM

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I just recently started seeing someone. And really the only time we have to see each other. Is durning the day in the middle of our busy scedual. So I was just courious. I want some ideas of things that I can have ready for him when he gets here. Things that would completely appease him as soon as he walked in the door. Or just whatever.

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RE: What makes your happy... - 12/21/2007 12:45:19 PM

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That is a hard one for outsiders to say. It will vary from Dom to Dom...What one might find appealing another will not even notice and yet another will totally dislike.

The best way to find this out is to ask Him personally. "Is there anything i can do to please you? Can i get anything ready for you to maximize our time together"

Of course making yourself look as pleasing as possible (in his eyes) is something, but even still, you have to find out what that is to him. (some love perfume, some hate it...some want shaved, others don't care etc)

Best of luck to you. And congrats on your new adventure.

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RE: What makes your happy... - 12/21/2007 5:45:43 PM

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I just recently started seeing someone. And really the only time we have to see each other. Is durning the day in the middle of our busy scedual. So I was just courious. I want some ideas of things that I can have ready for him when he gets here. Things that would completely appease him as soon as he walked in the door. Or just whatever.

Meet him at the door in a full-length coat. When he walks in, whip off the coat to show him you have nothing on beneath it. As a bonus, you might consider getting one of those relatively inexpensive clit clips with a small bell that hangs down.

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RE: What makes your happy... - 12/22/2007 6:54:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: OoSMOKEoO

I just recently started seeing someone. And really the only time we have to see each other. Is durning the day in the middle of our busy scedual. So I was just courious. I want some ideas of things that I can have ready for him when he gets here. Things that would completely appease him as soon as he walked in the door. Or just whatever.

When I walk through the door, I appreciate a calm atmosphere, so running 'round stressed is not an option for me. Furthermore, if you're a good cook, then make use of your skills; the saying "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach" holds currency, here. Have some wine on the table to compliment his meal; be prepared to pour his wine and generally be at his service. Making an effort with your appearance should help.

To each their own, but I wouldn't appreciate sexual advances; I'd have plans organised in advance: that's my area to dictate, you dictate the cooking and the wine, and the rest will follow.

As said, each man has his own style, so asking him will help; I wouldn't be too concerned, though, because you can't know everything in the first few months of seeing someone, you have to go through the learning process in order to have everything ship-shape. If you've made an effort for him, he should appreciate it, whether you get it right or not.

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RE: What makes your happy... - 12/22/2007 7:57:24 AM

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Have his wife there. That way he can have both of you at the same time.

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RE: What makes your happy... - 12/22/2007 8:14:52 AM

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Have his wife there. That way he can have both of you at the same time.

rofl!! You are just full of great suggestions!!!

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RE: What makes your happy... - 12/22/2007 11:25:38 AM

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Have his wife there. That way he can have both of you at the same time.

Ohhh that sounds good...hmm being bi has bennies

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RE: What makes your happy... - 12/22/2007 6:13:22 PM

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Wow. I got alot more answers to this then I thought I would. I throughly appreicate all of it acctually. I know things like that vary from person to person. But hearing other peoples personal experiences help me to be a little creative and switch things around to fit the situation or person perfect. im acctually a massage therpist so we start everyday with a massage. for at least an hour. And why did you automaticly assume Hes married? He isn't.

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