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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/22/2007 10:24:49 AM

catize

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I find slavery to a WebCam has too many limitations. It doesn’t speak so it can’t give me orders to follow. This also makes conversation impossible. I have no idea what WebCam thinks about religion, politics or what it would like for dinner. WebCam is easily “turned on” but then I have to turn it off to end the session and that makes me worry that I am topping from the bottom ~snickers~.
WebCam does not contribute to the relationship and my needs are not met. Should I beg for release and seek another dominant?

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/22/2007 10:48:37 AM

GentleLee

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ORIGINAL: beeble

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GentleLee wrote: alwasy remember that Women give sex to get love, and men give love to get sex.

I'm not convinced that this sort of generalization is useful as anything other than wry observation. Try to take it as anything more than that and it's a pair of rather offensive statements: all men are emotionally manipulative and women never want sex.

Not entirely in context the way you "quoted me", is it? It's something my uncle always tells me, and yes, it is a very blanketing statement.
But for most parts it's true (again, my experience). It's just a cruel cruel world we live in, where we listen to those elder then us, and sometimes speak from ear to mouth. If you took offence I apologize as that was not my intention.

However, I don't think I am wrong in expressing myself when I begin with saying "it's only my opinion".
If you want to be prissy about anything, I would have thought it to be the "as well" which is the part of my post not relating to webcam slavery/sex.

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/22/2007 10:54:50 AM

ownedgirlie

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I have never heard the term before, so it's a new one on me.

Since Master and I currently live 2 hours from each other, both with crazy schedules, we do employ the use of web cams between the times I am able to be with him in person. Our cam programs have video and sound, and it's a great way to "visit" - the next best thing, anyway. I'm often "doing stuff" for him in the background while he works - he enjoys it and finds it relaxing. Or those late nights when he can't sleep, I'll entertain him as well. It's a great way for us to connect, and I'm thrilled he'd rather entertain himself watching his slave than watching late night TV.

It works for us.

But if by "cam slave" you mean people with no mental/emotional connection, but just getting their yaya's off with strangers on cam....well, no thanks. It's appealing to some, but not to me personally.

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/22/2007 11:12:46 AM

beeble

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GentleLee wrote: alwasy remember that Women give sex to get love, and men give love to get sex.
beeble wrote: I'm not convinced that this sort of generalization is useful as anything other than wry observation. Try to take it as anything more than that and it's a pair of rather offensive statements: all men are emotionally manipulative and women never want sex.
GentleLee wrote: Not entirely in context the way you "quoted me", is it?

It seems reasonable to me -- while I accept that it was your uncle who said those words, you appeared, to me, at least, to be agreeing with and endorsing them.

quote:

If you took offence I apologize as that was not my intention.

Likewise. No offense taken.

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/22/2007 12:06:03 PM

Aswad

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I've only found one use for webcams: it lets me see who I am talking to.

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/22/2007 12:18:55 PM

SassySarijane

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I have no use for web cam slavery from either side of the slash. As a tool to see someone, fine, or using when the one you are involved with in person is away for awhile to see each other or whatever, yeah. Other than that, no. I don't do cyber bdsm. My experience with those wanting to use web cams with me is that it's about directing their own little porno flick and I'm not into being that for a stranger on the internet.

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/22/2007 12:58:59 PM

KindLadyGrey

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No cams for me.

I have a very serious neurological condition: I see with my hands!

Seriously. I'm a cuddle whore and a touch junkie. Cams do nothing for me.

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/22/2007 2:10:16 PM

CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: KindLadyGrey

Seriously. I'm a cuddle whore and a touch junkie.

Oh myyy. Did I just find my long-lost twin????

Cali
cuddle whore and touch junkie <---I love that!

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/23/2007 10:35:45 AM

littlebitxxx

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ORIGINAL: dominator69

Hello ladeys ,what du you as a femal sub-slave think about cs ?

Boring waste of time when I could be off doing the real thing.

GentleLee wrote: alwasy remember that Women give sex to get love, and men give love to get sex.

Bullshit.

But that's my opinion.

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/23/2007 5:57:50 PM

akisha

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~FR~

I've played on Cam for my Dominant, but for it to be that and nothing more I really can't see the point.

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/23/2007 10:49:43 PM

TemptingNviceSub

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Unless as owned girlie says it is only ONE way that their dynamic functions and not the ONLY way ,then I have to say ......I would find such.....boring, easy wanker material, a good way for some to have a D/s relationship without the responsibility, a good way to take advantage of another,a good way to possibly exploit another, ad infinitum of negative to my perspective of the webcam..Tempting

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/24/2007 1:42:00 AM

ownedgirlie

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So Tempting...ya gettin' on cam for me tonight, babe?

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/24/2007 7:59:20 AM

IrishMist

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

So Tempting...ya gettin' on cam for me tonight, babe?

Hey...are we having a party?

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/24/2007 8:59:44 AM

LaMspeach

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

So Tempting...ya gettin' on cam for me tonight, babe?

Hey...are we having a party?

I wanna watch

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/24/2007 11:59:04 AM

ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: LaMspeach

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

So Tempting...ya gettin' on cam for me tonight, babe?

Hey...are we having a party?

I wanna watch

Rock on!! A little web cam sumpin-sumpin for Christmas Eve??? Let's do!!

You know, that would be fun, to get a group together to just chat and wave, lol. I know, I'm a dork, but wouldn't it?!

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/24/2007 12:22:30 PM

proudsub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dominator69

Hello ladeys ,what du you as a femal sub-slave think about cs ?

Please keep in mind that web cam stills and clips can be captured and sent around. Also someone unknown to you may be watching the show.

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/24/2007 2:47:08 PM

IrishMist

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Rock on!! A little web cam sumpin-sumpin for Christmas Eve??? Let's do!!

You know, that would be fun, to get a group together to just chat and wave, lol. I know, I'm a dork, but wouldn't it?!

Ummm...can I wear my tassles?

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/24/2007 3:04:46 PM

ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist
Ummm...can I wear my tassles?

Oh PLEEESE do!!!

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/24/2007 8:13:07 PM

IrishMist

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist
Ummm...can I wear my tassles?

Oh PLEEESE do!!!

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HOT DAYUM

I am so there..........

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RE: Web Cam Slavery - 12/24/2007 11:07:56 PM

ownedgirlie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist
Ummm...can I wear my tassles?

Oh PLEEESE do!!!

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HOT DAYUM

I am so there..........

Woohoo! Party on cam, babe!!

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