AAkasha
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ORIGINAL: BlackSakura OK, I can see possibly what the sub/slave would get from it. But as a dominant... No, just no. What I do is very hands on, I don't need visual stimulation. Ahh...there's somethign to ponder... Would there be differences in this due to gender? (Meaning that men and women think and process differently.) I always preface these kinds of posts with this: I already have a real life partner I live with, so I get plenty of hands-on, "in your face," hair pulling, ass-banging, strap-on sucking, facesitting, smothering, bondage-play bonanza or weekend kidnappings. My real life "play" is very full. But, I still enjoy engaging in other activities, and I am SUPER visual. That being said, I can really get off on making a guy submit on cam - if I am attracted to him and we also talk on the phone. I have to hear voices, breathing, whimpering, desperation in a man's voice as he endures things while I watch. I like the luxury of being able to sit back at my own desk with my vibe and get a little custom "show" -- or, save up the sexual energy and take it out on my husband later that day. Yesterday I had a hot new boytoy of mine on cam with his legs over his head, his ass plugged, jerking off until he came all over his own face. He was totally embarassed. He had girlie panties pulled down around his thighs. What's not to love? I am a femdom, though, that spends money on good m/m porn because I like to look at masculine men in really nasty, humiliation situations. If I can talk to them on the phone all the while, even better. Is this a replacement for real life? HELL NO! I would never exchange "real life" bdsm for webcam/phone, but I think with the right chemistry, it can be really hot. Akasha
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