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smilingjaguar -> RE: Is it common to be very tight after bouts of no sex for long periods of time? (12/24/2007 12:37:02 AM)
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ORIGINAL: KiandPhoenix
After my ex had her child, she had a lot of pain, and gave up sex for almost a year. When she went to the doctor he told her that when she was having sex, it was using mussels that normally we not being used, because of her lack of sex. His advice was no less than sex once a week, and the pain would eventually work itself out.
That can be really bad. I went through the same thing except I kept trying to have sex and eventually became convinced I'd never enjoy vaginal sex again. My doc told me that the pain is common, especially if the woman has to have an episiotomy during childbirth. It creates scar tissue and nerve sensitivity that you just have to break up/desensitize. He also told me that for a while I just had to deal with it at least 1 to 2 times a week or the pain would not go away. It took about 2 months of hard work after that visit (pun not intended), but things did get back to normal.
*edited because I can't type at 2 am
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