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RE: 24/7 how does it work? - 12/23/2007 9:59:44 AM

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i live in a 24/7 dynamic, and i am totally dependent on my Master/Daddy (except he does allow me to work alittle bit from home for xtra spending money and has also encouraged me to get a small job outside the house for my own mental,emotional,social wellbeing)

i am basically a housewife type.

He has joked saying that we are more like 22/7 or something LOL because he doesn't micromanage me and i can go to the store or the gym or something without having to ask permission ...Ultimately having alittle bit of freedom like that makes his "job" as my Master easier and no matter what i do or where i go i think of him and don't do things i know he wouldn't approve of...so even when i don't ask permission he is part of all of my choices.

Edited to add: i did give up alot, alot of what i knew for years, alot of my independence but i also have gained a ton....i've given up alot of stressors in my world...i've given up alot of my fears (by giving those two things up, i have gained plenty)

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RE: 24/7 how does it work? - 12/23/2007 10:36:10 AM

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Hi I was just wondering about 24/7 seven total power exchange, i am interested in the dynamics of this. Does the sub totally give up his own life (job??) and become totally dependant on the dom.

Master and I are 24/7. I did not give up my career though; perhaps if I had just had a job, he would have asked me to do so. I am also NOT dependent on him; we are dependent on each other.

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RE: 24/7 how does it work? - 12/23/2007 12:30:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: Brisub

Hi I was just wondering about 24/7 seven total power exchange, i am interested in the dynamics of this. Does the sub totally give up his own life (job??) and become totally dependant on the dom.

Greetings,

The following is my expereince, observation and belief concerning the 24/7 M/s structure...YMMV

The 24/7 M/s lifestyle comes in as many flavors as there are people who participate in it. The one constant is that the power excjange is total and constant. No time out's, no negotiation. This type of life is not something to be entered into hastily nor is it for everyone. The slave may or may not retain a job, depending on the desires of the Master. The crux upon which everything falls is the Owners will. Some may ask "what of the slave?" The slave is fulfilled intrinsically by being in such a dynamic...it's very symbiotic.

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RE: 24/7 how does it work? - 12/23/2007 5:44:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: Brisub

Hi I was just wondering about 24/7 seven total power exchange, i am interested in the dynamics of this. Does the sub totally give up his own life (job??) and become totally dependant on the dom.
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I would very much agree with Obsidiansnamaste..... 24/7 comes in a variety of formates due to the pressures of the vanilla world in which we live, it is indeed a fortunate situation to be able to go 24/7 to the exclusion of all else, my self and my Slave live 24/7 , she is branded with my mark and so needs no obvious external reminder as to who is her owner, she does -due to family comitments- hold a job and interacts with her family as"vanilla" but even then there is an underlying current between us that to the trained eye would be obvious....the biggest trouble she has is slipping into full sub mode if she senses or hears the tone of my mood or voice and interprets - more often than not correctly - that she has some how displeased me or made a small social FauPas .....but once alone in my presence we are 24/7 regardless of situation.

Its a delicate balance to tread whilst "in the world" and with time and experience becomes easier.

oh and if that dammed vanilla cone pops up again because I cant seem to make the picture/avitar display work please someone help me out ...Im not overly computor friendly and have found that flogging it seems to have no affect..sigh..

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RE: 24/7 how does it work? - 12/23/2007 5:48:34 PM

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