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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/24/2007 11:18:55 AM

ShaktiSama

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You know, it occurs to me that someday relatively soon it might be possible to open a club like this.

I bet there are a lot of hard-working young men who would love to put themselves through school as topless waiters and exotic entertainers. Why should college GIRLS make all the money?

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/24/2007 11:39:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

You know, it occurs to me that someday relatively soon it might be possible to open a club like this.

I bet there are a lot of hard-working young men who would love to put themselves through school as topless waiters and exotic entertainers. Why should college GIRLS make all the money?

Of course. I'm going to put this on my 'to do' list right under "produce and direct gay bondage film." I'm going to be busy with pet projects just as soon as I am filthy rich :)
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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/24/2007 11:44:06 AM

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

You know, it occurs to me that someday relatively soon it might be possible to open a club like this.

I bet there are a lot of hard-working young men who would love to put themselves through school as topless waiters and exotic entertainers. Why should college GIRLS make all the money?

I can't dance, but if you had a "Pit Night" or something for those of us more martially inclined...I'd fill out an application, sure. ;)

"I was young...I needed the money. *sniffle*"
"But...Dude, you were 29 and making $50,000 a year then."
"Shut up, you're ruining it!"

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/24/2007 12:38:32 PM

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I've seen some that look more like a full body dry-heave :) (leave the dancing to the girls, boys)

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/24/2007 12:43:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

You know, it occurs to me that someday relatively soon it might be possible to open a club like this.

I bet there are a lot of hard-working young men who would love to put themselves through school as topless waiters and exotic entertainers. Why should college GIRLS make all the money?

I can't dance, but if you had a "Pit Night" or something for those of us more martially inclined...I'd fill out an application, sure. ;)

"I was young...I needed the money. *sniffle*"
"But...Dude, you were 29 and making $50,000 a year then."
"Shut up, you're ruining it!"

I wonder what the male equivalent to "mud wrestling" would be?
The ladies seem to all confirm that hand-to-hand combat, fighting, martial arts are *hot*. Ok, so what if you take two really good looking guys and make them mud wrestle? Would it have the same effect?

I have a huge fetish for bondage, so I would love to see two men wrestling to get each other hogtied and see who could accomplish it. Then, the hogtied one gets to be tormented by the ladies in the audience while he is helpless, whether it be spoon feeding him, spanking him, etc.

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/24/2007 1:14:34 PM

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I'd rather watch two guys dancing together.

Anyone watch "Queer as Folks" the American version? The prom dance between Justin and Brian, oh, my goodness, so freaking hot.

But then I like male-on-male action especially if I can imagine I'm directly it and they are performing for me.

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/24/2007 1:26:48 PM

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I don't like boxing or martial arts (well, I enjoy viewing that for the skill, but don't find it hot) or any of the ultimate fighting things... Staged violence in sports like boxing do nothing positive for me, rather it puts me off. I only like hockey because the fights sometimes feel real.

But seeing two attractive men mud-wrestling sounds like fun. No interest in regular wrestling, but put two males or two females or a mix in mud and it suddenly becomes entertaining... I think the silliness factor is what makes it a good time for me.

And I have to agree on the thing TammyJo said about watching two men dance together... especially slow dancing with some intensity between them. I admit I'm totally for the hot boy-on-boy sensuality. Two men sitting and kissing like they mean it? Oh lord. One or both a little hesitant but wanting to? Double Oh Lord.

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/24/2007 2:11:40 PM

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Just goes to show you, there are all kinds of femme domme-itude. Gay sex and foreplay is so not my thing, it's not even funny. Seeing two gay guys go at it is like walking in on my parents. It's a primal scene, yes, but it is SO none of my business, I immediately want to avert my eyes and close the door...

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/24/2007 2:30:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

Just goes to show you, there are all kinds of femme domme-itude. Gay sex and foreplay is so not my thing, it's not even funny. Seeing two gay guys go at it is like walking in on my parents. It's a primal scene, yes, but it is SO none of my business, I immediately want to avert my eyes and close the door...

That's why in the "femdom club of our dreams" there would be rooms to go into. You could have your mixed martial arts over there, the guys-making-out room over there, the pillow-fight/mudwrestle bin over there...pick your poison...

Did anyone else get oddly turned on by the NHL commercial last year that had the Staal brothers pillow fighting? Not the brother-aspect of it, but two guys pillow fighting, oh my.

(Here is the commercial: http://youtube.com/watch?v=j7HZSzpBpxk&feature=related)

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/24/2007 2:59:24 PM

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I have performed many submissive lapdances. In fact, a slow, rhythmic removing of my clothes in an way aspiring to be seductive was the opening ceremony to our sessions always demanded by my ex-girlfriend/domme. The form it took was, well, not especially graceful, but the desire was there. I suppose the great thing about getting a dance from your sub would be that you can personalise in a way that a customer at a strip-club could not. So my friend gestured and made impressed noises at certain points; it tended to be in ways that the most closely imitated female strippers, such as that action where you slide your underwear off as you bend over -- don't pretend you don't know exactly what I'm talking about.

But, yeah, it's a lot of fun. If femdoms were interested in organising a club, I'd be happy to perform my way through college for them.

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/25/2007 5:11:30 AM

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Nice.

Fox will dance for me. Depending on the mood he's in it could be sexy or it could be silly. If he's looking for rougher stuff (weird coming from a non-masochist) he'll be silly or if he feels I'm a bit down he'll be silly.

A sub/slave who knew how to sexy dance would be very cool.

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/25/2007 7:47:14 AM

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A sub/slave who knew how to sexy dance would be very cool.

I agree. Dancing in general is sexy, and dancing to please is an extremely primal sexual thing. I love men who can dance.

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/25/2007 1:59:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo
A sub/slave who knew how to sexy dance would be very cool.

I agree. Dancing in general is sexy, and dancing to please is an extremely primal sexual thing. I love men who can dance.

Me too! And women also...

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/25/2007 2:45:15 PM

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I am all for the guys mud wrestling...or jello wrestling! Something slippery, anyway. Multiple rooms definitely sounds like the way to go---something for everyone!

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/25/2007 8:44:39 PM

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hmmm. In my mind I have this picture of 2 "pretty boys" wrestling in pink mud and wearing pink or purple pastel bikini briefs. yeah, that could be hot. jello?? hmmmmm there is an interesting idea too.

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/26/2007 2:38:33 PM

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hmmm. In my mind I have this picture of 2 "pretty boys" wrestling in pink mud and wearing pink or purple pastel bikini briefs. yeah, that could be hot. jello?? hmmmmm there is an interesting idea too.

Just as a side note... if you do end up having jello wrestling, don't oil the wrestlers, whatever you do... the two do something when they mix, and it's a rather unpleasant combination.... *Cough* Not that I have any experience with it, of course.

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/26/2007 5:47:12 PM

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Fm groups that have regular parties allow such an atmosphere. The service and providing amusement is a constant. The dances are not so frequent but they do occur. Within that, more often they occur as entertainment (as if on a stage) versus a lap dance.

Dances at male strip clubs seem to be more geared towards inviting hooting and laughter, and towards creating a we-are-really-getting-wild-tonight feeling than towards sensuality. In my opinion, this approach suits them more to events like a bachelorette party than to a regular clientel.

I think a man can do an effective sensual lap dance.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/26/2007 5:53:32 PM

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We await your webcam link, Sea! :)

And yes, there are some F/m parties that have that atmosphere, but only if the participants are available. Most fun at a party: the subs had to pick their underwear out of a pile and put it on without using their hands. The grrrrl won. Of Course!

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/26/2007 6:30:55 PM

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We await your webcam link, Sea! :)

Aha! So now I know who sent that email recently asking if I had a webcam!

Just kidding ;-)

Several years ago there was a class about how to do a lap dance at the meeting of a submissives' group. When the presenter asked if I would be there, I told her the meeting seemed to be geared more towards M/f and I might skip it. She encouraged me to prepare something geared for F/m and so I did ;-) I then did the dance I prepared at an F/m party a couple of times.

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And yes, there are some F/m parties that have that atmosphere, but only if the participants are available. Most fun at a party: the subs had to pick their underwear out of a pile and put it on without using their hands. The grrrrl won. Of Course!

Yes, the participants make the party. I think it adds to the party when the participants put energy into the party via what they bring as food items (good food and good music always add to a party), what they wear, how much they participate in the theme, and how much or not they are adding to the party. Parties I have attended have included these activities: human christmas tree decoration, sub talent show, auctions, crossdresser fashion show and pageant (they were asked questions like how they would make the word better for womankind, etc), and educational seminars.

In a few minutes I am going to go try to put on my underwear without using my hands just for fun ;-)

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: The male submissive lapdance: What would it look li... - 12/26/2007 7:32:00 PM

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I don't like boxing or martial arts (well, I enjoy viewing that for the skill, but don't find it hot) or any of the ultimate fighting things... Staged violence in sports like boxing do nothing positive for me, rather it puts me off. I only like hockey because the fights sometimes feel real.

But seeing two attractive men mud-wrestling sounds like fun. No interest in regular wrestling, but put two males or two females or a mix in mud and it suddenly becomes entertaining... I think the silliness factor is what makes it a good time for me.

And I have to agree on the thing TammyJo said about watching two men dance together... especially slow dancing with some intensity between them. I admit I'm totally for the hot boy-on-boy sensuality. Two men sitting and kissing like they mean it? Oh lord. One or both a little hesitant but wanting to? Double Oh Lord.

I could certainly go for the mud-wrestling...especially if it was done as the Greeks traditionally competed in the games...wearing only what the gods gave them at birth.

Yeah...I'd buy a ticket.

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