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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 6:10:26 PM

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So now I can't even avoid Christmas on m 'who's viewing me' collarme page. Thanks a lot.

You are so welcome!

Gotta hand over the phone now, there's a guy named "Marley" who says he needs to talk to you.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 6:19:07 PM

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I like it, except when it's my Mom, and I'm giving a big speech for a global conglomerate.

Really? i thought your mom was pretty good at it. Dif'rent strokes for dif'rent folks, i guess.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 6:25:09 PM

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So now I can't even avoid Christmas on m 'who's viewing me' collarme page. Thanks a lot.

You are so welcome! Gotta hand over the phone now, there's a guy named "Marley" who says he needs to talk to you.

He's already been round tonight, and I'll tell you what I told him: if Tiny Tim really is so diminutive, why does he need me to buy him the biggest turkey in the shop? Surely a boy of his stature can survive on the weeds and dead rats provided free of charge (against my better judgement) by the pavement of London streets. Your hat considered, I will need to see a full cost/benefit analysis of any celebration before I consider it.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 6:29:29 PM

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It is flattering, and I don't care if the person is hot or not. That is not to say that it would get them anywhere.
The night I was introduced to Phoenix she came at me fairly hard. She was at one point in only a button down shirt and panties, and was facing me slowly undoing the shirt. I felt like I was being treated like a piece of meat, and it got her no where. In fact I told my roommate the next day that I would never date a woman like her.

I like a relationship to be based on more than something sexual, and insist that I actually like the person I am with. I don't do casual all that well, and really prefer something serious, so go ahead and check me out, but treat me like a person or else you are not going to get anywhere near what you might be thinking about.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 9:10:57 PM

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Well I have been whistled at, I have been stared at pulling up somewhere on the Harley with leathers on. I have been propositioned just because my braided hair reached my ass, that my beard was longer than ZZ Tops and I have more ink on me than a 3rd grader let loose in the supply closet. How did it make me feel? I felt degraded, violated, it made me feel "dirty" being looked at as just a fuck toy.......pfffft....who am I kidding, I'm a guy!.....what was the question again?

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 9:15:17 PM

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here is my handle;
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When I get all steamed up;
here me shout;
just tip me over;
and pour me out.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 10:55:33 PM

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yes. this is why I love hanging with gay dudes, too - great for my ego.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/25/2007 3:56:29 AM

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This is an offshoot of an earlier discussion, but one I thought would do better in its own thread. In that thread we discussed the ethics of sexually objectfying others without them knowing about it.

I'm interested to hear how men feel about being sexually objectified by a woman. Some examples:

1. You know a woman is checking you out. She's look at your ass and whispering to her friends. It's probably not unlikely that she may be fantasizing about you.
2. Women in a convertible see you on a corner and lean out to whistle at you and tell you that they think you are hot.
3. A very attractive boss seems to enjoy making you get things from the lowest filing cabinet and you catch her staring at you.
4. Your dentist or doctor seems to linger a little and give commands that seem to be on the edge of normal, seemingly to see you in various positions.

Do these, or other similar scenarios, offend you or flatter you?
Does it make a difference if the women are "HOT" vs. very average?

Akasha

It works wonders for me. It doesn't matter how she looks so much as how she carries herself. If she is confident and bold, she could probably have me.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/27/2007 2:03:14 PM

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Akasha,

I love being objectified in a sexual manner and it does not matter if the women are hot or average or below average. Any female that takes the time to show appreciation for a 46 year old man who keeps himself in shape is great to me. In no way does it offend me! Now, how can I get objectified by Akasha, that is the better question. Dreams and more dreams.

Tom

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/27/2007 2:41:57 PM

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yes. this is why I love hanging with gay dudes, too - great for my ego.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/27/2007 2:46:45 PM

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Gotta say...it's something that i can only get into if it's from someone i might also be interested in...when i was in my 20s, it happened a lot...but mostly from gay men...nothing wrong with that, but not my cuppa tea either....

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/27/2007 2:51:59 PM

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Could there ever be anything more flattering?....NO!....
To be leared at by a woman who knows exactly what she wants...and what she wants is Me!.....LOVE EVERY MOMENT OF IT!
Want more of it....often....daily...momentarily!!!!....ALWAYS!

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/27/2007 4:55:12 PM

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Weather they're hot or average makes no difference to me. I would be very flattered by being the object of their attention with respect to 1 and 2. As for 3 and 4, I would start to get extremely aroused and might let my imagination run wild. I would probably have to find a way to "get off" afterward.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/27/2007 5:04:05 PM

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Do these, or other similar scenarios, offend you or flatter you?
Does it make a difference if the women are "HOT" vs. very average?

Ahhhh, the good ol' days. Things like that used to happen to me.

If it happened today, I'd probably name them in my will.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/27/2007 5:41:54 PM

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