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juliaoceania -> RE: BBW and rejection (12/25/2007 8:18:00 PM)
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I think it is rude to assume that you are so desired that every person that contacts you wants you. I agree that most are being disrespectful, but get over yourself. Not EVERYBODY that contacts you has that intention.
If you have been told to email the dominant instead of the submissive and are told that your email will be deleted before it is read, I do not think it is assuming anything at all.. it is telling someone that they can disrespect your wishes, but you are not going to suffer their intolerance and disrespect by reading the emails... is it really that hard to read a profile and do the respectful thing and email the dom?
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I rarely contact anybody, because I am not looking online for a partner, BUT when I do feel the need to initiate contact, my 1st line usually says something like " I mean no disrepect to you or your Sir and I am not trying to hook-up with you." I then state why I have contacted them. To simply "delete not read" could cause you to miss out on a worthwhile conversation or bit of information.....unless you already know everything.
So basically you think that you are so special that we subs that are taken should go against the expressed wishes of our dominants and contact you back? Um, nope, not going to do that. In my view if you read the profile and emailed a submissive that states unequivocably that she is not allowed to respond to you, that is the epitome of rudeness. Now a dominant on these boards might email me something about a post never reading my profile, and I will respond back if I recognize the nick, but someone I do not recognize from the forums really should have enough respect as to not disrespect my relationship... and I think herjira's master has warned people what he will do, and has followed through on it. She is his property, her emails are his property, and he can delete them sight unseen, and it has nothing to do with her assuming anything about those emailing her... she doesn't decide.. she is the slave, remember?
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This world is populated with other people who, quite often, will act inappropriately. Do you go out in public? Maybe to a mall or a restaraunt? Do you wear a scarf over your face and sunglasses, to protect yourself form unwanted attention, or to protect your Sir from being disrespected by someone else finding you attractive?
Being in a vanilla atmosphere is a lot different than a community one. If I was in a club and some dominant came up to me and came on to me I would direct him to talk to my Daddy, if he did not respect this I would find my Daddy and alert him to the situation. If I could not locate my Daddy I would tell the DM. Vanilla men notice me, if one came up to me and started a conversation while checking out my breasts and ass I would find that rude and not talk to that person. If they asked me out in a vanilla atmosphere I tell them I am seeing someone exclusively. I do not feed men coming on to me in vanilla circumstances too...and they can admire me from my pictures, and they can compliment my Daddy on his possession, what I ask they not do is come on to me...
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