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MsPurrmeow -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/21/2005 12:06:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jacen I need some ideas of what to do with a girl with a good deal of gymnastics and flexibility training... I'm sure theres all sorts of fun and wicked things I can do to use that to my advantage, but I am not sure just what at the moment :) Honestly, a great level of flexibility can be appropriately used in all of those flourishing service positions that so many just dream of being able to achieve. Look into formal service traingin positions. If you and her can get into objectification or humiliation play, maybe she can "perform" for you with an erotic gymnastics routine. (Yeah, folks, tell me you didn't have pervy ideas at a young age about how those floor routines could get VERY hot.) Again on the objectification and erotic humiliation, you could have scenes in your local community where she serves as a dress-up doll or furniture. Many types of bondage that can be found with a search through the web for the most photogenic are simply not possible for regular people. Having a limber and flexible partner allows you the opportunity to make some of them work. Many of these are more advanced, but just to point out opportunities... http://www.houseofgord.com/home.php Have fun with it. Please don't assume, though, that a person that is flexible doesn't need stretching and warmup, tohugh. That's a major cause for injuries. Purr (Who just likes a kitty flexible enough to show off a kitty stretch and stay in sitting position at her feet.)

pinkpleasures -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/21/2005 12:59:32 PM)
quote: In geek circles, it's generally a person who obsesses over anime - to the point of collecting every imaginable product, DVDs and manga and keychains and signed cels, memorizing every line, devoting themselves entirely and in an unhealthy manner to the cause. Veav What is "anime"? What is "manga"? Could You do a "10 new words day -- expand Your vocabulary" column for people like me? Am i missing this information due to blondage...or what? ROFLMAO pinkpleasures

pinkpleasures -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/21/2005 1:08:35 PM)
quote: I mean that once Veav is deemed indecent, whoever is in his presence can expect whatever comes... So he can choose when he will be decent and when he will behave in a depraved (I mean within RACK) manner with his lady, and she wouldn't be surprised. If I'm in a room with someone who's been deemed indecent, I'm pretty much open to what will be (except in my case, it means he's pretty much consenting to whatever I come up with) M BlkTallFullfig Are You pulling my leg? i assume You are referring to public play...do You honestly mean Men grab woman -- and women are presumed to have given consent to ANYTHING because they entered the room????? This is the exact opposite of what i have been told -- that there is great security and no man puts his hands on a woman without her EXPRESS consent. You have scared me off the "local scene" for good. No f**king way am i putting myself in the danger/position descibed by You, BTFf. i have a real phobia about being touched by strangers, expecially by men i do not know. BTW, what is "RACK"? pinkpleasures

girl4you2 -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/21/2005 1:12:13 PM)
ballet would serve to possibly strengthen different muscles that would allow her to maintain the positions that she can do while stretching. it would also add a bit of grace.

pinkpleasures -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/21/2005 1:12:43 PM)
quote: (Yeah, folks, tell me you didn't have pervy ideas at a young age about how those floor routines could get VERY hot.) MsPurrmeow For me it was wrestlers....o my, to be pined that way...<fans herself>..LOL. O, and Mighty Mouse, my very first love. pinkpleasures

IronBear -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/21/2005 1:35:15 PM)
quote: BTW, what is "RACK"? pinkpleasures SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) RACK (Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink) <Grinzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz> [image]local://upfiles/131423/8B4085F8C56849FA9FF764FC9B487256.jpg[/image]

CalliopePurple -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/21/2005 2:15:56 PM)
Anime - Japanese cartoons like Pokemon, Sailor Moon, and the various Dragonball series. The ones aimed at younger children are characterized by overly large eyes and hyperbolic expressions. More mature ones (like my personal favorite - Cowboy Bebop) tend to lack those features, but make up for it with superb animation. I'll also throw in a lesson about anime smileys because I use them here sometimes. ^_^ - happy @_@ - confused x_x - knocked out or dead O_o - eyebrow arched, as in curiosity O_O - surprise O_O;; or O_o;; - sweatdrop, usually means fear or worry Manga - Japanese term for comics. Tokyopop is the biggest producer of English translations and they keep the original right to left reading format. Okay, I'm going to step off my soapbox now. If you wanna know more terms, just ask and I'll step up to the fangirl plate again. Fanboy/fangirl - occasionally derogatory term used to refer to someone rather obsessed with a certain anime/video game/character.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/21/2005 3:01:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures Are You pulling my leg?do You honestly mean Men grab woman -- and women are presumed to have given consent to ANYTHING because they entered the room????? This is the exact opposite of what i have been told -- that there is great security and no man puts his hands on a woman without her EXPRESS consent. You have scared me off the "local scene" for good. No f**king way am i putting myself in the danger/position descibed by You, BTFf. i have a real phobia about being touched by strangers BTW, what is "RACK"? pinkpleasures Pink, I know you've worked with abused women, but I haven't read where you were one? Or were you? I didn't mean to touch a nerve for you. Lighten up please! When I speak about play/sex/anything from phucking to hanging by the neck or from the chandeliers (by others, not me,lol), I'm talking from my perspective which as ALWAYS involves 2 adults who care about, respect, possibly love one another, and would do anything to/for one another. Within that frame of reference for my relationship, the man in my life would be playful enough to grab me in a sexual way, and I him without always first asking "may I." RACK= Risk Aware Consensual Kink=all adults participating should know what they are doing and consent to it, or they should not be there. M

MsPurrmeow -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/21/2005 5:21:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures Are You pulling my leg? i assume You are referring to public play...do You honestly mean Men grab woman -- and women are presumed to have given consent to ANYTHING because they entered the room????? This is the exact opposite of what i have been told -- that there is great security and no man puts his hands on a woman without her EXPRESS consent. You have scared me off the "local scene" for good. No f**king way am i putting myself in the danger/position descibed by You, BTFf. i have a real phobia about being touched by strangers, expecially by men i do not know. pinkpleasures Wowzers! What way to retranslate a statement into something worth your standard over-reaction. That was a real winner!

Veav -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/21/2005 9:32:58 PM)
Hunh. This is an interesting twist - I just started with talking about the little posting rank thingies. Okay, um. I am a gentleman. Whether you want to translate this to "polite and respectful" or "lousy self-esteem", I am not a person who will walk up to a stranger and get touchy-feely. I feel that it has not been invited. Once I know for a fact that it has been invited, I crave cuddling, far more than I get, and I guaran-god-damn-tee I'll glomp someone from behind or give them a friendly grope, environment permitting. Without that understanding, that invitation, I would never make that assumption nor take that step. I value personal space, both theirs and mine. And, yes, within SSC/RACK, should the lady permit, I will get as indecent as I'm in the mood for, because it's fun for us both. It has to be, or I wouldn't get anything out of it. I get it, pink. You're scared of things. I am too, we all are at times, it's pretty natural. You're scared of a lot of things, though. If that works for you... y'know, that's fine, I'm glad. I respect comfort zones. On the other hand, your comfort zone considers me a fool for trusting others and a rapist when others trust me. Y'know... I get it, you're scared of stuff. Go be scared over that way, huh? Let me pirate threads in peace. stares at pink for a bit and then wanders off

pangaia -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/21/2005 10:18:38 PM)
Are you mechanically inclined? You could always use various "furniture" in alternative positions or configurations, or you could even construct your own or use "modular" (such as tie her limbs to different intersections of metal on a chain wall/fence) Just ideas.

RiotGirl -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/22/2005 8:47:56 AM)
oooooooo i wanna wanna be flexible. Oh aye and i'm starting to agree with voices and words and sentences i keep hearing saying "yall are nuts" Yall being this board! Lets seeeeeeeee... Felixible........... to indecent and all that jazz....... to ummm.. anime?......... to abuse and indenct touching....... to.. umm.. got the point?

pinkpleasures -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/22/2005 11:14:12 AM)
quote: quote: I mean that once Veav is deemed indecent, whoever is in his presence can expect whatever comes... So he can choose when he will be decent and when he will behave in a depraved (I mean within RACK) manner with his lady, and she wouldn't be surprised. If I'm in a room with someone who's been deemed indecent, I'm pretty much open to what will be (except in my case, it means he's pretty much consenting to whatever I come up with) M BlkTallFullfig Are You pulling my leg? i assume You are referring to public play...do You honestly mean Men grab woman -- and women are presumed to have given consent to ANYTHING because they entered the room????? pinkpleasures i take note of the non-answer regarding public play. Still waiting, boys and girls. pinkpleasures

saret -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/22/2005 11:27:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures quote: quote: I mean that once Veav is deemed indecent, whoever is in his presence can expect whatever comes... So he can choose when he will be decent and when he will behave in a depraved (I mean within RACK) manner with his lady, and she wouldn't be surprised. If I'm in a room with someone who's been deemed indecent, I'm pretty much open to what will be (except in my case, it means he's pretty much consenting to whatever I come up with) M BlkTallFullfig Are You pulling my leg? i assume You are referring to public play...do You honestly mean Men grab woman -- and women are presumed to have given consent to ANYTHING because they entered the room????? pinkpleasures i take note of the non-answer regarding public play. Still waiting, boys and girls. pinkpleasures Ok, most have not answered because they thought it was so obvious. No. Absolutely not. In NEARLY ANY public BDSM space, if a guy grabs a girl without her consent, he would be very quickly thown out. Maybe even have his membership suspended. Sheesh, pink, chill! If you're so terrified, why don't you look at the rules and regulations of the public playspace you want to go to? Talk to someone who's a member and has gone before? Don't let something some random person on the internet said run your life. Its just silly. -S-

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/22/2005 11:58:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: saret quote: pinkpleasures i take note of the non-answer regarding public play. Still waiting, boys and girls. pinkpleasures Ok, most have not answered because they thought it was so obvious. No. Absolutely not. In NEARLY ANY public BDSM space, if a guy grabs a girl without her consent, he would be very quickly thown out. Maybe even have his membership suspended. Sheesh, pink, chill! If you're so terrified, why don't you look at the rules and regulations of the public playspace you want to go to? Talk to someone who's a member and has gone before? -S- Thank You Saret for clarifying what I did think was obvious. M

pinkpleasures -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/22/2005 2:37:03 PM)
Ok, most have not answered because they thought it was so obvious. No. Absolutely not. In NEARLY ANY public BDSM space, if a guy grabs a girl without her consent, he would be very quickly thown out. Maybe even have his membership suspended. quote: Sheesh, pink, chill! If you're so terrified, why don't you look at the rules and regulations of the public playspace you want to go to? Talk to someone who's a member and has gone before? Don't let something some random person on the internet said run your life. Its just silly. -S- sarel Maybe it seems silly to you, but i am trying something new and what was said scared me. pinkpleasures

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/22/2005 2:42:04 PM)
Another note Pink you keep bringing up how things must be "public play" Public play is no different than private play except that more people are watching. If you really WANT to get into the nuances, GENERALLY more extreme stuff happens in private away from the impressionable newbies who might scream bloody murder because they don't understand or accept that what's going on is ok between the people happening and can't tell the difference between an ok scene and a not-ok scene. But really, public/private, no difference.

pinkpleasures -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/22/2005 3:51:48 PM)
quote: Another note Pink you keep bringing up how things must be "public play" Public play is no different than private play except that more people are watching. If you really WANT to get into the nuances, GENERALLY more extreme stuff happens in private away from the impressionable newbies who might scream bloody murder because they don't understand or accept that what's going on is ok between the people happening and can't tell the difference between an ok scene and a not-ok scene. But really, public/private, no difference. Emeraldslave2 Some of us seek intimacy; trust; delving deeper into the water with our One; not all of us think sleeping around and "public play" would make us happy. Some people could accept these differences amoung people and show mutual respect; others cannot. pinkpleasures

ragdoll -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/22/2005 4:14:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures Some of us seek intimacy; trust; delving deeper into the water with our One; not all of us think sleeping around and "public play" would make us happy. Some people could accept these differences amoung people and show mutual respect; others cannot. We all know which catagorey you fit into, Em. pinkpleasures i wonder why you think that "public play" and "sleeping around" are synonymous?? i'm pretty sure (though i've never been to a public play space - but it still seems "obvious" to me) that "public play" isn't "one big orgy" and "sleeping around". i'm almost 100% positive that in a public play place you don't have to play with anyone... OR you could only play with your Mistress or Master if you preferred... it would seem that there could actually be a great deal of intimacy and trust involved between a dominant and submissive who are sharing their relationship and love and devotion to each other in a public forum... then again... maybe i misunderstood what you were sayin' which is possible....... i didn't actually read through this whole topic.

luvdragonx -> RE: Flexible and gymnastic training (8/22/2005 4:22:50 PM)
Actually, ragdoll, the OP was for ideas on fun things to do with a really flexible sub. Somewhere in there, a light-hearted exchange about the forum rankings got twisted into....well, that. I want to be more flexible so I can be bound in more varied positions. Any body got advice on how to become more flexible? I've started with yoga......

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